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Old 06-25-2005, 11:11 AM  
Tala
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Originally Posted by chase
I think that in itself is a conflict...I think they want to see their women be free in many ways, sexually, but they be scared of how that translates into reality, in an everyday way....
like, ok, say you have a wild threesome with your wife and another woman, and you have a blast-it's something you always fantasized about, and it exceeded your expectations...
but, then you start to wonder if you can satisfy your wife as well as the other woman did, and every time you catch her eye falling on an attractive girl, you wonder if she wants women more, and if she and the other woman are friends, you wonder if they are secretly hooking up behind your back....
I think it's hard for men to think of their pristine wife, mother to their kids as that wanton freak behind closed doors without having some internal conflict. I think that's why porn will always exist-even for the men who have wives or girlfriends, or partners, in the case of gay men. they can satiate the need for raw, unemotional physical release without the confusion it may cause if it were their actual real life partners engaging in raw, unemotional physical release.
Most men can pretty easily separate sex and love, but those same men have a hard time accepting that some women can, too, I think.
Well said. And if a woman weighs more than "perfect" or has looks that aren't exactly "perfect", then it's harder.

Americans in general are trained early on that "thin is in" and that "overweight = disgusting." What we aren't taught is that the human body isn't made to be one size fits all. Some of us are built to be tiny, some of us are built to be large, and yes, even those of us who are fat can be healthy.

Most of the time, when we aren't seen as perfect, we simply aren't acceptable. Now this goes for men, too. Lots of times, we're not seen as people.

Now I'm a big girl, and yes I can stand to lose some weight. But I'm built on a large frame, and if I lose so much weight as to weigh what most people would think of as normal, I'd be too thin and would look horrible.

What needs more realization, IMHO, is that no matter what shape, size, age, or ethnicity, we are all human beings, and as such, are all sexual beings. All of us need love, homes, health, and a good fuck.
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