Wow, I can't believe this thread keeps popping up. Sorry for the lack of updates but I suspect that people are sick of seeing this thread and sick of my whining so I have been trying to keep from bumping it.
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No way, c'mon dude, inquiry minds want to know.Originally posted by SpaceAce
Wow, I can't believe this thread keeps popping up. Sorry for the lack of updates but I suspect that people are sick of seeing this thread and sick of my whining so I have been trying to keep from bumping it.
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I read this filipino poem and its translation somewhere...i cant really remember where. its a beautiful poem, and i hope this helps.
Untiltled
May buhay pagkatapos ng pag-ibig
(there is life after love)
gaya ng pag-angat ng matingkad na araw
(like the rising of the bright sun)
sa bukangliwayway matapos
(during sunrise after)
manaklob dito ang malamig na gabi
(the cold night had settled)
may buhay pagkatapos ng pag-ibig
(there is life after love)
gaya ng paghihilom ng agila sa bali nitong pakpak
(like an eagle who is healing its broken wing)
upang muling makapaglayag sa piling ng mga bundok
(to sail in the midst of mountains)
at makahanap ng bagong pugad
(and find a new nest)
may buhay pagkatapos ng pag-big
(there is life after love)
gaya ng patuloy na paggulong ng mga ulap
(like the continous rolling of clouds)
pagsibol ng mumunting halaman sa lupa
(the growing of tiny plants in the soil)
at pagluwal ng isang ina sa kaniyang sanggol
(and the birthing of a mother to her child)
may buhay pagkatapos ng pag-ibig
(there is life after love)
dahil itoy gaya ng pag-ikot ng panahon
(because it is like the circling of times)
hindi mo man maibalik ang kahapo
(though you cannot bring the past back)
mananatili namang sayo ang ngayon
(the present remains yours)
i am truly sorry for what had happened, and i hope that you heal soon.Comment
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Originally posted by SpaceAce
Wow, I can't believe this thread keeps popping up. Sorry for the lack of updates but I suspect that people are sick of seeing this thread and sick of my whining so I have been trying to keep from bumping it.
SpaceAce
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I'm sorry to read about your gf
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I took the energy/effort to reply because I cared.. would really like to know what's going on!
Don't leave us hanging!
I hope all's well, Ace.
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Now I am wondering.. did he go back to her? Maybe he is too ashamed to update us?Comment
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This is just like OprahComment
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yeah.. UPDATE US!
we need closure!
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"Everything between us collapsed in the course of a week."
You think that now but when you review this in your mind .A ten year bond just doesnt collapse in 7 days. There were lots of road signs, open your eyes and mindto see them so you dont do it again in your next relationship. I am sorry for your pain time will heal that, I promise it will.
Now on the other hand if this girl was your heart and soul why didnt you marry her, obviously she was building for herself a pretty conventional life so it wasnt like she was some hippy chick leading a unconventional life. Also if you were married in your heart what was the big deal to do it for real, maybe thats why she thought you were bored. 95% of the girls in the world want to marry and nest with that one special person.
When I met the girl I knew was my heart and soul, I asked her to marry me that very night. In October we will be married 5 yrs, never assume someday. Life is too short.Comment
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hey you started this
finish it dammit, updatesComment
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i totally feel this, just like everyone else who has replied.. we've all been there..
theres nothing worse than that pain you feel when the anxiety turns into that physical stabbing pain in your chest.. ive been there a few times myself..
the best advice has been said, you need to drop her out of your life 100%, pull a complete vanishing act..
ive done this before and its the best way to go, she probably will try to get you back, but you have to let her go.
a few people here say everyone deserves a second chance, this is just as bad as cheating.. cheating is the ONLY thing that does not deserve a second chance.
my parents cheated on each other at least 3 times that i know of, so maybe im biased.. but to me cheating is the most absolute selfish act someone can do besides murder.
anyone like my parents who would go out and fuck someone else knowing if they got caught it was going to hurt their partner, and their very own children is absolute shit and my beleif is someone who cheats even if their not married/have kids is capable of doing so if they do have a family.
ill go ahead and say maybe my advice isnt the best, im pretty screwed up with relationships and ive never been able to hold a steady relationship for longer than 4 weeks.. i just cant trust people and to top that off ive been cheated on by most of the girls ive went out with.
best wishes to getting over this, try to keep your mind off it, keep busy and hit the clubs and bars.
your single now, live it up.. lots of good times ahead, you cant see it yet but after you get over this you can have all the fun you want without someone to nag you about being out too late..
your a free man now.HAH! FOUND IT FRISComment
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PLEASE SpaceAce, post an update.Comment
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Even Oprah gives updatesComment
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Thats my advise too ... take some time off and find some activities that will make you think about other things. Gradually, you'll be able to re-think the situation without forcing it.Originally posted by spannow
Most importantly - don't follow anyone's advice! That being said, I've learned the hard way to never make a decision in the heat of the moment. Always follow your heart and you will never be disappointed. Let life unfold as it should - we can only control what we can control - nothing more...
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Sounds like you met a girl 10 yrs. ago who has since become a woman- obviously she has outgrown you.
She has a promising career and is probably looking towards the future. Marriage, kids, a house, financial security.
Can't blame her for thinking there are better ppospects out there than a guy who spends his days posting messages on GFY (7 + posts per day ).
Should be a wake up call for you. Grow up, start acting like a man and get your shit together.
Women want to be with MEN - not BOYS.Comment
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Just got in on this and wow, what a series of events.
Didnt read ALL of the posts, but enough.
Change is the one constant in the universe.
The one thing you have actual, real control of is your own reaction to change.
Good luck.
You've read it, you can't unread it.Comment
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Heheh, I guess it's not going to be updated
oh well..
we'll just assume (and hope) that he kept apart from her, and didn't take her back..Comment
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oh come on, you know he went back to her. You can tell by the posts that he's whipped 4 life on this chick.Comment
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on a certain level can you blame her , she worked her way thru HS and then college. He never graduated HS. She pays most of the bills, he is sitting home.Comment
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Alana was truly the thing that made my life worth living. Everything I wanted, I wanted because of her. All of my plans I planned for her. Every time I saw my future, I saw her.
Dude don't get this wrong...but maybe the problem lies in this all along...maybe what Alana wants from you is to be a person who has his own life and personality. Maybe she wants you to first find yourself for who you are as you are, not someone who has molded his life thru all the years based on her, your experiences with her, and everything about her. Maybe she wants a man she know she can take as a lover, or as a partner... and not a child she reared who's grown up...
Maybe she feels that she has grown and chganged and you are still the same you she knew from the start...lost, vulnerable. Maybe this time she wants a man she know she can rely on...confident and comfortable with himself.
I'm sorry it this sounds rather judgmental or harsh...I just want you to consider some other points...Peace!
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yeah lets hear it!Comment
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no updates?Comment
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Update SpaceAce???
I'm starting to think you took her back, didn't you. I really hope not...Comment
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Thank You SpaceAce for all your help and being there when I need someone. You were on the same page and still reached out to help another. I hope I helped you too! xoxo
SpaceAce is the coolest!!!
He is doing better and there is hope but he still needs your prayers.
I will let him give you the details...Comment
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he's had plenty of time for that, its quite obvious that he has given up on this thread.Originally posted by Angelie
I will let him give you the details...Comment
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well your story moved me mate
i do feel for ya
but if any one is honest
we cud of all put the same story up there..
and ill be honest ive done the same to women..
but when it hits u out of the blue, thats the ball cruncher
take carehahahahahahahahaha
once upon a time i had something to put here!!!!Comment
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Your mother was right. Alana had no other attitudes with men and she couldn`t appreciate that had. People without experience frequently pulls to search for other attitudes in hope, that there it will be even better.Originally posted by SpaceAce
My mother has never been my biggest fan and our relationship is strained at best. My mother is not the kind of mother who would take my side just because I am her son but when she found out about this, she said, "You're the only experience she's had with men and she doesn't know how bad it can be."
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We NEED an update
Hope all is well with you!Comment
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Dude come on, update us. A lot of people were drawn in by this saga and we need closure!
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Still waiting for you to update and tell what finally happened.Comment
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yeh we want an update! whats going on with it all?...Comment
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AIN'T THAT THE TRUTH!!! Replace her with another one and move on. When she calls you back - and trust, she will call back- tell her to hit the road. Dig420 said it so clearly...
Women are bitches and can't be trusted. Either they're fucking obsessed with you to the point you can't breathe or they could care less about you and love to torture you. There's no middle ground. I'm sure other people have had different experiences, but it seems to me that when you don't really care about a woman she'll fall terminally in love with you and turn into a psycho jealous bitch. If you really care she'll sense that and know she can get away with anything and your life will be hell until she finally loses interest and leaves you for the surfer across the street.
Another woman is the best way to get over the old woman. Don't allow yourself to sit around and get metaphysical, TRY to get out and find a new one.Comment
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I'll bump to that.Originally posted by SwordFish
Still waiting for you to update and tell what finally happened./(bb|[^b]{2})/Comment
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SpaceAce we're still waiting for the final update on what happened. 9 pages of this, we'd kinda like to know, bro.
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So so so sorry to hear that
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Bump for an update.Comment
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how are you coping now, SpaceAce?
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