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Just curious how far away from you his grandfather lives? Is it close enough for you to take the kids there yourself and drop them off? You said there will be other responsible adults there to keep an eye on them, so it sounds to me like your main safety concern is the drive there and back?
I see the issue brought up repeatedly about "You have to let him see the kids". But the focus should be on the kids and allowing them to be with their dad. Maybe he has messed up recently, and maybe he doesn't "deserve" to spend the day with them at a place of his choosing, but your girls are the ones who are going to end up hurt if you continue to be overprotective. There are viable solutions to every problem, so do whatever you can to allow them to be able to spend Father's Day with their Daddy, and put your suspicions aside for them.
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