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If my response was a little harsh to you well here's the reason..........I went thru and am still going thru crap with my ex over the kids. A lot of things you said I have heard before. It seems to me you already have it set in your mind that you will not let your kids go with him. I think you just came here thinking that if a bunch of smut peddlars agree with you withholding your kids then it has got to be ok.
You say you have no problem with him visiting the kids at your house, put yourself in his shoes. Here you are DICTATING to him how his visitation with his own kids will be?? NONONO that is NOT your place.
I take it you in in Florida? If so when you go in front of a judge over visitation you are going to get your ass handed to you by the judge. When you start throwing out the fact that he did drugs, the fact that you had your children around a drug user is going to harm you more than him. Florida statutes dictate that the NUMBER 1 factor in deciding custody and visitation is to favor the parent that ENCOURAGES and FACILITATES a healthy relationship between the children and the other parent. The old "A child is better off with the Mother" shit got thrown out years ago in Florida.
Now if you feel your children will be harmed, then you need to call Children and Families and report him for child abuse. Catch to this is that unless he has done something to put the kids in jeopardy then you are shit out of luck. You cannot withold visitation based upon what he may or may not do. Unless he has been convicted of CP or something that extreme.
You really need to talk to a attorney and fast.
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