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Originally Posted by chase
I'm about to get divorced, and we have two kids together, both girls, almost 2yo and almost 4yo. He hasn't seen the girls, paid child support, or even called them in two weeks.
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Ok. I just noticed a few things.
You mentioned that he hasn't paid child support
in two weeks. Yet, you've been seperated since February, so you're so upset that you're considering not letting him see his kids for a single 2 weeks late payment? Was he paying you weekly so that you would be able to have money every week? [I'm not sure how it is wherever you live, but aren't most child support payments sent monthly?
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Originally Posted by chase
It has actually been a very amicable separation until he's dipped out on the kids this month, so I wouldn't see that being a problem..in fact, it's pretty much what we have done every Sunday since we split up.
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Then in response to Rinaldo's suggestion that you both take them out, you said that they has pretty much been what you all have done since the breakup -- go out as a family.
Could it be that you are just upset now because as the divorce gets closer, he wants to cut you out of the activities and just do things one-on-one with his kids?
I'm not trying to be mean, but I think you might need to step back and look at your reactions to certain things a little more objectively.