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Originally Posted by JupZChris
I would not go accusing him of doing drugs unless you are 100% sure
they are his kids aswell
if he has been a good parent for the past 4 years there is not any reason you should not let him spend fathers day with his own kids
pretty damn selfish of you
you are willing to let him come see them anytime but he wants to take them tos pend a day with HIM on HIS day and you tell him no
Great way to mind fuck him
We all know why he left you now.
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Maybe you should ask for the whole story before you jump to conclusions..I asked HIM to leave, because he kept doing drugs. because he kept failing piss tests for DCF and they were threatening to take my kids away. because he wouldn't keep down a job. because he kept buying cigarettes and pot while we were struggling.
He doesn't beat them or anything, but he passes out on the couch while two toddlers are running around, and he skips baths because he's just too lazy to give them baths, and he will go out to pick up McDonald's because he doesn't want to bother with cooking a nutritious meal. I KNOW he does drugs around his kids because I'VE SEEN HIM DO IT! But then I was there to make sure the kids were cared for...if I'm not there, who the hell knows what will happen.
If HIS day is so important to him, why isn't HE acting like a father and visiting his kids, calling his kids, supporting his kids?