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Originally Posted by ronaldo
I dunno.
The most important people in this equation imo is always the kids.
Do what's best for them, even if it means swallowing your pride, or letting him look good for a day.
If you keep them away, they may resent you in the end.
If you question whether or not their SAFETY is in question, than simply tell him to piss off and fight it to the end of the world.
If you're not worried about that, then "I" think it's probably best for the kids to see him....if they WANT to see him. That's another story.
Father's day is only once a year and it's not single guy day, it's father's day because of the kids.
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Their safety is foremost in my mind..his grandfather lives right on the water and if my ex is distracted for a second, that's all it would take for my 2yo to fall in and either be in the water, or fall a few feet onto rough rocks.
However, there will be several other adults there, so that's is a bit of an assurance. I'm just not sure it's enough for me to feel comfortable with them going.
I really do wish he was responsible enough to take them for the weekend here and there..I could really use the break. I've had one weekend, my birthday, away from the kids since we split up in February. But if I have to worry about them the whole time...I dunno, it just doesn't seem worth it.