Originally Posted by chase

Well, I'm not a stripper...I'm just a mom who runs a small site so I can be the one raising my kids, instead of some day care worker.

I chose not to put myself in that situation, (not that any clubs take chubby girls, lol, but whatever), and when I began doing this, I could cloak my identity better. Suddenly that safety net has been ripped away.

Yes, I agree, if someone was very determined, they could have found me before. But now it's so much easier that it will take a less insane person to accomplish it.