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When parents are like this it really pushes their kids away. I left home when I was around 19 or so and I don't visit every often. The few times that I did it's just constant nagging.
There have been times when I visit her only once or a few times a year, even though we live around 20 min away. I think she thinks I can't take care of myself and that someone is always trying to take advantage of me or use me. She doesn't give me any credit at all. I know it bothers her a lot that I don't visit her, but perhaps if she wasn't so overbearing I would. Last time I saw her was over a year ago.
We started arguing really bad when I was in high school and they say it gets better as you get out of your teenage yrs and become an adult. Well, for me, it never got better, only WORSE. And I don't think it ever will either.
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