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Cool, it seems like you do take things seriously, and I don?t doubt you are a good parent.
Still though, don't make the mistake everyone else seems to. Treating kids like kids. They aren't kids.
They are young adults, with their own personalities, and opinions. They are people, so treat them like people.
It?s funny how everyone likes to scapegoat the parents when ?kids? do something ?wrong?.
No, sorry. While I can agree it?s the parenting to some extent?. Say if a kid was tied up and raped his entire life in a basement, and then does similar once he is on his own?. Well, who wouldn?t expect that kid to be fucked up.
On the other hand, if your kid goes through a lot of abuse in school, then suddenly shoots as many people as he can, that has absolutely nothing to do with good or bad, ?parenting?
It has 100% to do with that kid's personal life?s experience. Now, while it?s a stupid thing to do, kids are immature, and don?t look forward too far, nor have life experience to help guide them.
When will people wake up? Oh wait, never.
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