PersianKitty

Know anything of it? He's still living off a piece of it monthly.. for 8 more months. Spending every penny as fast as he gets it. He's living the proverbial 'what goes around comes around'.. he hooked up with a total basketcase and thought after I'd put up with his shyt for so many years that I'd deal with him having some on the side too. No dice. She's a <AHEM>lovely woman ..bipolar, living on welfare (now living on him) and disability (she's not disabled). Serves him right.. after the beginning of next year he'll be left with a mess of debt that he can't pay for. I just hope somehow someone tells me about all the shyt he got himself into so I can have a good laugh.

As for my 1st husband (my boys' natural father), they wanted me to contact him a couple of years ago. He has visitation rights that he rarely ever bothered with. The boys wanted to see him. Sent a letter through the State Child support office. Only way I know that he got the letter was that he took me to court to get his support (which he never has paid unless they catch up with him) reduced to $50 a month. Obviously he drove by the house and decided that the boys didn't need his money.

hehe.. I don't sound bitter and bitchy now do I.

I have storied to beat the band about my ex (the "it's not about the money" one). I can't say I wish I'd never met him because chances are I'd still be sitting in some office doing accounting for someone else and making $50K a year. Because of the shyt he was doing I hid myself behind a PC at home in the evenings and the rest is history.