What is better: The owner of a lonely heart, or a broken heart?

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  • AVM
    Confirmed User
    • Feb 2004
    • 1890

    #1

    What is better: The owner of a lonely heart, or a broken heart?

    Hard choice.

    Is it better to be oblivious/unaware to pain, yet not able to enjoy life to it's fullest extent. Or have such great times with that person, it outweights/justifies the future heartbreak.




    **In case you didn't notice, this thread was completely inspired by the Yes "Owner of a lonely heart" song.

    Owner of a lonely heart
    Much better than - a
    Owner of a broken heart
  • ShellyCrash
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    • Jun 2004
    • 6708

    #2
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    • AVM
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      • Feb 2004
      • 1890

      #3

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      • Loryn
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        • Jul 2003
        • 12853

        #4
        I think it is better to be the owner of a broke heart than a lonely heart. It's better to be experianced than it is to be unaware. IMO
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        • SmutGiant
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          • Oct 2003
          • 4896

          #5
          My girl and I just broke up about an hour ago. I really don't know what I would pick.

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          • fudpuck
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            • May 2004
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            #6
            Both suck.
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            • SlickCash Sarah
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              • Feb 2004
              • 2055

              #7
              Its better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all!

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              • rdunn404
                Confirmed User
                • Jan 2002
                • 999

                #8
                Originally posted by SlickCash Sarah
                Its better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all!
                Maybe, but as the other saying goes "you never miss what you never had".

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                • slapass
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                  • Nov 2002
                  • 14625

                  #9
                  Well I just broke a heart and she broke mine about an hour ago. I would still take it over never have tried to love.

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                  • AVM
                    Confirmed User
                    • Feb 2004
                    • 1890

                    #10
                    Originally posted by SlickCash Sarah
                    Its better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all!
                    Originally posted by rdunn404
                    Maybe, but as the other saying goes "you never miss what you never had".
                    Both statements sum up each opposing arguement nicely. But I am going to have to agree with rdunn. Love is not a necessity, but rather a want. A security blanket if you will. Perhaps that's an underestimate, but when all is said and done - Chemically, love is no more than overindulgence of chocolate.

                    To not fall deeply in love, does not inhibit you from sustaining and mainting a "fair" relationship. It does not keep you from enjoying what you do in fact have. The life you in do in fact, LIVE. While a broken heart, can leave you in shambles emotionally for years.

                    It's either aware & sad or oblivious & happy . I think the ladder of the two, as unfortunate as it is, allows you to enjoy life - Regardless of how limited/skewed your perspective is. Worth the sacrifice to be a "sheep" per se.

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                    • Diligent
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                      • Aug 2003
                      • 1594

                      #11
                      Originally posted by slapass
                      Well I just broke a heart and she broke mine about an hour ago. I would still take it over never have tried to love.
                      How about having loved, gained those experiences, including had hearts broken as well as your own...

                      What would the answer be then?
                      I think alot more in & about relations than before, a bit more critically simply.

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                      • Candice
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                        • Oct 2003
                        • 1149

                        #12
                        Originally posted by Loryn-Adult.com
                        I think it is better to be the owner of a broke heart than a lonely heart. It's better to be experianced than it is to be unaware. IMO
                        Thank you Loryn, you just saved me a few seconds posting!!!

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                        • MinX
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                          • Jun 2004
                          • 417

                          #13
                          Loneliness can be just as painful as a heart break.. At least you can enjoy the love for as long as it lasts
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                          • WombRaider
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                            • Sep 2002
                            • 159

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Loryn-Adult.com
                            I think it is better to be the owner of a broke heart than a lonely heart. It's better to be experianced than it is to be unaware. IMO
                            Well said>
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