Originally Posted by Elli

Um, might I suggest couples' counselling?

I personally think it should be a decision between both parties. Sure, she has veto power since it's her body and her health, but the baby is just as much the man's as it is the woman's.

A woman can't say 'It's mine all mine and has nothing to do with him" and then turn around and demand child support payments. That's just not right.