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From personal experience, your problems are only just starting. If her family is that ignorant then the best thing is to keep a distance (at least for a while) My wife and I have gone through unbelieveable situations with both of our families. The only way we were able to bring some kind of stability was to pull away.
Your fiance sounds like the typical asian female martyr. (I know, my wife is korean). They are a little slow at being able to stand up to parents, grandparents, sibblings etc.) You will have to work on her and basically knock some sense into her. The last thing her parents will probably want is to lose contact with her. Tell her to pull back and stop trying so hard. If she keeps reaching out to them then these problems will never end. Trust me.
Good luck man. If you love eachother then support one another and stick it out.
Her brother sounds like a piece of shit. He'll get what's coming to him, just give it time and stay away from him.
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