Why do women fall for the same type of guys that fuck them over each and every time?

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  • TheEnforcer
    Confirmed User
    • May 2001
    • 2855

    #1

    Why do women fall for the same type of guys that fuck them over each and every time?

    All right ladies, what the fuck is the deal? You have bad relationships with drunks, druggies, and ego maniacs and bitch about it but then go right back to the same types of guys you were bitching about just a short time ago!! Always some version of the "bad boy" syndrome and you always get burned by it and wonder why. Makes no damn sense to me whatsoever.
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  • MetaMan
    I AM WEB 2.0
    • Jan 2003
    • 28682

    #2
    its so they dont end up with boring posesive losers like u,
    girls want interest not some dork to treat them like in a movie, wake up and realise this, change your socks and your personality because u have no hope.

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    • scoobydookc
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      • Apr 2004
      • 193

      #3
      hehe what he said. jealousy seems to be the factor here :\

      smoke dope and act stupid :P

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      • rickholio
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        • Jan 2004
        • 1914

        #4
        Because (in my experience) women want two different men in their lives: The ones that can provide a stable home environment that they can raise children in securely (the 'marrying type') and the ones that make them feel those extremes of emotion that let them know they're alive (the 'bad boy').

        Most women will go through a lot of bad boys before settling down with a marrying type, or will vassilate between the two, or (rarely) will 'tame' a bad boy into a husband.

        Women also encounter other types of men... for example, the spineless wimp sitting there being some chick's emotional sponge is neither the bad boy NOR marrying type. He's the 'easily exploitable wussyboi'. This is the type of guy who'll hang around, labels himself a 'nice guy', and tries to hide any hint of sexuality so he can do a stealth fuck with her when her guard is down (he thinks, chances of that happening are pretty minimal). He'll probably even pay for dinner or drinks while she dumps all the baggage of her 'bad boy' exploits on him... "Oh, I fucked him stupid for like 7 times over the weekend but yesterday he was tongueing down that skank from the coffee shop blah blah boo hoo".

        Anyways, that's the closest thing I've seen to a reason why... when a chick wants a bad boy to make her feel alive, to give her that 'ovarian resonance', no wimpy little mamas boy is going to cut it. She wants to feel extreme, and the always-dependable man won't provide that... unless he's a closet psychotic or something.
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        • Jaded Chica
          Confirmed User
          • May 2004
          • 128

          #5
          Originally posted by rickholio
          Because (in my experience) women want two different men in their lives: The ones that can provide a stable home environment that they can raise children in securely (the 'marrying type') and the ones that make them feel those extremes of emotion that let them know they're alive (the 'bad boy').

          Most women will go through a lot of bad boys before settling down with a marrying type, or will vassilate between the two, or (rarely) will 'tame' a bad boy into a husband.

          Women also encounter other types of men... for example, the spineless wimp sitting there being some chick's emotional sponge is neither the bad boy NOR marrying type. He's the 'easily exploitable wussyboi'. This is the type of guy who'll hang around, labels himself a 'nice guy', and tries to hide any hint of sexuality so he can do a stealth fuck with her when her guard is down (he thinks, chances of that happening are pretty minimal). He'll probably even pay for dinner or drinks while she dumps all the baggage of her 'bad boy' exploits on him... "Oh, I fucked him stupid for like 7 times over the weekend but yesterday he was tongueing down that skank from the coffee shop blah blah boo hoo".

          Anyways, that's the closest thing I've seen to a reason why... when a chick wants a bad boy to make her feel alive, to give her that 'ovarian resonance', no wimpy little mamas boy is going to cut it. She wants to feel extreme, and the always-dependable man won't provide that... unless he's a closet psychotic or something.

          WOW
          As much as i like to disagree with guys on any of theses discussion that is sooooo true.
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          • buddyjuf

            #6
            Originally posted by rickholio
            Because (in my experience) women want two different men in their lives: The ones that can provide a stable home environment that they can raise children in securely (the 'marrying type') and the ones that make them feel those extremes of emotion that let them know they're alive (the 'bad boy').

            Most women will go through a lot of bad boys before settling down with a marrying type, or will vassilate between the two, or (rarely) will 'tame' a bad boy into a husband.

            Women also encounter other types of men... for example, the spineless wimp sitting there being some chick's emotional sponge is neither the bad boy NOR marrying type. He's the 'easily exploitable wussyboi'. This is the type of guy who'll hang around, labels himself a 'nice guy', and tries to hide any hint of sexuality so he can do a stealth fuck with her when her guard is down (he thinks, chances of that happening are pretty minimal). He'll probably even pay for dinner or drinks while she dumps all the baggage of her 'bad boy' exploits on him... "Oh, I fucked him stupid for like 7 times over the weekend but yesterday he was tongueing down that skank from the coffee shop blah blah boo hoo".

            Anyways, that's the closest thing I've seen to a reason why... when a chick wants a bad boy to make her feel alive, to give her that 'ovarian resonance', no wimpy little mamas boy is going to cut it. She wants to feel extreme, and the always-dependable man won't provide that... unless he's a closet psychotic or something.
            wow! that was a fantastic post rick

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            • graphicsbytia
              Confirmed User
              • Sep 2003
              • 2618

              #7
              I'm one of those girls that likes the "badboys" I decided to stay alone because of this

              don't need them anymore, don't want them anymore, sick of the whole deal

              being alone rocks for me now

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              • MetaMan
                I AM WEB 2.0
                • Jan 2003
                • 28682

                #8
                Originally posted by graphicsbytia
                I'm one of those girls that likes the "badboys" I decided to stay alone because of this

                don't need them anymore, don't want them anymore, sick of the whole deal

                being alone rocks for me now
                *cough* i was hurt in the past *cough*

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                • graphicsbytia
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                  • Sep 2003
                  • 2618

                  #9
                  Originally posted by MetaMan
                  *cough* i was hurt in the past *cough*
                  quit it.. lol

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                  • SykkBoy2
                    Jesus loves bacon
                    • Feb 2001
                    • 19969

                    #10
                    Originally posted by TheEnforcer
                    All right ladies, what the fuck is the deal? You have bad relationships with drunks, druggies, and ego maniacs and bitch about it but then go right back to the same types of guys you were bitching about just a short time ago!! Always some version of the "bad boy" syndrome and you always get burned by it and wonder why. Makes no damn sense to me whatsoever.
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                    • angeleyes
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                      • Feb 2003
                      • 3584

                      #11
                      Because we are pretty much stupid that way until we hit our 30's. (At least in my case).
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                      • TheEnforcer
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                        • May 2001
                        • 2855

                        #12
                        Originally posted by MetaMan
                        its so they dont end up with boring posesive losers like u,
                        girls want interest not some dork to treat them like in a movie, wake up and realise this, change your socks and your personality because u have no hope.
                        You're a fucking dumbass who will omnly find women who have AIds and want to spread it to as many guys as posible.
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                        • TheEnforcer
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                          • May 2001
                          • 2855

                          #13
                          Originally posted by scoobydookc
                          hehe what he said. jealousy seems to be the factor here :\

                          smoke dope and act stupid :P
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                          • boardersweetie
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                            • Oct 2003
                            • 1889

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Jaded Chica
                            WOW
                            As much as i like to disagree with guys on any of theses discussion that is sooooo true.
                            My thoughts exactly. Bad boys make you feel fun.

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                            • TheEnforcer
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                              • May 2001
                              • 2855

                              #15
                              Originally posted by SykkBoy2
                              women = evil

                              I had no doubt of yout answer!! LOL


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                              • alexg
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                                • Aug 2003
                                • 11287

                                #16
                                Originally posted by TheEnforcer
                                Why do women fall for the same type of guys that fuck them over each and every time?
                                because most women can be stupid and/or weird in certein periods

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                                • phogirl69
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                                  • Jul 2001
                                  • 3330

                                  #17
                                  Because somtimes women are masochists (I hope that's the right word) and like drama and turmoil in their lives. Somtimes they are used to pain and drama so much that's all they know. My ex used to treat me very bad but sometimes I wonder if I would go back with him if I had the chance, and sometimes my response scares me. I think I'm used to drama and being emotional and arguing all the time that in some sick twisted way I thrive off of it. I need help

                                  Sometimes that's all a person knows so they kind of expect to be treated badly in a relationship. Personally I think it comes from self-esteem, self-worth issues.

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                                  • BMI Lace
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                                    • Mar 2004
                                    • 16116

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by TheEnforcer
                                    All right ladies, what the fuck is the deal? You have bad relationships with drunks, druggies, and ego maniacs and bitch about it but then go right back to the same types of guys you were bitching about just a short time ago!! Always some version of the "bad boy" syndrome and you always get burned by it and wonder why. Makes no damn sense to me whatsoever.
                                    Thats all they know bro.
                                    Don't know any better.

                                    One of my ex's was into that kinda guys...yeah our relationship lasted a long time
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                                    • DESIREbyDESIGN
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                                      • May 2004
                                      • 239

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by TheEnforcer
                                      All right ladies, what the fuck is the deal? You have bad relationships with drunks, druggies, and ego maniacs and bitch about it but then go right back to the same types of guys you were bitching about just a short time ago!! Always some version of the "bad boy" syndrome and you always get burned by it and wonder why. Makes no damn sense to me whatsoever.
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                                      • Jason Fromm
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                                        • Jun 2004
                                        • 369

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by rickholio
                                        Because (in my experience) women want two different men in their lives: The ones that can provide a stable home environment that they can raise children in securely (the 'marrying type') and the ones that make them feel those extremes of emotion that let them know they're alive (the 'bad boy').

                                        Most women will go through a lot of bad boys before settling down with a marrying type, or will vassilate between the two, or (rarely) will 'tame' a bad boy into a husband.

                                        Women also encounter other types of men... for example, the spineless wimp sitting there being some chick's emotional sponge is neither the bad boy NOR marrying type. He's the 'easily exploitable wussyboi'. This is the type of guy who'll hang around, labels himself a 'nice guy', and tries to hide any hint of sexuality so he can do a stealth fuck with her when her guard is down (he thinks, chances of that happening are pretty minimal). He'll probably even pay for dinner or drinks while she dumps all the baggage of her 'bad boy' exploits on him... "Oh, I fucked him stupid for like 7 times over the weekend but yesterday he was tongueing down that skank from the coffee shop blah blah boo hoo".

                                        Anyways, that's the closest thing I've seen to a reason why... when a chick wants a bad boy to make her feel alive, to give her that 'ovarian resonance', no wimpy little mamas boy is going to cut it. She wants to feel extreme, and the always-dependable man won't provide that... unless he's a closet psychotic or something.

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                                        • Face (o_0)
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                                          • May 2004
                                          • 2617

                                          #21
                                          yup...rickholio has got it right

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                                          • NakedBo
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                                            • Jan 2004
                                            • 1614

                                            #22
                                            I don't know why, maybe because those guys look interesting and fun to be with, and when you're hooked you can't let go. If they ever find a cure for this behaviour please let me know, I'll be the first one on the test on humans list

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