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  • Aries
    Registered User
    • Jun 2004
    • 12

    #1

    I'm thinking about ending a serious relationship

    We've been together for over a year now, lately things have just not been the same. We've been fighting everyday and can't seem to get along. I'm feeling neglected and less and less important all the time. When it comes to our sex life, he's completely selfish and doesn't bother to satisfy me as long as he gets his rocks off. I've already talked to him about it, but that was months ago and things haven't changed. We both still care about each other, and I know he will promise to change things when I break the news to him, but I don't think it's going to work out. Should I stick around and try to make it work?
  • xenigo
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    • Jan 2001
    • 8067

    #2
    1 post, and this is the introduction? Welcome And, Gofuckyourself.

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    • polish_aristocrat
      Too lazy to set a custom title
      • Jul 2002
      • 40377

      #3
      hm, aside from the topic...this is your first post here, so you registered especialy to ask this question ?
      I don't use ICQ anymore.

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      • tina2
        Confirmed User
        • Mar 2004
        • 238

        #4
        Originally posted by Aries
        We've been together for over a year now, lately things have just not been the same. We've been fighting everyday and can't seem to get along. I'm feeling neglected and less and less important all the time. When it comes to our sex life, he's completely selfish and doesn't bother to satisfy me as long as he gets his rocks off. I've already talked to him about it, but that was months ago and things haven't changed. We both still care about each other, and I know he will promise to change things when I break the news to him, but I don't think it's going to work out. Should I stick around and try to make it work?

        stay away from him for a time. it would make you good! let him being alone so that he can think and realise what hes doing...

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        • eiht_98
          Confirmed User
          • Jan 2001
          • 6103

          #5
          show us your tits and I will tell you what to do

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          • MiSsBeHeaDReSs
            Confirmed User
            • May 2004
            • 534

            #6
            Originally posted by polish_aristocrat
            hm, aside from the topic...this is your first post here, so you registered especialy to ask this question ?
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            • kak_azn
              So Fucking Banned
              • May 2004
              • 3055

              #7
              he's cheating on you anyways! dump his sorry ass!

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              • Aries
                Registered User
                • Jun 2004
                • 12

                #8
                Originally posted by xenigo
                1 post, and this is the introduction? Welcome And, Gofuckyourself.
                Thanks I thought this would be better than the typical "Hi I'm new here, just thought I'd let everyone know because they're too retarded to see that I only have one post"

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                • Candice
                  Confirmed User
                  • Oct 2003
                  • 1149

                  #9
                  I don't recommend posting personal business on GFY, especially when you're new, people can be really cruel here.....FYI

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                  • Aries
                    Registered User
                    • Jun 2004
                    • 12

                    #10
                    Originally posted by polish_aristocrat
                    hm, aside from the topic...this is your first post here, so you registered especialy to ask this question ?
                    Yes I absolutely had to let it out

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                    • NiLaoMu
                      Registered User
                      • Jun 2004
                      • 12

                      #11
                      If a guy is that selfish in bed, then he needs to go, cuz you deserve better.

                      If he is under 20, give him a chance. If he is over 20, dump his sorry ass.
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                      • Aries
                        Registered User
                        • Jun 2004
                        • 12

                        #12
                        Originally posted by tina2
                        stay away from him for a time. it would make you good! let him being alone so that he can think and realise what hes doing...
                        Thanks for the wisdom

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                        • Aries
                          Registered User
                          • Jun 2004
                          • 12

                          #13
                          Originally posted by eiht_98
                          show us your tits and I will tell you what to do

                          not mine but still fun to look at

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                          • Aries
                            Registered User
                            • Jun 2004
                            • 12

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Candice
                            I don't recommend posting personal business on GFY, especially when you're new, people can be really cruel here.....FYI

                            Thanks for the advise. I can't handle any cruelty right now as I am feeling rather sensitive.

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                            • Mike-BP
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                              • Mar 2003
                              • 1270

                              #15
                              Nice, another surfer at gfy
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                              • polish_aristocrat
                                Too lazy to set a custom title
                                • Jul 2002
                                • 40377

                                #16
                                Originally posted by Mike-BP
                                Nice, another surfer at gfy
                                at least a
                                I don't use ICQ anymore.

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                                • neewwman
                                  Confirmed User
                                  • Jan 2002
                                  • 1737

                                  #17
                                  If you're hot, dump him. If you're hot, you can get someone better.

                                  I'd say post some pics of yourself in a thong and we'll all let you know if you're hot or not, but that might be insensitive.

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                                  • Lykos
                                    Too lazy to set a custom title
                                    • Apr 2003
                                    • 31027

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by xenigo
                                    1 post, and this is the introduction? Welcome And, Gofuckyourself.
                                    Agree with u,welcome

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                                    • nicchick
                                      Confirmed User
                                      • Feb 2003
                                      • 316

                                      #19
                                      Read up on Limerence
                                      http://www.fact-index.com/l/li/limerence.html

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                                      • ocho-ocho
                                        Confirmed User
                                        • Apr 2004
                                        • 1769

                                        #20
                                        give urselves time to have space & think & realize if u still do care for each other!
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                                        • AvanteGuard
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • Jan 2004
                                          • 451

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by polish_aristocrat
                                          at least a
                                          I'll agree with that, haha.

                                          Aries, in my opinion, if you still want him, I'd suggest a "break" for awhile, because if he was anything like me, he'll go running right back to you...just next time make sure you're in control.

                                          I was the exact same way with my girlfriend, I took her for granted, and I miss her so much. I've come to realize that no one can fill the void she left in my heart. Some time alone will make him remember, and make him regret. If you choose to take him back at that point, just stay in charge and don't put up with any bullshit, or it'll happen again.
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                                          • Magg
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                                            • Feb 2004
                                            • 4467

                                            #22
                                            If you're hot, dump his ass and I'll give you the best fucking sex you've ever had.

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                                            • Jennie
                                              Confirmed User
                                              • Mar 2004
                                              • 2018

                                              #23
                                              give him a break like a month so you both can think what's good for both of ya... maybe he needs some space!

                                              at that moment you may think what's best! ok?!

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                                              • TheLegacy
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                                                • Apr 2003
                                                • 18192

                                                #24
                                                thats the problem with todays relationships - if hes the guy you think you would want to spend the rest of your life with - then work out your problems - see a counsellor.

                                                If hes just the latest fuck, then drop him for someone who is best suited for you. Remember there is probably a girl out there who is looking for his style of sex and romance, your not doing either one of you a favor by staying in the relationship if your not happy.

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                                                • BillyHoe
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                                                  • Mar 2003
                                                  • 2214

                                                  #25
                                                  Why is always about me me me. You should be happy he's getting his rocks off.

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                                                  • Basic_man
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                                                    • Oct 2003
                                                    • 27360

                                                    #26
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                                                    • MiSsBeHeaDReSs
                                                      Confirmed User
                                                      • May 2004
                                                      • 534

                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by polish_aristocrat
                                                      at least a
                                                      how do you know?
                                                      Why geeks like computers: unzip, strip, touch, finger, grep, mount, fsck, ram, more, yes,fsck,fsck,fsck,umount, sleep.

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                                                      • Lucy
                                                        Confirmed User
                                                        • Mar 2004
                                                        • 3969

                                                        #28
                                                        if you really love him and take care of him and feel that he is the guy you want spent your life with him, talk to him again and tell him that you are not happy anymore, show him what you feel and what you think about to do and give him time to realize that. take your time, don't meet each other for week and than get back together and you'll see if something change or not. If still he won't realized what he's loosing, let him go...........
                                                        I know that it can be really hard, but the time will show you...and remember everything wrong for some reason.....
                                                        good luck... and welcome to the board!

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                                                        • liquidmoe
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                                                          • Mar 2002
                                                          • 4994

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by nicchick
                                                          Read up on Limerence
                                                          http://www.fact-index.com/l/li/limerence.html
                                                          Interesting read.

                                                          It's pretty straight forward, just decide if you want to try and make it work, otherwise leave the sinking ship.

                                                          The only other piece of advice I will give you is make sure that you know what you are arguing or upset about. There may be some hidden shit beneath the surface thats actually causing all of the problems that you arent entirely aware of.

                                                          Take Luck!

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                                                          • Candice
                                                            Confirmed User
                                                            • Oct 2003
                                                            • 1149

                                                            #30
                                                            Relationships can be so difficult, that's why I'm single for the first time in my life, but by choice....
                                                            You judge me for being different, I laugh because you are all the same!

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                                                            • bad_girl
                                                              Confirmed User
                                                              • Sep 2002
                                                              • 757

                                                              #31
                                                              I don't know about you, but always around the 1 year mark all hell breaks loose. I think if you can stick it through you might be surprised at the changes that may come.

                                                              Honesty is the best policy. Tell him how you feel and how you are thinking about ending it. If he doesn't care - then dump his ass and move on!


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