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  • Donny
    As you wish...
    • May 2002
    • 13754

    #1

    "Does Pornography Degrade Women?" From a Woman's Perspective...

    One of my models wrote:

    Women Posing Nude

    I have to tell you, when someone says posing nude degrades women it infuriates me. Even more so if they mention something about making women "sex objects".

    MEN once tried to force women into hiding their sexuality, with a lot of success. SOME women still let that policy run their life. I can't stand the thought of women letting the policy of men dictate what they do in life.

    So... on to posing nude. Does nudity make a woman a "sex object"? Let's see... we were born naked, we take our clothes off every day to bathe, and we can't take our clothes with us when we leave this planet. I don't understand why people in this country can't figure out what most of Europe has realized for years: there is NOTHING wrong with being naked.

    So what about posing erotically? Does THAT make a woman a "sex object"? No way! The fact is, women are sexual BEINGS. Hiding that simply gives power to the men who have told women over the years that they must behave in certain ways in order to be a "lady". The SAD thing is: even today WOMEN FALL FOR THAT LINE OF BULLSHIT!!

    So WHAT if posing nude turns a man on ?!? Sometimes a BLOWING BREEZE turns a man on. It's NOT hard to do. Have you noticed how STUPID men act when they're really turned on? So WHO is in control? The man? Absolutely NOT! A woman could tell him to do ALMOST ANYTHING at that point and he'd do it JUST TO MAKE HER HAPPY.

    I have to admit, I was nervous the first time I posed nude. I was also a little excited by the thought. Once I "pulled the trigger" and did it, I loved it! It was strangely liberating! I realized that the insecurities I had about my body were ridiculous. Why should I WANT to fit the mold that men say is the "PERFECT WOMAN"? And why did I let those ideas make me feel insecure about myself? Why?

    My final thoughts on posing nude: more women need to break free from the ignorant rules our ultra conservative society says we must follow and JUST DO IT!
  • Meta Ridley
    Confirmed User
    • Sep 2003
    • 3433

    #2
    I think a better question is:

    Where did she find the time between getting naked and her kitchen duties to write this?
    [email protected]

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    • Holly
      Too lazy to set a custom title
      • Jun 2003
      • 10017

      #3
      Degrade *all* women? No.

      Degrade *some* women? Yes. But only the ones who allow it.
      War National Damn Champions Eagle

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      • bluff
        Too lazy to set a custom title
        • Jan 2004
        • 6253

        #4
        Originally posted by Meta Ridley
        I think a better question is:

        Where did she find the time between getting naked and her kitchen duties to write this?
        hahahhahaha


        No, seriously, thanks for the good article

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        • bluff
          Too lazy to set a custom title
          • Jan 2004
          • 6253

          #5
          Originally posted by Holly
          Degrade *all* women? No.

          Degrade *some* women? Yes. But only the ones who allow it.
          sexeducatoon?

          LOOOOOL!

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          • bluff
            Too lazy to set a custom title
            • Jan 2004
            • 6253

            #6
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            • aimeesweet
              Confirmed User
              • Oct 2003
              • 2917

              #7
              I competely agree with what your model wrote...personally I found posing nude to be a sexually liberating experience. Although there are many vocal critics of my chosen career, I love my job and I am very proud of who I am both personally and professionally. The people who matter most to me do not let societies puritanical views about posing nude shape their opinion of me as a person...God bless them for that!!!

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              • Holly
                Too lazy to set a custom title
                • Jun 2003
                • 10017

                #8
                Originally posted by bluff
                sexeducatoon?

                LOOOOOL!
                That's a very serious and well respected sexual education site. It's cited in the works of some of the most premier minds in sex education, you know.
                War National Damn Champions Eagle

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                • FlyingIguana
                  aspiring banker
                  • Mar 2002
                  • 10870

                  #9
                  lets all go run around the street nekked

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                  • Mr Pheer
                    So Fucking Banned
                    • Dec 2002
                    • 22170

                    #10
                    Originally posted by FlyingIguana
                    lets all go run around the street nekked
                    no fucking way... most people in the USA are overweight

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                    • Kimmykim
                      bitchslapping zebras!!!!!
                      • Jun 2001
                      • 16015

                      #11
                      Originally posted by aimeesweet
                      I competely agree with what your model wrote...personally I found posing nude to be a sexually liberating experience. Although there are many vocal critics of my chosen career, I love my job and I am very proud of who I am both personally and professionally. The people who matter most to me do not let societies puritanical views about posing nude shape their opinion of me as a person...God bless them for that!!!
                      As cute as you are Aimee, you've got nothing for people to be critical of!

                      As for the rest of it, if there were not girls that would pose nude among other things, everyone here who actually works in the industry would be working somewhere else...

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                      • NakedBo
                        Confirmed User
                        • Jan 2004
                        • 1614

                        #12
                        Originally posted by Holly
                        Degrade *all* women? No.

                        Degrade *some* women? Yes. But only the ones who allow it.

                        I totaly agree with you

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                        • wyldblyss
                          Confirmed User
                          • Nov 2003
                          • 5779

                          #13
                          Well, posing nude...couple of toys...no

                          Some of the shit I have seen? Hell ya!! The video where the guy calls this chick a bitch and shoves her head in a toilet? Some of the video content is in my opinion made to degrade women to appeal to those men who get off on shit like that.

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                          • FlyingIguana
                            aspiring banker
                            • Mar 2002
                            • 10870

                            #14
                            Originally posted by MrPheer
                            no fucking way... most people in the USA are overweight
                            fat people need lovin too!

                            maybe people would take care of themselves a bit more, i doubt it tho

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                            • samuel
                              Confirmed User
                              • Mar 2004
                              • 1986

                              #15
                              your model is stupid... fuck her.. why she was doing that?

                              Samuel

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                              • warlock5
                                Confirmed User
                                • Jan 2004
                                • 2808

                                #16
                                If porn is degrading to women, why isn't it degrading to men?

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                                • lazycash
                                  Troll Patrol
                                  • Aug 2002
                                  • 15214

                                  #17
                                  Maybe not posing, but I tend to think a woman getting slapped around on a double anal gang bang is being degraded.
                                  "WTF, on google you can find the answer to every question in human history, EXCEPT how to convert cams..

                                  Its crazy..."

                                  VenusBlogger

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                                  • MiSsBeHeaDReSs
                                    Confirmed User
                                    • May 2004
                                    • 534

                                    #18
                                    Good article, poorly written...
                                    I like what she has to say though, it's all a question of context. Some porn is degrading to women, but hey, the women allow themselves to be degraded.
                                    Either way, everyone in the united states is just waaaay too uptight about nudity. When i first moved here I was shocked.
                                    Why geeks like computers: unzip, strip, touch, finger, grep, mount, fsck, ram, more, yes,fsck,fsck,fsck,umount, sleep.

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                                    • aimeesweet
                                      Confirmed User
                                      • Oct 2003
                                      • 2917

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by Kimmykim
                                      As cute as you are Aimee, you've got nothing for people to be critical of!

                                      As for the rest of it, if there were not girls that would pose nude among other things, everyone here who actually works in the industry would be working somewhere else...

                                      Thanks Kimmy, you're an angel like always!

                                      xoxo

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                                      • SureFire
                                        Confirmed User
                                        • Jan 2003
                                        • 4398

                                        #20
                                        "Does Pornography Degrade Women?" From a Woman's Perspective...

                                        Posing nude doesn?t degrade a female.

                                        However, just think you are a naïve gorgeous female and you pose nude for a few bucks and your pictures are all over the internet, Victoria Secrets tells you that you are perfect but you exposed yourself in the wrong area?just lost a very good paying gig.

                                        Or another scenario, in college you do a porn shots for some money and go into corporate land. Your job is secure and you are loving it till your boss says he/she needs to talk to you and gives you a glowing recommendation (male or female)?out of job.

                                        Once again, there is nothing wrong with posing nude, but one takes the responsibility of their choices in the society they live in.

                                        BTW, seeing a female choking on a cock and being fucked in both holes, IMO, is degrading for the female and the males.

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                                        • Kimmykim
                                          bitchslapping zebras!!!!!
                                          • Jun 2001
                                          • 16015

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by aimeesweet
                                          Thanks Kimmy, you're an angel like always!

                                          xoxo
                                          Let's hang out some this weekend my little chickadee

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                                          • Babaganoosh
                                            ♥♥♥ Likes Hugs ♥♥♥
                                            • Nov 2001
                                            • 15841

                                            #22
                                            The women's lib movement invented the cumshot.
                                            I like pie.

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                                            • the indigo
                                              Confirmed User
                                              • Sep 2001
                                              • 2016

                                              #23
                                              This is an entertainment industry. Stop taking everything so seriously.

                                              A double anal + gagging might look degrading if you take the film and all the actors seriously... THE EXACT SAME WAY as if you go see an action film from hollywood tonight and take every murders or hard scene seriously.

                                              It's degrading in the eyes of the someone who likes to degrade. A porn film presents nothing but acting, and girl(s) in each scene are only doing their jobs as actors. Males buy porn to satisfy their male instincts. It's all natural. Do you prefer them to cheat on you and go get their blowjob somewhere else?

                                              Do you think getting paid 30k per year to do paperwork is different? No... you're still 'exploited' in some way. If they pay you 30k per year, it's only because they make 40k with you.

                                              We are all exploited in a way or another, so chill out, and remember, the adult industry is an entertainment industry.

                                              "There he goes. One of God's own prototypes. A high-powered mutant of some kind never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die." -Hunter S. Thompson

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                                              • MakeMeGrrrrowl
                                                Grrrrrrrrr
                                                • Oct 2002
                                                • 4984

                                                #24
                                                It's not degrading to me. Only the actions of the women in the porn could make it degrading...and that's their choice.

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