When pushing dating sites, you must realize that you are selling a fantasy to the surfer.
Keep in mind that they fantasize about meeting a real person, also keep in mind that a very high number of men will actually use dating sites to try to meet other men

So, when you write text links, try to use those elements.
I tried this; "Wanna suck another guy? It's ok, lots of guy do, click here to live your fantasy discreetly" as corny as it sounds, the link works quite well with the bi-curious crowd...
AdultDateLink has many niches for you to promote including the gay dating niche
