Giving porn that personal touch.

So.. my question is.. do you feel by making your site more 'personal', it helps keep people coming back?

ie; like thehun. right at the top of his page he has 'Keep sending in your mail everybody! You always make my day with that!!', whereas a place like bunnyteens is just straight up porn.

also, members areas.. how would/do you announce new content? with just a "new girls click here too see them" or something like "we had a blast shooting them, these girls are crazy..etc.. hope you'll enjoy them.."

is it just a matter of personal preference of the webmaster, or could it make the surfer more trusting, like there's actually someone there you can contact if you need something