Originally Posted by WarChild

Okay same question, but with a twist.

Say your boyfriend/girlfriend was truly your soul-mate and you knew this. You really wouldn't want to live without them, and the relationship seemed just perfect. You two decide to get married but your partner is deathly allergic to your pet.

So they tell you "I love you, I want to marry you and live with you forever, but I can't live in a state of allergic attack all of the time. I've never said anything while we were dating because it's your place, your pet, and I can handle it once or twice a week. If we're going to live together though, I really can't have pets in the house."

Would that change the situation for you, at all?