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05-23-2004, 07:43 PM

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i've been there, man. keep your chin up! best luck to the both of you. like mom always told me "when one door closes, another opens"

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05-23-2004, 08:11 PM

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Fuck man.
Just be prepared for when she comes crawling back to you. And she will do this.
It will be tough, but you need to tell her no.

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05-23-2004, 08:36 PM

man, i really dont know what to say to you
the only thing i can see i that time will help...., take some vacation and go away from anything that can remember you her.
Try to find a girl when you will be ready to, it will help you

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05-23-2004, 08:53 PM

that sucks man...
i know its tough, but all you need to do right now is get her out of your life as quickly as possible and forget her.
throw away everything that reminds you her, pictures, presents etc.
concentrate on work, go out, meet new people.
tell yourself that you are happy, repeat it 30 times 3 times a day, write it.
thats the only advice i can give you dude, im pretty sure you won't take it, its easier said than done.
hope you feel better.
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05-23-2004, 09:26 PM

Sorry to hear that bro
It really sucks when u lost some1 u love
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05-23-2004, 09:41 PM

A very similar situation happened to a good friend of mine. She left him for another guy, then moved to Texas with the other guy. She found out she couldn't stand the other dude and came back begging.

The good news is, they got over it and are now married with 2 kids and a new house.

There is hope.
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05-24-2004, 07:46 AM

so its monday now, what happened when she came home???
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05-24-2004, 07:49 AM

Sorry to hear that spaceace!

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05-24-2004, 08:08 AM

[QUOTE]Originally posted by dig420
[B]Women are bitches and can't be trusted. Either they're fucking obsessed with you to the point you can't breathe or they could care less about you and love to torture you. There's no middle ground. I'm sure other people have had different experiences, but it seems to me that when you don't really care about a woman she'll fall terminally in love with you and turn into a psycho jealous bitch. If you really care she'll sense that and know she can get away with anything and your life will be hell until she finally loses interest and leaves you for the surfer across the street.

Seems like you too have been spited by a woman! Not all women are like this, and lets not forget men can be just a big of an asshole.

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05-24-2004, 08:12 AM

Welcome to the real world my friend

Sounds like she was getting bored and/or wondering what else was out there... I think a lot of people that get into those "Always & forever" relationships in high-school can't help but to be curious at some point in their lives, and some people can't help to act on that curiosity.

In a situation like that, you just gotta let it run it's course and understand that it's just human nature.

If your relationship was as comfortable as it sounds, then no doubt she'll be back eventually.

Be sure to enjoy this freedom while you can.... for more reasons than just to experience new women.

If your girl left you because things were getting too boring and predictable, you sulking and whining about it is just going to make it less appealing for her to come back to the same old predictable SpaceAce.
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05-24-2004, 08:15 AM

[B]

Originally posted by dig420
... Either they're fucking obsessed with you to the point you can't breathe or they could care less about you and love to torture you. There's no middle ground.

I beg to differ.

It's called manic depression / bi-polar disorder.

That is where you get a nice extreme mix/swing of both of the above!
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05-24-2004, 08:48 AM

I'm sorry that you're experiencing that kind of pain now

Just keep talking about it...otherwise those kinds of emotions have no where to go -- and they end up eating you from the inside out. There's nothing like this kind of grief, but it does get better -- as long as you find ways to get all those feelings out. And, at the end of that process you're going to find a strength in yourself that you never knew existed....

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05-24-2004, 09:03 AM

Late to the thread but sorry to hear about that guy. It sucks now and even might hurt a little more for a short bit after this but soon you'll reach a point where it hurts a little less each day to the point where, while the pain never TRULY goes away as there is always a little pain left, you learn to accept it and move on with your life.

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05-24-2004, 09:03 AM

SpaceAce..

Pack your shit, and go back to Cleveland, or a new place in Vegas, anywhere but there. When she gets back and finds you unavailable, after a few days the burdens of her mistakes may finally take their toll. If not, just never stay in contact with her. She just ripped your heart out, beat it to a pulp with a bat, took a shit on it, and put it back into you. You must show her how she hurt you, don't just let her feel like she can come back at anytime, even if you want that.

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05-24-2004, 09:14 AM

Im right there with you and, I feel you, it takes a good person to love and, it takes and even better person to hurt but it takes a great person to ADMIT IT!
Nothing anyone will say right now will make things better and, the only way you will feel better is when she is replaced, you are lonely and you are thinking about it,......
What hurts most is the fact that you spent all this time giving yourself and showing the real you, and the real you can be dismissed so easily...
Time might make the difference, either to help you forget, or to make her realize what she is missing, but if you are going for plan b, then dont call, dont write, just ignore her as long as she is set in her false sense of security that she can have you back if things dont work out she will go out there and use you as the person to fall back on!
make her think youre ready to move on and close that chapter and she will run back to you REAL FAST!
In the meantime FEEL BETTER!
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05-24-2004, 09:14 AM

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Keep your head up and remember what Tupac taught us:

Bitches ain't shit.

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05-24-2004, 09:30 AM

i feel for you really, I can picture how you look like rite now, how you feel deep inside, I know its painful coz Ive been there, it seems its the end of the world, you made her your life, and your life exist on her, she is the air that you breathe, and now that she is gone, you feel that there is no reason for you to live, but believe me, time will heal all the wounds, good thing you posted what you feel right now, it helps right? Although things are black & white as of now.... you can get up, you have to bounce back, be firm & fight remember, one you hit the rock bottom there is no way to go but up.
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05-24-2004, 10:07 AM

My fiancee broke up with me last Christmas eve. I felt the same way dude. I have no idea why women are never content with something. I've come to know the same pain that goes with failed relationships. All you can do is forget them and find your way back to your path.
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05-24-2004, 10:16 AM

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Fuck man, I am really sorry to hear that. I know exactly what you're going through though, it's funny how one woman can make life so great then turn around and make it miserable.

I feel your pain.

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05-24-2004, 10:21 AM

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05-24-2004, 12:30 PM

Originally posted by skillfull
man, i really dont know what to say to you
the only thing i can see i that time will help...., take some vacation and go away from anything that can remember you her.
Try to find a girl when you will be ready to, it will help you

hope you will feel better

I know what you're saying but frankly, there is nowhere I can go where I won't be reminded of her. Air reminds me of her. As many people are saying, I think it's going to be time that fixes this or else nothing will.

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05-24-2004, 12:30 PM

Originally posted by Oracle Porn
that sucks man...
i know its tough, but all you need to do right now is get her out of your life as quickly as possible and forget her.
throw away everything that reminds you her, pictures, presents etc.
concentrate on work, go out, meet new people.
tell yourself that you are happy, repeat it 30 times 3 times a day, write it.
thats the only advice i can give you dude, im pretty sure you won't take it, its easier said than done.
hope you feel better.

Thanks, Oracle Porn. See my last post re: forgetting her. Like you say, easier said than done.

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05-24-2004, 12:31 PM

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Sorry to hear that bro
It really sucks when u lost some1 u love

Yeah, I guess it was just my turn.

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05-24-2004, 12:35 PM

Originally posted by DonovanPhillips
A very similar situation happened to a good friend of mine. She left him for another guy, then moved to Texas with the other guy. She found out she couldn't stand the other dude and came back begging.

The good news is, they got over it and are now married with 2 kids and a new house.

There is hope.

I am afraid something like that will happen to my ex-grilfriend. I am glad that things worked out for your friend but I am not sure I could ever make things work with my girl, now. For me, the trust I had for her and she for me was of utmost importance. I trusted her to always be honest with me and I always expected that when something was wrong, we would work it out. In this case, she was not honest with me and, although she waffled and said "maybe" for a month, in the end she refused to give me so much as an opportunity to show her that she was wrong about the things she had been keeping to herself. I don't know that I could ever trust her the way I need to in order to have a really solid relationship.

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05-24-2004, 12:36 PM

Originally posted by MickeyG
so its monday now, what happened when she came home???

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05-24-2004, 12:36 PM

Originally posted by Basic_man
Sorry to hear that spaceace!

Thanks, Basic_man.

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05-24-2004, 12:39 PM

strange is that girls are able to forget about anything nice in few minutes.I think guys can love more deeply - meaning truly.
Had the same feeling after 7 years with my the best girl.But true is that I made some mistakes so I don't want to blame her
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05-24-2004, 12:46 PM

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05-24-2004, 12:48 PM

That sucks man! But in the end you will get over her, and she will realize that you are the best for her.........

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05-24-2004, 12:49 PM

I am very very sorry man, i can imagine how hard has to be this for you right now. I feel with you honestly!
I am a woman and I can tell you that she has no idea......how great you are and there is a lots of another women whose appreciate you, but hey don't loose your hope! One day she will realize what she lost and then it will be just up to you......

I know that this is really hard time for you and I hope that we can help you ( at least little bit), take your time, time will show you the rights,but don' t loose the chance and hope!!!

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05-24-2004, 12:51 PM

Originally posted by goBigtime
Welcome to the real world my friend

Sounds like she was getting bored and/or wondering what else was out there... I think a lot of people that get into those "Always & forever" relationships in high-school can't help but to be curious at some point in their lives, and some people can't help to act on that curiosity.

In a situation like that, you just gotta let it run it's course and understand that it's just human nature.

If your relationship was as comfortable as it sounds, then no doubt she'll be back eventually.

Be sure to enjoy this freedom while you can.... for more reasons than just to experience new women.

If your girl left you because things were getting too boring and predictable, you sulking and whining about it is just going to make it less appealing for her to come back to the same old predictable SpaceAce.

I know you mean well and I appreciate most of what you've said, but I have to take exception to the idea that I am just now being introduced to the "real world". I've been taking care of myself (with Alana at my side) since I was just barely eighteen. I've slept on benches, lived with crackheads, eaten in soup lines, barely kept from freezing to death wrapped in blankets in a broken down car in the Cleveland winter and a million other things. I've seen more of the "real world" than most people will ever know. My life hasn't been so bad and there are people who have dealt with much worse but I am hardly some doe-eyed naive kid. It's not that I am incapable of dealing with hardship; I have seen plenty of rough times from not having enough to eat to having what little family life I had destroyed by drugs, alcohol and spitefulness. What makes this so hard is that while all these other things were going on (well, all of them that happened after I met Alana), I always had one rock in my life, someone who loved me and really wanted to help me make things work. Because of the things I went through, Alana couldn't always be there physically but just knowing she was out there somewhere made anything bearable.

Boredom wasn't the issue in our relationship. The real problem was that she had this vision of living a 9-5 life with 2.5 kids and the whole nine yards. Instead of telling me, "My feelings have changed and it is very important that we start working toward X and Y," she just sat around waiting for me to figure it out. I am sorry that I don't read minds but that's just how it is. She says she never wanted to "force" me to do anything and didn't want to badger me, so instead she kept it all buried until it was such a big issue that she felt she had to leave to get what she wanted.

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05-24-2004, 12:51 PM

Originally posted by sweetums
I'm sorry that you're experiencing that kind of pain now

Just keep talking about it...otherwise those kinds of emotions have no where to go -- and they end up eating you from the inside out. There's nothing like this kind of grief, but it does get better -- as long as you find ways to get all those feelings out. And, at the end of that process you're going to find a strength in yourself that you never knew existed....

*hugs*

I've been able to talk about it thanks to a lot of people here on GFY who have really gone out of their way and lent me an ear. I appreciate that very much.

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05-24-2004, 12:52 PM

Originally posted by DonovanPhillips
A very similar situation happened to a good friend of mine. She left him for another guy, then moved to Texas with the other guy. She found out she couldn't stand the other dude and came back begging.

The good news is, they got over it and are now married with 2 kids and a new house.

There is hope.

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05-24-2004, 12:54 PM

Originally posted by TheEnforcer
Late to the thread but sorry to hear about that guy. It sucks now and even might hurt a little more for a short bit after this but soon you'll reach a point where it hurts a little less each day to the point where, while the pain never TRULY goes away as there is always a little pain left, you learn to accept it and move on with your life.

Well, accepting it is no longer the problem. That has been taken out of my hands. I am very much looking forward to the day when it hurts less but right now all I can think about is this fucker in Columbus putting his dick in my girlfriend. I hope this fades soon because its been long time since I've felt the kind of emotions I am feeling these days. My anger caused me a lot of problems in my youth and I've had it mostly under control for a long time. I don't like this feeling of falling back to the way I used to be.

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05-24-2004, 12:57 PM

Hey Space,
I don't know you man, but I am truly sorry that this has happened to you as it has to me as well. One thing I have learned in life is all love and relationships are like new jobs.
First - Both parties look really attractive to eachother.
Second - They flirt or meet a few times to test the water and to see it is the right fit.
Third - They each go ahead and make a commitment to eachother and swear it is the best thing since sliced bread.
Fourth - Everybody remains on their best behavior for atleast 90 days or maybe even longer (Like in your case)
Fifth - Things sometimes tend to get monotonous and people (one or the other doesn't matter) start looking or become curious about adventure outside their job or relationship.
Sixth - Termination or Dissolution of the relationship. Either they get a better offer, new beau or girl, or simply get bored.

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05-24-2004, 12:57 PM

Finally,
Listen maybe she felt she got all you had to offer because you already made her feel like a queen and she was just curious what it would be like to be queen in another castle or of her own kingdom. It is not your fault man, listen this shit happens to the best of us. She may be back she may not. But you cannot live or base your life on the love of someone else. You sound like a great guy and I am sure you will run in to something better later, just don't be somebody's eveything save some for yourself! *Prime example, look at A-ROD he got the biggest contract in Pro-Sports history, and it still wasn't enough! Again, your relationship is just like a job you gotta take a little too and not just give!
Best of Luck in Your new Personal Endeavors!
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05-24-2004, 01:00 PM

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SpaceAce..

Pack your shit, and go back to Cleveland, or a new place in Vegas, anywhere but there. When she gets back and finds you unavailable, after a few days the burdens of her mistakes may finally take their toll. If not, just never stay in contact with her. She just ripped your heart out, beat it to a pulp with a bat, took a shit on it, and put it back into you. You must show her how she hurt you, don't just let her feel like she can come back at anytime, even if you want that.

Note to self: Never fall in love.

You're right, of course. I know that my being here makes this easier for her. She still feels she has my support and the problem is, she does. No matter ho badly she's hurt me, I could never refuse her something she needed if I had the power to give it to her. She did wreck my heart pretty badly. Relationships end but they shouldn't end like this. After ten years together, I think I deserved a few months to try and make things right. The issues she has that became so large just recently should not have ended what had been a long-term committed relationship. It hurts badly because I didn't ask her for ANYTHING; there was nothing she could lose by staying and trying to work things out but she has lost everything we had by getting on that plane. She said herself that she wasn't 100% sure of her decision. In fact, she kept saying she felt almost exactly 50/50 about whether she should stay or go. To me, the years together easily dictate that the coin flip should come down on my side but it didn't. If she had stayed and still been unhappy, she would have risked nothing but a few months of her time. If she had stayed and we had worked things out, she would have saved ten years of being together and building our lives from scratch; she would have saved the love and loyalty I had for her; she would have saved the vision of the future that we shared (she just didn't tell me that her visiion of the future was actually a vision of RIGHT THIS SECOND); she would have saved everything and risked nothing but a small amount of her time.

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05-24-2004, 01:02 PM

Originally posted by AvsTgp
Im right there with you and, I feel you, it takes a good person to love and, it takes and even better person to hurt but it takes a great person to ADMIT IT!
Nothing anyone will say right now will make things better and, the only way you will feel better is when she is replaced, you are lonely and you are thinking about it,......
What hurts most is the fact that you spent all this time giving yourself and showing the real you, and the real you can be dismissed so easily...
Time might make the difference, either to help you forget, or to make her realize what she is missing, but if you are going for plan b, then dont call, dont write, just ignore her as long as she is set in her false sense of security that she can have you back if things dont work out she will go out there and use you as the person to fall back on!
make her think youre ready to move on and close that chapter and she will run back to you REAL FAST!
In the meantime FEEL BETTER!

Thank you, AvsTgp. I don't know that I am a "great" person but I am human. I surely made mistakes in all this but I was willing to anything I had to to correct my mistakes. So, I may not be a great person but I am also not a bad person and I think I deserved the opportunity to see if we could work things out.

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05-24-2004, 01:04 PM

Originally posted by iFliPcEss
i feel for you really, I can picture how you look like rite now, how you feel deep inside, I know its painful coz Ive been there, it seems its the end of the world, you made her your life, and your life exist on her, she is the air that you breathe, and now that she is gone, you feel that there is no reason for you to live, but believe me, time will heal all the wounds, good thing you posted what you feel right now, it helps right? Although things are black & white as of now.... you can get up, you have to bounce back, be firm & fight remember, one you hit the rock bottom there is no way to go but up.

Thank you, you are right about how I feel. 99% of the replies here have been along the lines of, "Give it time," and I know intellectually that you are all correct when you say that but it doesn't help the way I am feeling right now. Some day I suppose I will feel differently but right now it is hard to imagine.

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05-24-2004, 01:06 PM

Originally posted by MaxDent
My fiancee broke up with me last Christmas eve. I felt the same way dude. I have no idea why women are never content with something. I've come to know the same pain that goes with failed relationships. All you can do is forget them and find your way back to your path.

That's cold, Max. Holidays are rough enough on a lot of people and to lose someone you love at a time when you should be sharing happiness with that person must be very tough. I'm sorry that happened to you. I am, of course, working on the forgetting and moving on part but until we really untangle our lives from each other, it's going to be rough.

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05-24-2004, 01:06 PM

SpaceAce, from the first time you started this thread I've seen a connection to what happened to me 4 months ago, and I am trying to help you as much as I can.

Well last night I went out on a date. I met a very beautifull, nice girl, and I can honestly say that I have finally moved on. I'm now looking forward to a whole new start, and I have learned a lot from my mistakes in my previous realtionship.

Be strong, be focused, try to keep busy. Things WILL change, and I hope after a few months you come back and bump this thread saying "I have finally moved on too"
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05-24-2004, 01:33 PM

Originally posted by dig420
Women are bitches and can't be trusted.

Originally posted by bad_girl Seems like you too have been spited by a woman! Not all women are like this, and lets not forget men can be just a big of an asshole.

Lets just keep the woman bashing to a minimum

BG

The Truth Hurts don't it? hehehe

Women are evil creatures, period. Relationships are power games. I'm just old and smart enough to win them now.
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05-24-2004, 02:18 PM

Originally posted by SpaceAce
That's cold, Max. Holidays are rough enough on a lot of people and to lose someone you love at a time when you should be sharing happiness with that person must be very tough. I'm sorry that happened to you. I am, of course, working on the forgetting and moving on part but until we really untangle our lives from each other, it's going to be rough.

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Space,

Yeah it is a painful truth that these things happen. All I told her was to send me my ring back and she did.

Remember that we've all dated before and life does go on. It is mostly getting over the feelings of rejection. Just accept that you are destined for a better woman.
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#295

05-24-2004, 02:34 PM

watch the movie Swingers
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05-24-2004, 02:52 PM

Hey Space.
Was in the middle of a move and didn't see this thread till now..
Buck up, my friend..hurts like hell now but, you really have no control over what's happening..the only thing you really have control over is you and your actions/reactions..
It happens and sucks when we go through it..all the "what if's" are irrelevant now..Pick up the pieces and try to move on, one day at a time, one minute at a time..
My quote on all boards is "Whatever don't kill ya makes ya stronger.." Can you guess why?? Yup..all the damned bad relationships..
It does get better..eventually..

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05-24-2004, 06:58 PM

Originally posted by JoeB
Finally,
Listen maybe she felt she got all you had to offer because you already made her feel like a queen and she was just curious what it would be like to be queen in another castle or of her own kingdom. It is not your fault man, listen this shit happens to the best of us. She may be back she may not. But you cannot live or base your life on the love of someone else. You sound like a great guy and I am sure you will run in to something better later, just don't be somebody's eveything save some for yourself! *Prime example, look at A-ROD he got the biggest contract in Pro-Sports history, and it still wasn't enough! Again, your relationship is just like a job you gotta take a little too and not just give!
Best of Luck in Your new Personal Endeavors!
Ciao,
Joe B

You've got a point, for some people it's never enough. I'm not saying I am the equivalent of the biggest sports contract in the world but I am not too bad, either. It's hard to explain, but I feel a lot more motivated to do things for someone I love than to do them for myself. While I had her in my life, I saw a future and had plans, things I wanted to do with her and for her. Now I feel like all that desire and all those plans have been wasted. I'd give anything to be out of this situation but unfortunately it's not like I can just shut down the way a computer can.

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05-24-2004, 06:59 PM

go space ace

if you arent promoting http://www.10dollarcash.com you are a fuckin moron
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05-24-2004, 06:59 PM

Originally posted by sexyclicks
SpaceAce, from the first time you started this thread I've seen a connection to what happened to me 4 months ago, and I am trying to help you as much as I can.

Well last night I went out on a date. I met a very beautifull, nice girl, and I can honestly say that I have finally moved on. I'm now looking forward to a whole new start, and I have learned a lot from my mistakes in my previous realtionship.

Be strong, be focused, try to keep busy. Things WILL change, and I hope after a few months you come back and bump this thread saying "I have finally moved on too"

Good for you, I wish you the best with your new relationship. I also hope to be able to bump this after a few months with happy news but frankly I am not optimistic. It's hard to see anything positive right now. I hope that changes soon.

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05-24-2004, 07:02 PM

Originally posted by MaxDent
Remember that we've all dated before and life does go on.

To be fair to myself and my feelings, I have to point out that ten years building a life is more than just a dating couple. I know what you're saying but I think the fact that 100% of my adult life was invested in this relationship makes a big difference. The thing is, I would have been perfectly happy to invest the rest of my life in this relationship, too. I fooled around a bit in my early and mid teens and I was happy with where I landed.

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