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  • Elli
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    • Apr 2003
    • 17991

    #51
    Originally posted by CDSmith
    You don't think all that attention at the spa is all for nothing do you? Hell no.

    No sense getting all dolled-up at the beauty spa unless....... I am taking you out on the town that night, right? A nice candlelit dinner, wine, dancing, hold hands, no tv, no cell phone yapping, complete attention on you, the full hot order.

    Sorry, I thought that part would be assumed.
    I'll take two, please.
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    • Vanilla
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      • Dec 2003
      • 8097

      #52
      Originally posted by CDSmith
      What about this: You get flowers delivered to you, say a dozen long-stemmed roses, a nice card with them with something original and romantic written on it, and a nice vase to keep the roses in........... AND.... in the flowers you find a prepaid pass to a local beauty spa for the works: seaweed wrap, hot tub, massage, manicure/pedicure, hair, makeup, whatever you want.

      How about that? Would that be spontaneous, thoughtful and romantic enough?


      Because if it is...... that's the kind of thing I've been known to do for my lady.

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      • NakedBo
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        • Jan 2004
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        #53
        Originally posted by Smurfette
        I hate flowers as well especially roses ugly things!

        But my man is not bad, one night I was out and came home to those tea candles all over the floor, lighting up the hall, the bathroom and livingroom, and he made out of our sons paper and crayons were love sayings and telling me places I had to go to find the next one, then in the bathroom there was a nice hot bubblebath with wine, strawberries and chocolate, then gave me a massage what a night that was!

        I find 1 night like that wipes out all the stuff he forgot, cause it came from him just wanting to do it for me not having to di it for me!

        Smurfette
        Wow that is soooo sweet!!

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        • digifan
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          • Oct 2002
          • 14618

          #54
          I love flowers.. it is a pity if he does not like to buy some for you.
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          • CDSmith
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            • May 2001
            • 51460

            #55
            Originally posted by Elli
            I'll take two, please.
            I just think that a real man wants to do thoughtful and romantic things for his lady from time to time. Same with a real woman for that matter, she likes to do for her man. Sadly, in so many relationships there is always one twit who starts to take that attention for granted.

            I beleive that this kind of romance and thoughtfulness is a two-way street, and if it starts becoming too one-sided things usually tend to get ugly eventually. Both men and women like to feel appreciated and loved..... and rightly so.
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            • Trixie Racer
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              • Aug 2003
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              #56
              Originally posted by CDSmith
              A nice candlelit dinner, wine, dancing, hold hands, no tv, no cell phone yapping, complete attention on you, the full hot order.
              THAT is romantic!
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              • Elli
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                • Apr 2003
                • 17991

                #57
                Originally posted by CDSmith
                I just think that a real man wants to do thoughtful and romantic things for his lady from time to time. Same with a real woman for that matter, she likes to do for her man. Sadly, in so many relationships there is always one twit who starts to take that attention for granted.

                I beleive that this kind of romance and thoughtfulness is a two-way street, and if it starts becoming too one-sided things usually tend to get ugly eventually. Both men and women like to feel appreciated and loved..... and rightly so.
                Ahhh too much maturity and good sense for one post.. overloading circuits...

                I completely agree with you. He doesn't take me for granted, I don't think. Just more of day to day life taking over in routine, maybe.
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                • CDSmith
                  Too lazy to set a custom title
                  • May 2001
                  • 51460

                  #58
                  Speaking of him not liking to buy flowers..... you know, I'm not all that crazy about going to a flower shop and buying them either, but I've done it, and I'd do it again. Also, you can pick up the phone and order flowers over the phone with your credit card, takes like 5 minutes and it's done.

                  Sometimes doing a little thing that you don't enjoy in order to give your partner some enjoyment is just something a grownup does, at least one who truly appreciates their partner and wants to show that appreciation. It's not like buying flowers is some major imposition or personal sacrifice or anything.


                  Elli, you should dump the weirdo.
                  Last edited by CDSmith; 05-23-2004, 05:22 PM.
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                  • fatal attraction
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                    • Feb 2003
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                    #59
                    Originally posted by Elli
                    Interesting responses.

                    No, he didn't forget any event or anniversary. He just doesn't do spontaneous things like that. It simply doesn't occur to him.

                    Once he bought me a vaccuum for my birthday, but that's another story.
                    hahahaha!!!! Oh, I can relate...I've been there before! Some guys just don't think, unless it has to do with them! Unfortunately, it's just something you end up having to accept...because they won't change. And if you have to tell them, it loses all it's meaning!
                    I think the thing that meant the most to me, was when a guy picked some flowers for me, for NO special occasion, just thinking about me. It really is just the thought that counts....some guys just don't get it!!!!

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                    • SleazyDream
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                      • Jul 2001
                      • 41470

                      #60
                      Originally posted by Elli
                      Interesting responses.

                      No, he didn't forget any event or anniversary. He just doesn't do spontaneous things like that. It simply doesn't occur to him.

                      Once he bought me a vaccuum for my birthday, but that's another story.
                      outch! lol

                      i'm betting he didn't get laid that night
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                      • NaughtyAllie
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                        • Apr 2003
                        • 1844

                        #61
                        Elli, he probably doesn't realize how much it would mean to you to get flowers. He probably does little things for you every once in a while that make you smile so think of that as receiving flowers.

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                        • Elli
                          Reach for those stars!
                          • Apr 2003
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                          #62
                          Originally posted by CDSmith
                          Speaking of him not liking to buy flowers..... you know, I'm not all that crazy about going to a flower shop and buying them either, but I've done it, and I'd do it again. Also, you can pick up the phone and order flowers over the phone with your credit card, takes like 5 minutes and it's done.

                          Sometimes doing a little thing that you don't enjoy in order to give your partner some enjoyment is just something a grownup does, at least one who truly appreciates their partner and wants to show that appreciation. It's not like buying flowers is some major imposition or personal sacrifice or anything.


                          Elli, you should dump the weirdo.
                          hehe now now, I'm not going to go dumping any weirdos any time soon. We've been together 10 years, so there must be something good there, right? I hear what you're saying, though.
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                          • Elli
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                            • Apr 2003
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                            #63
                            Originally posted by SleazyDream
                            outch! lol

                            i'm betting he didn't get laid that night
                            You are correct, sir.
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                            • SleazyDream
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                              • Jul 2001
                              • 41470

                              #64
                              a wise woman told me once - for x-mas, anniversary, or birthdays you ONLY get her jewlry, clothing, or travel.
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                              • CDSmith
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                                • May 2001
                                • 51460

                                #65
                                Originally posted by Elli
                                hehe now now, I'm not going to go dumping any weirdos any time soon. We've been together 10 years, so there must be something good there, right? I hear what you're saying, though.
                                Hey, you put the option "What a weirdo. I would buy you flowers, baby" in your poll,

                                I was just going with the flow. hee hee
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                                • reynold
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                                  • Oct 2002
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                                  #66
                                  Maybe he's just the serious type.

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                                  • Joe Citizen
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                                    • Oct 2003
                                    • 4552

                                    #67
                                    Originally posted by Elli
                                    He doesn't like to buy flowers. What do you think?
                                    What do you buy him?

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                                    • Elli
                                      Reach for those stars!
                                      • Apr 2003
                                      • 17991

                                      #68
                                      Originally posted by CDSmith
                                      Hey, you put the option "What a weirdo. I would buy you flowers, baby" in your poll,

                                      I was just going with the flow. hee hee
                                      I know, no worries. I was trying to make it comical. I can't believe people actually thinK I should withold sex for some silly flowers.
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                                      • Elli
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                                        • Apr 2003
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                                        #69
                                        Originally posted by Joe Citizen
                                        What do you buy him?
                                        I already answered that question in the first page.
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                                        • CDSmith
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                                          • May 2001
                                          • 51460

                                          #70
                                          Originally posted by Elli
                                          I know, no worries. I was trying to make it comical. I can't believe people actually thinK I should withold sex for some silly flowers.
                                          I don't.

                                          It doesn't have to be flowers anyway, it's the thought behind the gift that says it all. And like some others pointed out, it doesn't even have to be a gift, it can be like Smurfette posted, a nice candlelit bath and an evening of pampering etc.... the thought put into it and the attention on you is what counts the most.

                                          I believe that when a man forgets to do these kinds of things, something is wrong if after being reminded he still has no interest in doing something for his woman.
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                                          • Rochard
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                                            • Dec 2001
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                                            #71
                                            I send my wife flowers once or twice a month. Last night I surprised her by just showing up at her work right before lunch - with a dozen roses in hand.
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                                            • Trixie Racer
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                                              • Aug 2003
                                              • 2328

                                              #72
                                              Originally posted by CDSmith
                                              I believe that when a man forgets to do these kinds of things, something is wrong if after being reminded he still has no interest in doing something for his woman.
                                              I agree. Whether he thinks it's important or not, obviously you do. It doesn't matter whether he understands why it's important to you, as long as he knows. When someone knows and still won't do little things to make you happy, that person doesn't care enough about you. Sorry.
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                                              • Smurfette
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                                                • Sep 2001
                                                • 542

                                                #73
                                                I must be a werido then cause I tell my man to get me things that most women would kill if they got.
                                                One christmas I asked for an Ab Roller all the women at the store freaked on him calling him down to the dirt, when he was only getting me something that I really wanted! lol

                                                Sometime men just can't win when it comes to women.

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                                                • SleazyDream
                                                  I'm here for SPORT
                                                  • Jul 2001
                                                  • 41470

                                                  #74
                                                  Originally posted by CDSmith


                                                  I believe that when a man forgets to do these kinds of things, something is wrong if after being reminded he still has no interest in doing something for his woman.
                                                  i kinda agree
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                                                  • MrJackMeHoff
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                                                    • Mar 2004
                                                    • 4569

                                                    #75
                                                    Originally posted by Smurfette
                                                    I hate flowers as well especially roses ugly things!

                                                    But my man is not bad, one night I was out and came home to those tea candles all over the floor, lighting up the hall, the bathroom and livingroom, and he made out of our sons paper and crayons were love sayings and telling me places I had to go to find the next one, then in the bathroom there was a nice hot bubblebath with wine, strawberries and chocolate, then gave me a massage what a night that was!

                                                    I find 1 night like that wipes out all the stuff he forgot, cause it came from him just wanting to do it for me not having to di it for me!

                                                    Smurfette

                                                    Wow what a loser.

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                                                    • Smurfette
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                                                      • Sep 2001
                                                      • 542

                                                      #76
                                                      Originally posted by MrJackMeHoff
                                                      Wow what a loser.

                                                      You might think so but hes a loser that got very lucky that night and in return he got a very wild threesome.


                                                      Smurfette

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                                                      • VirtuMike
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                                                        • May 2002
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                                                        #77
                                                        I'd buy you a vacuum for your birthday baby.
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                                                        • SureFire
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                                                          • Jan 2003
                                                          • 4398

                                                          #78
                                                          Originally posted by Smurfette
                                                          I must be a werido then cause I tell my man to get me things that most women would kill if they got.
                                                          One christmas I asked for an Ab Roller all the women at the store freaked on him calling him down to the dirt, when he was only getting me something that I really wanted! lol

                                                          Sometime men just can't win when it comes to women.

                                                          Smurfette
                                                          Don't get me wrong I like receiving flowers. One time I ordered an used exercise tape (the firm) off of eBay. A few of days later I received the whole kit. My friends said sick and I loved it .

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                                                          • Elli
                                                            Reach for those stars!
                                                            • Apr 2003
                                                            • 17991

                                                            #79
                                                            Originally posted by VirtuMike
                                                            I'd buy you a vacuum for your birthday baby.
                                                            Oo yeah baby, keep up that dirty talk!
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                                                            • smokingdawn
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                                                              • Feb 2004
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                                                              #80
                                                              Dump him...lol

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                                                              • Screaming
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                                                                • Feb 2004
                                                                • 18972

                                                                #81
                                                                have ever mentioned it to him that you would like that, in most cases it does not occur to them to do it so you have to point it out

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                                                                • SmutGiant
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                                                                  • Oct 2003
                                                                  • 4896

                                                                  #82
                                                                  Originally posted by CDSmith
                                                                  I just think that a real man wants to do thoughtful and romantic things for his lady from time to time. Same with a real woman for that matter, she likes to do for her man. Sadly, in so many relationships there is always one twit who starts to take that attention for granted.

                                                                  I beleive that this kind of romance and thoughtfulness is a two-way street, and if it starts becoming too one-sided things usually tend to get ugly eventually. Both men and women like to feel appreciated and loved..... and rightly so.
                                                                  I TOTALLY agree 100% with you on that bro!

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                                                                  • SmutGiant
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                                                                    • Oct 2003
                                                                    • 4896

                                                                    #83
                                                                    In my relationship it's kinda the other way around. I'm what some would call a hopeless romantic, lol. I absolutely love doing spontaneous things. But after 6 months of spontaneous gestures and not getting any in return, KINDA makes me feel a little unappreciated. I mean I'm not talking material goods, or anything involving money, just a little random note or e-mail saying they miss you or something, hehe.

                                                                    Sometimes it feels like I'M the woman in the relationship

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                                                                    • beemk
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                                                                      • Jan 2002
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                                                                      #84
                                                                      if he doesnt buy you flowers, you probably dont deserve them.
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                                                                      • Theo
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                                                                        • May 2001
                                                                        • 34515

                                                                        #85
                                                                        i gave a $50 coupon for flowers.com to my gf

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                                                                        • pimplink
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                                                                          • Jun 2001
                                                                          • 9535

                                                                          #86
                                                                          Don't ask him the buy you flowers, they are cheap and won't last for long. Ask him to buy you the "Girl's Bestfriend"--DIAMOND!

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                                                                          • reynold
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                                                                            • Oct 2002
                                                                            • 51271

                                                                            #87
                                                                            Originally posted by beemk
                                                                            if he doesnt buy you flowers, you probably dont deserve them.

                                                                            That wasn't nice!

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                                                                            • Elli
                                                                              Reach for those stars!
                                                                              • Apr 2003
                                                                              • 17991

                                                                              #88
                                                                              Originally posted by beemk
                                                                              if he doesnt buy you flowers, you probably dont deserve them.
                                                                              Yeah, ok.

                                                                              Diamonds don't do much for me, either, since we share all our income.
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                                                                              • digi
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                                                                                • Feb 2002
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                                                                                #89
                                                                                why dont you buy your own flowers if you like em?

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                                                                                • Elli
                                                                                  Reach for those stars!
                                                                                  • Apr 2003
                                                                                  • 17991

                                                                                  #90
                                                                                  Originally posted by digi
                                                                                  why dont you buy your own flowers if you like em?
                                                                                  I have a garden full of flowers. If you read the thread, you would realize the real issue is not about flora at all.
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                                                                                  • myjah
                                                                                    Back in the harbor
                                                                                    • Sep 2003
                                                                                    • 11482

                                                                                    #91
                                                                                    buy him some flowers to show him how good it feels. then maybe he will reciprocate
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                                                                                    • collegeclam
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                                                                                      • Mar 2003
                                                                                      • 239

                                                                                      #92
                                                                                      flowers are useless

                                                                                      maybe tell him to skip the flowers and get you a cool tree or venus fly trap...something that wont die right away. or a new cd...something that wont be gone in 3 days. buying flowers is like throwing your money in a pile of dirt, then throwing it out 3 days later.

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                                                                                      • JFK
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                                                                                        • Jan 2002
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                                                                                        #93
                                                                                        Originally posted by Elli
                                                                                        He doesn't like to buy flowers. What do you think?
                                                                                        Some guys are just like that. You need to educate him on what you like ! You do for him what he likes ? If You do , then its only fair he does what you love. Otherwise just tell him how you really feel

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                                                                                        • TGPslut
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                                                                                          • Dec 2003
                                                                                          • 12931

                                                                                          #94
                                                                                          ok where's the option to leave him and go for me? I'll buy you a rosegarden! *and then make sweet love to ya*

                                                                                          did I say that out loud?
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                                                                                          • Elli
                                                                                            Reach for those stars!
                                                                                            • Apr 2003
                                                                                            • 17991

                                                                                            #95
                                                                                            I am beginning to think there is no point having a two page thread. Nobdy reads the first page if you do. Or at least most people don't. It makes the second page rather redunant.

                                                                                            "I never promised you a roooose gardennnn..."
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                                                                                            • TGPslut
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                                                                                              • Dec 2003
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                                                                                              #96
                                                                                              Originally posted by Elli
                                                                                              I am beginning to think there is no point having a two page thread. Nobdy reads the first page if you do. Or at least most people don't. It makes the second page rather redunant.

                                                                                              "I never promised you a roooose gardennnn..."
                                                                                              oh I read the whole thread allright... I just let no opportunity pass without telling you how beautiful you are
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