Lensman called me 5 years ago when I was in Canada and wanted me to work for him. Decided to say yes, sold all my shit in less than a week, and moved down to California. I am still working for Lensman in house at Adult.com. Best thing I ever did. However, I miss the people/friends/family in Vancouver but the weather is great in Cali, and have since of coarse made some good friends here. I am married too and having a pretty good time
If your young and have the opportunity to split..take the fucking chance, you can always move back. If you feel like you could move, you should.