should I rat out my friend????

Collapse
X
 
  • Time
  • Show
Clear All
new posts
  • sheldonjuan
    Confirmed User
    • Sep 2003
    • 875

    #1

    should I rat out my friend????

    he is starting to use coke. he started off drinking, then pot, then x, and now coke.

    should i tell his family, or do you think they already know?
    fuck it, I dont need a sig!
  • SleazyDream
    I'm here for SPORT
    • Jul 2001
    • 41470

    #2
    age?
    This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

    Now read without the word dog.

    Comment

    • Ice
      Confirmed User
      • Nov 2002
      • 26053

      #3
      Is he single or has a wife and kids?
      icq 1904905

      Comment

      • Dawgy
        Confirmed User
        • Jul 2001
        • 5856

        #4
        sounds like a normal progression. get him some help.
        the revolution is coming.

        Comment

        • Abyss_Vee
          Confirmed User
          • Sep 2003
          • 5208

          #5
          telling his family will only make things worse,, u gotta talk to him

          Comment

          • SlickRick
            Confirmed User
            • Jan 2003
            • 2849

            #6
            Originally posted by sheldonjuan
            he is starting to use coke. he started off drinking, then pot, then x, and now coke.

            should i tell his family, or do you think they already know?

            you gotta let him destroy his life, fuck up family, and hit rock bottom. If he wants help he will seek it, if he doesnt kill himself or someone else.

            Comment

            • EddiePulp
              Confirmed User
              • Mar 2004
              • 1332

              #7
              depending on how often.. seeing as he went from drinking to these drugs i'm guessing its like once a weekend?

              .. i have a few friends completely fucked off x,pot and coke which is why i wouldnt touch the shit.. i'm always up for a beer tho!

              I would talk to him about it before going to his parents, you dont wanna lose a friendship over it. Tell him he's fucking himself up.
              Last edited by EddiePulp; 05-17-2004, 09:57 PM.
              I dont need a sig.

              Comment

              • Kard63
                Confirmed User
                • Nov 2003
                • 8944

                #8
                only if he's 16 or younger, lol.

                Comment

                • sheldonjuan
                  Confirmed User
                  • Sep 2003
                  • 875

                  #9
                  Originally posted by SleazyDream
                  age?

                  26
                  fuck it, I dont need a sig!

                  Comment

                  • newsdude
                    Confirmed User
                    • Apr 2004
                    • 1969

                    #10
                    Talk to him. If he thinks he doesn't need your help, that's the time you could tell his family. Goodluck!
                    SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, then you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60.

                    Comment

                    • SleazyDream
                      I'm here for SPORT
                      • Jul 2001
                      • 41470

                      #11
                      Originally posted by sheldonjuan
                      26
                      it's his life - if he was 14 i'd be worried, at 26 none of your concern
                      This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                      Now read without the word dog.

                      Comment

                      • sheldonjuan
                        Confirmed User
                        • Sep 2003
                        • 875

                        #12
                        Originally posted by iceicebaby
                        Is he single or has a wife and kids?


                        no kids. but has a gf
                        fuck it, I dont need a sig!

                        Comment

                        • jscott
                          jscizzle
                          • Feb 2001
                          • 25452

                          #13
                          no parents, you talk to him if you're uncomfortable with him using those drugs
                          If you think tough men are dangerous, wait until you see what weak men are capable of.
                          - Jordan B. Peterson
                          Listen to Pomp tell why is Bitcoin important

                          Comment

                          • Malezia
                            Confirmed User
                            • Aug 2003
                            • 354

                            #14
                            When he starts loosing wieght his family may find out anyway. but you should talk to him about it
                            Promote my site www.malezia.com

                            Free hosted movie and picture galleries.

                            Comment

                            • sheldonjuan
                              Confirmed User
                              • Sep 2003
                              • 875

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Abyss_Vee
                              telling his family will only make things worse,, u gotta talk to him

                              already done that, but he says ge can quit whenever he wants and that he doesnt have a problem
                              fuck it, I dont need a sig!

                              Comment

                              • irishfury
                                Confirmed User
                                • Aug 2003
                                • 2611

                                #16
                                I talk to him...Some won't listen I got a friend doing 3-5 in prison cause he didn't listen
                                Trust no one there all snakes

                                Comment

                                • KRL
                                  Entrepreneur
                                  • Oct 2002
                                  • 31429

                                  #17
                                  I've had friends that I knew were cheating on their wives. That was always so hard to hold inside.

                                  I hate that crap.
                                  If you would like to develop your domains, you can lease inexpensive foreign labor
                                  from the leaders in the field at iWebmasters.com TO LOWER YOUR COSTS AND INCREASE YOUR PRODUCTION!

                                  *** *** *** *** *** *** *** *** *** *** *** ***
                                  Domains Adult News KRL's Newsletter Biz Tips Just Listed Domains

                                  Comment

                                  • sheldonjuan
                                    Confirmed User
                                    • Sep 2003
                                    • 875

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by SlickRick
                                    you gotta let him destroy his life, fuck up family, and hit rock bottom. If he wants help he will seek it, if he doesnt kill himself or someone else.
                                    are you serious?
                                    fuck it, I dont need a sig!

                                    Comment

                                    • sexyclicks
                                      Confirmed User
                                      • Mar 2002
                                      • 3240

                                      #19
                                      my best friend is going out with a guy that is doing shit like that.
                                      He is 33 and he says that he will change, and quit blah blah

                                      is there hope or he is bullshitting?

                                      Comment

                                      • Mr. Marks
                                        Confirmed User
                                        • Jun 2001
                                        • 7517

                                        #20
                                        Talk to him, heart to heart. Tell him what you think, and what you feel.

                                        Comment

                                        • Ice
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • Nov 2002
                                          • 26053

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by sheldonjuan
                                          no kids. but has a gf
                                          If he is a good friend then get involved... if not... its not your place.... can't save the world man
                                          icq 1904905

                                          Comment

                                          • sexyclicks
                                            Confirmed User
                                            • Mar 2002
                                            • 3240

                                            #22
                                            the biggest problem with these kind of shit is the lying, lying all the time, lying to everyone

                                            Comment

                                            • sheldonjuan
                                              Confirmed User
                                              • Sep 2003
                                              • 875

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by EddiePulp
                                              depending on how often.. seeing as he went from drinking to these drugs i'm guessing its like once a weekend?

                                              .. i have a few friends completely fucked off x,pot and coke which is why i wouldnt touch the shit.. i'm always up for a beer tho!

                                              I would talk to him about it before going to his parents, you dont wanna lose a friendship over it. Tell him he's fucking himself up.

                                              yeah, its a weekend only thing, but its just really fucked because I remember him always saying that he would never touch the shit and nows its like the biggest event of the weekend
                                              fuck it, I dont need a sig!

                                              Comment

                                              • SykkBoy2
                                                Jesus loves bacon
                                                • Feb 2001
                                                • 19969

                                                #24
                                                grind up some insulation into his coke
                                                he'll stop real fucking quick
                                                Support my new movie “The Second Coming”

                                                Comment

                                                • bhutocracy
                                                  Not making A Comeback
                                                  • Dec 2001
                                                  • 10218

                                                  #25
                                                  26 and no kids and gets on it on a weekend?
                                                  It's not your business to run to his parents - he's not a child.
                                                  Sure if he starts doing it of a weekday have more than a chat to him and if it looks serious maybe some kind of intervention but a weekend coke habit isn't the sort of thing to be running to his mommy and daddy for.

                                                  Comment

                                                  • Diabolical Cord
                                                    Confirmed User
                                                    • Jan 2004
                                                    • 447

                                                    #26
                                                    A lot of people who say they can stop when they want can't.

                                                    Comment

                                                    • Theo
                                                      HAL 9000
                                                      • May 2001
                                                      • 34515

                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by sexyclicks
                                                      my best friend is going out with a guy that is doing shit like that.
                                                      He is 33 and he says that he will change, and quit blah blah

                                                      is there hope or he is bullshitting?
                                                      no nope

                                                      Comment

                                                      • sixxxth_sense
                                                        So Fucking Banned
                                                        • Nov 2003
                                                        • 2430

                                                        #28
                                                        I have the same fucking question on my head or at least had a month ago, i have a freind who's into coke just like urs, but thisone does it 24/7 everyday somehow his parents dont fucking know. Well i stopped chilling with him and told him to go fuck him self, don't do the same thing I did, good friends are hard to come by!

                                                        Comment

                                                        • sixxxth_sense
                                                          So Fucking Banned
                                                          • Nov 2003
                                                          • 2430

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by papichulo
                                                          Talk to him, heart to heart. Tell him what you think, and what you feel.
                                                          U guys have no fucking clue about cockheads, talking to them has 0 effect on it whatsoever 0! infact its like -50%!

                                                          Addicts to cocke will tell you whatever you want to hear, they'll lie like motherfuckers and look serious at times (ie you can't tell its a lie) They'll keep doing it and doing it, their system gets used to it and they need it to go on with their regular life!

                                                          Comment

                                                          • stev0
                                                            Confirmed User
                                                            • Aug 2003
                                                            • 6801

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by sheldonjuan
                                                            he is starting to use coke. he started off drinking, then pot, then x, and now coke.

                                                            should i tell his family, or do you think they already know?

                                                            Oh, fuck off....

                                                            Drinking, Ecstacy, and Coke are all fun. If he's doing them too much tell him what you think... let him make his own decisions.

                                                            Comment

                                                            • EviLGuY
                                                              So Fucking Banned
                                                              • Apr 2003
                                                              • 12745

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by sheldonjuan
                                                              he is starting to use coke. he started off drinking, then pot, then x, and now coke.

                                                              should i tell his family, or do you think they already know?
                                                              Depends.. is it just a friend or is it a best friend type thing?

                                                              I wouldnt get involved if this isnt some life long friend..

                                                              Comment

                                                              • Manowar
                                                                jellyfish  
                                                                • Dec 2003
                                                                • 71528

                                                                #32
                                                                i think you should have helped him stop earlier

                                                                Comment

                                                                • stev0
                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                  • Aug 2003
                                                                  • 6801

                                                                  #33
                                                                  How much is he doing? Once an hour? once a day? once a week? once a month?

                                                                  If he's addicted, you have to realize that it is alot better to be addicted to coke than nicotine. Do you smoke?

                                                                  Cocaine has no physical addiction associated with it, there is a strong mental addiction but that will pass after he hasn't touched it for a week or two...

                                                                  Moderation is the key, and if he just started I highly doubt he's doing too much... I give him an A+ for expanding his mind

                                                                  Comment

                                                                  • stev0
                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                    • Aug 2003
                                                                    • 6801

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by sixxxth_sense
                                                                    U guys have no fucking clue about cockheads, talking to them has 0 effect on it whatsoever 0! infact its like -50%!

                                                                    Addicts to cocke will tell you whatever you want to hear, they'll lie like motherfuckers and look serious at times (ie you can't tell its a lie) They'll keep doing it and doing it, their system gets used to it and they need it to go on with their regular life!
                                                                    Depends on the person.. the drug has little to do with it.

                                                                    I may not have a clue about cockheads, but i know a thing or two about cokeheads...

                                                                    Some fuckup, others live comfortable for years. Fact of the matter is if someone is doing coke, they're already a step ahead of all the losers living in back alley's smoking meth.

                                                                    Comment

                                                                    • pure energy
                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                      • Apr 2004
                                                                      • 4274

                                                                      #35
                                                                      He won't like it if you tell his family but then that's what friends are for! You're only thinking about his future, aren't you?
                                                                      Click Here to get $42 a sale AND Get FREE MGP Coaching from WebmasterLabor.Com

                                                                      Sign up above then EMAIL info (( at )) webmasterlabor DOT com for your free 1 to 1 MGP coaching

                                                                      Comment

                                                                      • pornstar2pac
                                                                        Omaha Hi/Lo
                                                                        • Nov 2003
                                                                        • 17380

                                                                        #36
                                                                        That's like me telling his drug dealer that he may be 1 customer less, thanks to you....
                                                                        Trump haters gonna hate. that's all they can do

                                                                        Comment

                                                                        • johnbosh
                                                                          Confirmed User
                                                                          • Aug 2002
                                                                          • 8965

                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by sheldonjuan
                                                                          he is starting to use coke. he started off drinking, then pot, then x, and now coke.

                                                                          should i tell his family, or do you think they already know?
                                                                          how old is he

                                                                          Comment

                                                                          • Voodoo
                                                                            ♥ ♦ ♣ ♠
                                                                            • Sep 2002
                                                                            • 10600

                                                                            #38
                                                                            You should only rat him out if he owns a gun, and is prone to seeking revenge.

                                                                            Cheers,

                                                                            "I'm selflessly supporting the common good, but only coincidentally looking out for No.1."

                                                                            Comment

                                                                            • NickPapageorgio
                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                              • Apr 2004
                                                                              • 8323

                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by stev0
                                                                              Depends on the person.. the drug has little to do with it.

                                                                              I may not have a clue about cockheads, but i know a thing or two about cokeheads...

                                                                              Some fuckup, others live comfortable for years. Fact of the matter is if someone is doing coke, they're already a step ahead of all the losers living in back alley's smoking meth.
                                                                              Amen brotha...

                                                                              ...leave him alone dude. It isn't your job to jump in and save him. I have done coke socially for well over 15 years and I must say, in moderation it is no worse than alcohol. Stop trying to be the hero and let your friend choose his own path.

                                                                              Comment

                                                                              • =^..^=
                                                                                Confirmed User
                                                                                • Jan 2002
                                                                                • 6935

                                                                                #40
                                                                                its his problem let him work it out
                                                                                #RememberYourRoots #AaronMForGFYHOF

                                                                                Comment

                                                                                • hova
                                                                                  Traffillionaire
                                                                                  • Jan 2002
                                                                                  • 22430

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by sheldonjuan
                                                                                  26
                                                                                  Let him live his life........
                                                                                  http://traffillions.com/

                                                                                  Sign up and get lifetime revshare on your traffic

                                                                                  Comment

                                                                                  • xenigo
                                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                                    • Jan 2001
                                                                                    • 8067

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by johnbosh
                                                                                    how old is he
                                                                                    You might try reading the thread

                                                                                    Comment

                                                                                    • Global Dialers
                                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                                      • May 2004
                                                                                      • 1349

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      notice how all the coke heads say leave him alone and all the peeps with some decency say help him out in this thread lol

                                                                                      gotta love gfy
                                                                                      the hun gets revenue from pre-paid gallery placements on the top 15 spaces and banners.
                                                                                      the rest of thegalleries are free placements.

                                                                                      Comment

                                                                                      • NakedBo
                                                                                        Confirmed User
                                                                                        • Jan 2004
                                                                                        • 1614

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by sixxxth_sense
                                                                                        U guys have no fucking clue about cockheads, talking to them has 0 effect on it whatsoever 0! infact its like -50%!

                                                                                        Addicts to cocke will tell you whatever you want to hear, they'll lie like motherfuckers and look serious at times (ie you can't tell its a lie) They'll keep doing it and doing it, their system gets used to it and they need it to go on with their regular life!

                                                                                        That is so true. I losed a friend over coke, he started using over the weekend and then it got worse and worse. He started lying about it, and when he started stealing my money I told him to get lost. I tried talking to him about it, but he just would not listen, just made things worse.

                                                                                        But there are a lot of people who only use on weekends and who can controle it, so I would just start to worry if he is starting to get 'junky tricks'


                                                                                        xox

                                                                                        bo

                                                                                        Comment

                                                                                        • Mishi
                                                                                          Confirmed User
                                                                                          • Feb 2002
                                                                                          • 1054

                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Talk to him and let him know you're concerned, but don't expect him to change just because you said something. He'll change (or not) when he's ready. Your words may help, or they may not. As a concerned friend you have a certain obligation to say something, but don't be a nag. He may just need someone to say they care, or he may not give a fuck. He's a grownup; he'll make his own choice.

                                                                                          Most cokeheads burn out on the stuff and clean up on their own. It might just be a brief phase. Best wishes.
                                                                                          Looking for PHP/MySQL solutions? Check out Cyboriginal - custom scripts, installation services and more.

                                                                                          Comment

                                                                                          • Vitasoy
                                                                                            GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!!
                                                                                            • Oct 2003
                                                                                            • 58202

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Take him to a drug rehab program, if he leaves its his own problem


                                                                                            [email protected]

                                                                                            Comment

                                                                                            • Danny K
                                                                                              Registered User
                                                                                              • May 2004
                                                                                              • 18

                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              is he an addict ?
                                                                                              how much coke does he use ?

                                                                                              there many levels of drugs use, but not all are considered addiction. some people only do a few lines at weekends,
                                                                                              others do 5-10 grams a day.

                                                                                              if he is only a casual social weekend user, then you shouldn't rat him out, he is not an addcit and you have nothing to worry about.

                                                                                              Only if he takes coke EVERY day, ALL day long, then he has a problem, and will need serious rehab.

                                                                                              Comment

                                                                                              • Voodoo
                                                                                                ♥ ♦ ♣ ♠
                                                                                                • Sep 2002
                                                                                                • 10600

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Originally posted by Voodoo
                                                                                                You should only rat him out if he owns a gun, and is prone to seeking revenge.

                                                                                                Cheers,

                                                                                                "I'm selflessly supporting the common good, but only coincidentally looking out for No.1."

                                                                                                Comment

                                                                                                • Mikey_219Inc
                                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                                  • Jun 2003
                                                                                                  • 1876

                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Originally posted by SykkBoy2
                                                                                                  grind up some insulation into his coke
                                                                                                  he'll stop real fucking quick
                                                                                                  ha ha -

                                                                                                  when coke is fun, its fucking fun. It gets old and boring at different times for different people, and it may have to take its natural course with yo friend.

                                                                                                  ... i realized one morning that coke was some nowhere shit - it was ez to quit at that point. Call and ask for advice on what you should do ... al-anon i think its called.

                                                                                                  for some people coke can be a very casual drug, for some a bad addiction - you might be worried about nothing, other than him scoring a bag cut with fiberglass

                                                                                                  damn those first few times were fun!
                                                                                                  Let him who hath understanding reckon the WISDOM of the TOOF!

                                                                                                  Comment

                                                                                                  • NickPapageorgio
                                                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                                                    • Apr 2004
                                                                                                    • 8323

                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by Mikey_219Inc
                                                                                                    ha ha -

                                                                                                    when coke is fun, its fucking fun. It gets old and boring at different times for different people, and it may have to take its natural course with yo friend.

                                                                                                    ... i realized one morning that coke was some nowhere shit - it was ez to quit at that point. Call and ask for advice on what you should do ... al-anon i think its called.

                                                                                                    for some people coke can be a very casual drug, for some a bad addiction - you might be worried about nothing, other than him scoring a bag cut with fiberglass

                                                                                                    damn those first few times were fun!
                                                                                                    Exactly, coke is one of those things your body lets you know that it just can't take. I was doing an 8 ball a day for a while but after a while, my body just started to shut down and things that should have been simple no longer were. He will see this. Waking up with bloody noses and having his eyes burning out of his skull @ 7 am when all the coke is gone will either make him or break him. Either way though...it's his choice.

                                                                                                    Comment

                                                                                                    Working...