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thefool · 02-10-2005, 10:10 PM

A while back I met this guy and we both used the same chat room. In chat we both have a more outgoing & raunchy nature, both of us say things to make people laugh, both of us are attention seeking whores, and there wasnt an issue. He used to say things to me in front of the entire room & I'd say things back, it was all fun & playful. AS SOON AS HE MOVED IN WITH ME, he wanted me off of chat, didn't like me posting in the room, didnt like the people I'd talked to online for 5 or 6 years calling the house. He was completely insecure with them PM'ing me, etc. The way he looked at it was that if I was fucking him & talked to him in chat, I'd fuck anyone else who PM's or Calls me... which was WRONG! Chat is for fun, the people in that room had kept me company at some of the most stressful times of my life, kept me sane and gave me support during the sad times of my life, and came to me for strength when they needed it. It might sound pathetic to some, but I'm sure the majoirty can see where I'm coming from. Finding like minded people & sharing experiences with them can be very rewarding, letting that go because your new bf or gf is insecure & jealous is a stupid thing, and I refused to do it. In the end, the relationship didnt last. He felt that because I wasnt alienate my friends, he'd get EVEN and his REVENGE was to give out his cell # to skanks on line. So at 3am while we're having sex, little internet Y-whores are calling his cell phone! He might of thought he had the upperhand, but he's the one who's bed is empty and until he learns to overcome his miserable childhood his heart will be too. Instead of "posting ur revenge warnings" you might try being the more mature person and just letting it go. Someone who seeks revenge does so out of hurt and emotion... you're only showing that you care about him and that you want to hurt him as much as he hurts you. Walking away is the ultimate slap in the face, show him you don't fucking care, you can do better, and you don't need to waste an ounce of your energy on him. Put your energy into making your own life more rewarding, for you & your child. Good Luck!

02-10-2005, 10:10 PM
thefool Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: ICQ 341530034 Posts: 1,593	A while back I met this guy and we both used the same chat room. In chat we both have a more outgoing & raunchy nature, both of us say things to make people laugh, both of us are attention seeking whores, and there wasnt an issue. He used to say things to me in front of the entire room & I'd say things back, it was all fun & playful. AS SOON AS HE MOVED IN WITH ME, he wanted me off of chat, didn't like me posting in the room, didnt like the people I'd talked to online for 5 or 6 years calling the house. He was completely insecure with them PM'ing me, etc. The way he looked at it was that if I was fucking him & talked to him in chat, I'd fuck anyone else who PM's or Calls me... which was WRONG! Chat is for fun, the people in that room had kept me company at some of the most stressful times of my life, kept me sane and gave me support during the sad times of my life, and came to me for strength when they needed it. It might sound pathetic to some, but I'm sure the majoirty can see where I'm coming from. Finding like minded people & sharing experiences with them can be very rewarding, letting that go because your new bf or gf is insecure & jealous is a stupid thing, and I refused to do it. In the end, the relationship didnt last. He felt that because I wasnt alienate my friends, he'd get EVEN and his REVENGE was to give out his cell # to skanks on line. So at 3am while we're having sex, little internet Y-whores are calling his cell phone! He might of thought he had the upperhand, but he's the one who's bed is empty and until he learns to overcome his miserable childhood his heart will be too. Instead of "posting ur revenge warnings" you might try being the more mature person and just letting it go. Someone who seeks revenge does so out of hurt and emotion... you're only showing that you care about him and that you want to hurt him as much as he hurts you. Walking away is the ultimate slap in the face, show him you don't fucking care, you can do better, and you don't need to waste an ounce of your energy on him. Put your energy into making your own life more rewarding, for you & your child. Good Luck! __________________ NF pays $50 for each new join!