Originally Posted by thefool

You're probably right, because I was thinking the same thing. Of the guys that I've had sex with the only ones that I don't use condoms with are guys that I've dated a long time & been in love with, trusted, etc. The sex was far more arousing, exciting, and fulfilling, than the few guys that were condom wearing casual partners. Those times I'm a lil more self conscious, a little more uptight, not breaking out the toys, raunchy talk, etc. I wouldnt say I'm depressed more with them, but after sometimes I'm much less pleased with myself, because I had sex with someone that I really didnt care about, for the sake of having sex, and not for the bond that comes with it, when you're in a rewarding relationship. When I am in love, I SOOOO love to give oral, and theres really nothing that I wouldnt do to please my partner, and knowing he's finishing inside is a HUGE boost of confidence! If he has to pull out and jerk himself off to come, that could be a real ego crusher lol Maybe thats why those woman are suicidal, they're worried they cant make men cum! ;) who knows, good article though!