the way I look at it is like this... if you are in a heterosexual relationship (guy-girl) anything that goes on in their bedroom isn't GAY! If he does oral on her, does that make her a lesbian... NO! Lesbians do oral... gay men do anal... for those that think any anal play makes them gay, then all of us woman who enjoy oral are gay too. The logic is just as ignorant. I feel that when your with someone & you care about them, doing things to bring that person pleasure is whats important. When you are with someone that you feel safe, secure, and close enough to, to share intimate things, then theres no reason to feel shame or guilt or gay. Thats just religious and societies inhibitions, behind my doors I do what I want to do, if someone else isn't comfortable doing it, then its their loss... literally!
