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04-30-2004, 04:10 PM

So the primary attraction of women is physical attraction, and closely behind is wealth and power. Women will deny the second factor to no end, but it has been proven by psychologists to be a strong driving force. Some men say they wouldn't want a girl to want them for reasons other than their personality, etc etc. However, women won't have you unless they percieve some element of wealth and power.

So women, no need to defend yourself. There's nothing to defend, these are only proven facts. Women won't have you for reasons only relating to your personality or good looks. When you're wealthy, and women all of a sudden are infinitely more interested than when you were broke, are you ok with this?
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04-30-2004, 04:11 PM

I just know i like curves and pussies which are "innies"

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04-30-2004, 04:15 PM

Originally posted by xenigo
So the primary attraction of women is physical attraction, and closely behind is wealth and power.

I don't need to be medically qualified to point out the friggin obvious....

In MANY cases, the more wealth and power, the less physical attraction is required.

No-one needs to be a rocket scientist to work that out.
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04-30-2004, 04:15 PM

So the primary attraction of women is physical attraction,
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Are you sure that this is true?
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04-30-2004, 04:17 PM

Originally posted by BigG
So the primary attraction of women is physical attraction,
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Are you sure that this is true?

I think women tend to look at a mans ass. For example, if their ass looks big because there is a wallet full of cash in their back pocket, girls like that.
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04-30-2004, 04:20 PM

wealth is always a good thing but i like physical attraction first.
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04-30-2004, 04:21 PM

if their ass looks big because there is a wallet full of cash
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04-30-2004, 04:21 PM

Originally posted by BigG
So the primary attraction of women is physical attraction,
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Are you sure that this is true?

That's what it says in this psychology book I've got here.
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04-30-2004, 04:22 PM

Id think it would be power/money then physical. Oh yeah and the big one humor every woman claims its their biggest turn on, yet most funny people never get laid ironic eh?

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04-30-2004, 04:23 PM

Wealth or your ability to earn shall always be a big factor, but you are right. Women shall always deny that fact.
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04-30-2004, 04:23 PM

xenigo, what ever happened to your retarded girlfriend that was "investing" in the lithunian dealie a couple months back?

did she get fucked?
did you rub it in her face?
did you get laid?
did you rub it her face?
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04-30-2004, 04:24 PM

Originally posted by freeadultcontent
Id think it would be power/money then physical. Oh yeah and the big one humor every woman claims its their biggest turn on, yet most funny people never get laid ironic eh?

Or how about "I just wanted a nice guy, that's all I want." Lie of the century.
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04-30-2004, 04:24 PM

Heh... someone's been reading up over at www.fastseduction.com

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04-30-2004, 04:25 PM

I'll admit it: I like wealth, power, and cute boys
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04-30-2004, 04:26 PM

Originally posted by TheSmutPeddlerDOTcom
I think women tend to look at a mans ass. For example, if their ass looks big because there is a wallet full of cash in their back pocket, girls like that.

Be too funny if it weren't so damn true...
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04-30-2004, 04:27 PM

Alright, since you brought up psychology and that's my major, I'll explain it to ya:

Humans are ultimately driven by the basic human need to procreate. To have kids and raise them well and pass our genetics along and such. For men, this means that they have the need to have sex all over the place with all different girls to get their genes out, whereas women look for mates for life, and instead of wanting to create more kids they want to spend more time nurturing the ones they have. It has something to do with pregnancy and how women invest more time into a child....

Anyway. In terms of looking for a mate, men want a woman who will have superior genetics to make good kids with, so they are primarily attracted to women who look young. Women on the other hand are looking for a suitable mate who can help raise their child and support the family - which nowadays means we're looking for wealth.

So next time someone calls me a gold-digger, I can legitimately blame human nature. Psychology rocks.
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04-30-2004, 04:27 PM

Originally posted by xenigo
Or how about "I just wanted a nice guy, that's all I want." Lie of the century.

I don't think it's a lie so much as them repeating back what their outer brain is telling them (which is repeating what society is telling them they want)... a nice guy, dependable provider, blah blah.

What makes their ovaries resonate is a MAN who'll give those emotional highs/lows they crave, even if they don't admit it to themselves on a conscious level.

Speaking in broad generalizations, of course.

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04-30-2004, 04:28 PM

Originally posted by doober
xenigo, what ever happened to your retarded girlfriend that was "investing" in the lithunian dealie a couple months back?

did she get fucked?
did you rub it in her face?
did you get laid?
did you rub it her face?

She told me originally that it was her "job" to do this, and that she had been "hired" to transfer the money to and from. Lately she's been complaining about how she doesn't have a job, and how she isn't making any money. I tell her tongue-in-cheek that she DOES have a job! I try to hold back the laughter. She'll reply with "well, that's not a job... and besides they've only sent one check". I have a feeling that one check was the one fraudulent check, but she's not admitting she got taken for $4k.
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04-30-2004, 04:28 PM

The thing I like in a man is if he is 1) good in bed, 2) attractive, 3) funny/good personality, and 4) they are the "relationship type". Do you honestly think if you fell in love and the feeling was mutual, a person would leave you if you were broke? If so, you have never been in love.
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04-30-2004, 04:29 PM

Originally posted by rickholio
Heh... someone's been reading up over at www.fastseduction.com

No, I don't have time for infomercial websites. What I've written came out of an actual psychology book.
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04-30-2004, 04:45 PM

I can believe that.

I'm not attracted to a man only because he has cash, but hearing my boyfriend telling me about what he does in his company, and how people rely on me turns me on like crazy...

"tell me again what you did that saved the situation at work.."
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04-30-2004, 05:58 PM

Originally posted by DreamCumTrue
The thing I like in a man is if he is 1) good in bed, 2) attractive, 3) funny/good personality, and 4) they are the "relationship type". Do you honestly think if you fell in love and the feeling was mutual, a person would leave you if you were broke? If so, you have never been in love.

You're right, you've just proven science wrong. Thanks for the input.

Oh, and to answer your question. Absolutely, a woman would leave a man in a second if he were broke. And yes, I've been in love.
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04-30-2004, 06:21 PM

In terms of looking for a mate, men want a woman who will have superior genetics to make good kids with, so they are primarily attracted to women who look young.
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WRONG!!!

Men want women who look fertile!!! Tits, nice ass, perfect hips and young!!! Men don't care about making "good kids" they just want to impregnate as many females as possible. The most fertile females have the body to procreate!

I heard there was something in the air making all the girls pregnant . . .

. . . their ankles!!!
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04-30-2004, 06:25 PM

Originally posted by xenigo
You're right, you've just proven science wrong. Thanks for the input.

Oh, and to answer your question. Absolutely, a woman would leave a man in a second if he were broke. And yes, I've been in love.

You are so fucking egotistical. Not all women are the same. Its just like saying all men are assholes, which most aren't but you are proving THAT theory.

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04-30-2004, 07:38 PM

Goodlooks and personality is #1 boyfriend requirement. but wealth or ability to provide for the family is #1 husband requirement.

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05-01-2004, 05:14 AM

hehe.

the funny think about real-life perception, is that it seldom reflects reality.

if i pick up a cab, or hit a restaurant, people are always very comfortable with me, because they always assume i am in the service industry. EVERY TIME. this does not bother me at all, in fact i love it. i am not a suit and tie kind of guy.

last night we took a cab home, and the guy would not believe that i lived at the place he dropped us off at. perception is a funny thing.

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05-01-2004, 05:43 AM

I was at the dmv the other day waiting for the doors to open in a room with about 25 people. there was one group of three having a conversation in their own world oblivios to the rest of us. we were all waiting silently. Now I dont get out often... but there was this sexy woman in line.. just feeding off my presence. ( i have quite a presence occasionally. ) ... it was beginning to get hot... like really really hot.. remember nobody was speaking. we werent even looking at eachother. All I had to do was pay attention and I could have gotten the best sex of my life, and probably hers.. right there in the middle of a silent crowd at the DMV line. And who would have even noticed.

I let my insecurites get the best of me and pulled out. :/ Something that If i didnt do, could have became a tremendously sexual experience and i may be somewhere else right now besisdes typing on a computer.

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