Fletch, ever feel like you're slamming your head against a wall?
Yeah, I thought so.
My 1.319 cents:
I've had rape fantasies since I was a teenager. No, I was not abused as a child. I led a quite normal suburban life, maybe a little too sheltered, maybe a little too latchkey, but it is what it is. I fantasized in the safety of my own home. But when I had to walk down the dark overgrown path between the houses and the barn after dark, I was sweating and starting like a jittery horse. The fantasy was the furthest thing from my mind. There is no way I actually *wanted* a guy to jump out of the dark and attack me.
Seeing the violence and blood and fear depicted in movies, be they mainstream or porn, is disturbing and scary. It's meant to be. However, if it was portrayed in a gentler, maybe more of a role-playing manner, I could find it sexy. Mind you, I'm pretty white bread. I'm sure there are people who are into the BDSM aspect of things who don't mind the blood and pain aspect in their fantasies.
So? Take it or leave it.
Yeah, I thought so.
My 1.319 cents:
I've had rape fantasies since I was a teenager. No, I was not abused as a child. I led a quite normal suburban life, maybe a little too sheltered, maybe a little too latchkey, but it is what it is. I fantasized in the safety of my own home. But when I had to walk down the dark overgrown path between the houses and the barn after dark, I was sweating and starting like a jittery horse. The fantasy was the furthest thing from my mind. There is no way I actually *wanted* a guy to jump out of the dark and attack me.
Seeing the violence and blood and fear depicted in movies, be they mainstream or porn, is disturbing and scary. It's meant to be. However, if it was portrayed in a gentler, maybe more of a role-playing manner, I could find it sexy. Mind you, I'm pretty white bread. I'm sure there are people who are into the BDSM aspect of things who don't mind the blood and pain aspect in their fantasies.
So? Take it or leave it.
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