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  • SmutGiant
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    • Oct 2003
    • 4896

    #1

    Why do I have this wierd feeling after my girlfriend talked about past experience?

    I know I shouldn't have this feeling, but why do I? We were talking about past flings and stuff, even though I have had more partners than her, I just have this wierd feeling in my stomach (physically)... What the fuck is wrong with me? lol...
  • media
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    • Apr 2002
    • 9853

    #2
    That's just something you don't talk about...

    That's like walking in on your girl taking a shit or something.. You just feel wierd after like it's something you should have never seen or known they did..
    I'm here for the violence!

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    • Rictor
      Old Timer
      • Jan 2001
      • 12208

      #3
      Yah, don't ask, don't tell.

      Nothing good can come from knowing.

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      • nathan_f
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        • Sep 2003
        • 3983

        #4
        Originally posted by media
        That's just something you don't talk about...

        That's like walking in on your girl taking a shit or something.. You just feel wierd after like it's something you should have never seen or known they did..


        so true..

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        • irishfury
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          • Aug 2003
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          #5
          lol yeah man what others said is right on point
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          • StRoGE
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            • Mar 2004
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            #6
            If I hadnt asked my ex-fiance a bunch of questions about shit like that we'd probably still be together.
            I have to agree. Dont ask, and definately dont tell.
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            • Thomas1007
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              • Aug 2002
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              #7
              Im gonna take a wild guess
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              • Trixie Racer
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                • Aug 2003
                • 2328

                #8
                You're insecure.

                My boyfriend knows that he's the best sex I've ever had so it doesn't bother him at all if I discuss previous sex partners. He's had MUCH more experience than I, so it does make me insecure if he talks about previous partners.
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                • StuartD
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                  • Jul 2002
                  • 29903

                  #9
                  My ex felt the need to relate everything we did to some past experience with her past boyfriends....

                  Man that was annoying. I so totally didn't want to know.

                  Even after telling her that, she'd still keep on telling me.

                  This is one of the reasons why she's now an "ex"
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                  • SmutGiant
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                    • Oct 2003
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                    #10
                    Originally posted by Thomas1007
                    Im gonna take a wild guess
                    and god forbid I say this on GFY
                    but yup
                    " yer in love"
                    Congrats

                    I don't want to sound like a corn dog, but you're probably right. Havn't felt this way about a female before.

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                    • SmutGiant
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                      • Oct 2003
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                      #11
                      Originally posted by Trixie Racer
                      You're insecure.

                      My boyfriend knows that he's the best sex I've ever had so it doesn't bother him at all if I discuss previous sex partners. He's had MUCH more experience than I, so it does make me insecure if he talks about previous partners.
                      I don't think it's that. She says I pleasure her better than she can pleasure herself ... that's pretty good coming from a female! lol.

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                      • Thomas1007
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                        • Aug 2002
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                        #12
                        Originally posted by SmutGiant
                        I don't want to sound like a corn dog, but you're probably right. Havn't felt this way about a female before.
                        I hate to say it, but yup
                        all us men go thru it, we see her, we fall...
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                        • SmutGiant
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                          #13
                          Originally posted by Thomas1007
                          I hate to say it, but yup
                          all us men go thru it, we see her, we fall...
                          then of course like idiots we spend every fucking dime to Impress her. Oh then its gets better... you or she moves IN...

                          another story for another time
                          If this thread starts to die, please bump with the story!... could save a life you know! lol

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                          • gwilkins
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                            • Feb 2004
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                            #14
                            Originally posted by media
                            That's just something you don't talk about...

                            That's like walking in on your girl taking a shit or something.. You just feel wierd after like it's something you should have never seen or known they did..
                            You just need to find a girl that doesn't shit or have sex and you'll be golden

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                            • SmutGiant
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                              • Oct 2003
                              • 4896

                              #15
                              Originally posted by gwilkins
                              You just need to find a girl that doesn't shit or have sex and you'll be golden

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                              • Sheri Santiago
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                                • Jun 2003
                                • 1584

                                #16
                                Originally posted by SmutGiant
                                I know I shouldn't have this feeling, but why do I? We were talking about past flings and stuff, even though I have had more partners than her, I just have this wierd feeling in my stomach (physically)... What the fuck is wrong with me? lol...
                                Yep, if you didn't love her you wouldn't give a shit. Enjoy yourself, she's with you for a reason...don't let the past get in the way!!!!
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                                • Cyborg 2.0
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                                  • Mar 2004
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                                  #17
                                  get that feeling too...
                                  start to think about it
                                  better not tell and not know
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                                  • SmutGiant
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                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by Sheri Santiago
                                    Yep, if you didn't love her you wouldn't give a shit. Enjoy yourself, she's with you for a reason...don't let the past get in the way!!!!
                                    She clearly not bothered by my past experiences, does that mean she's not in love with me? lol

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                                    • Thomas1007
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                                      • Aug 2002
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                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by SmutGiant
                                      She clearly not bothered by my past experiences, does that mean she's not in love with me? lol
                                      Perhaps you should Ask?
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                                      • Sheri Santiago
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                                        • Jun 2003
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                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by SmutGiant
                                        She clearly not bothered by my past experiences, does that mean she's not in love with me? lol
                                        LOL shit I didn't think about that...no I'd say maybe she's just really into you so she doesn't care - different things affect people differently - if you are enjoying your life with her then don't let this kind of stuff bother you...by the way, why aren't you out living it up on a Friday night with yer woman? ;)

                                        have a good weekend
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                                        • goBigtime
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                                          • Nov 2002
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                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by media

                                          That's like walking in on your girl taking a shit or something.. You just feel wierd after like it's something you should have never seen or known they did..

                                          Hmm I wonder if it would be worse if you walked in after her and there was an unflushed foot long turd in the bowl.

                                          Would have made a great Seinfeld.

                                          Jerrys new girlfriend leaves him a present...






                                          Then again... maybe it already was an episode? lol

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                                          • wdsguy
                                            Ryde or Die
                                            • Dec 2002
                                            • 19568

                                            #22
                                            u don't wanna know about shit dude, thats what caused problems in my current relationship
                                            Last edited by wdsguy; 04-23-2004, 09:08 PM.

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                                            • SmutGiant
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                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by Sheri Santiago
                                              LOL shit I didn't think about that...no I'd say maybe she's just really into you so she doesn't care - different things affect people differently - if you are enjoying your life with her then don't let this kind of stuff bother you...by the way, why aren't you out living it up on a Friday night with yer woman? ;)

                                              have a good weekend
                                              We had a good night together... she left not too long before I started this thread

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                                              • SmutGiant
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                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by goBigtime
                                                Hmm I wonder if it would be worse if you walked in after her and there was an unflushed foot long turd in the bowl.

                                                Would have made a great Seinfeld.

                                                Jerrys new girlfriend leaves him a present...






                                                Then again... maybe it already was an episode? lol
                                                LOL

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                                                • Sheri Santiago
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                                                  • Jun 2003
                                                  • 1584

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by SmutGiant
                                                  We had a good night together... she left not too long before I started this thread

                                                  hooo hell yeah! got pics? lol just playin' ;)
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                                                  • media
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                                                    • Apr 2002
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                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by gwilkins
                                                    You just need to find a girl that doesn't shit or have sex and you'll be golden
                                                    That's why I married a virgin, and I don't use the restroom while she does.. Problem solved..
                                                    I'm here for the violence!

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                                                    • SmutGiant
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                                                      • Oct 2003
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                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by media
                                                      That's why I married a virgin, and I don't use the restroom while she does.. Problem solved..
                                                      My girl actually IS a virgin... but she's still had other flings doing almost everything but. Actually, before tonight I thought I was the only guy that EVER touched her.

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                                                      • SmutGiant
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                                                        • Oct 2003
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                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by Sheri Santiago
                                                        hooo hell yeah! got pics? lol just playin' ;)


                                                        Actually sometimes I joke around about the people on the internet watching, lol...

                                                        A quote from tonight:

                                                        Her: "Can anyone see through those blinds"

                                                        Me: "Only my paying customers"

                                                        lol

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                                                        • Sheri Santiago
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                                                          • Jun 2003
                                                          • 1584

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by SmutGiant


                                                          Actually sometimes I joke around about the people on the internet watching, lol...

                                                          A quote from tonight:

                                                          Her: "Can anyone see through those blinds"

                                                          Me: "Only my paying customers"

                                                          lol
                                                          LOL did tanker put you up to that? ;)

                                                          I think if she's a virgin you should be even less worried...sounds like you have a good thing going

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                                                          • SmutGiant
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                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by Sheri Santiago
                                                            LOL did tanker put you up to that? ;)

                                                            I think if she's a virgin you should be even less worried...sounds like you have a good thing going

                                                            why am I still awake?
                                                            Where do you think we got the content for Chick Trick from? lol...

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                                                            • SmutGiant
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                                                              • Oct 2003
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                                                              #31
                                                              It's also the randomness, and places where her enounters took place that bug me.

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                                                              • brizzad
                                                                holla
                                                                • Jul 2003
                                                                • 11769

                                                                #32
                                                                i took my g/f's virginity... nothing to worry about here


                                                                but in previous relationships.. talking about who fucked who was ALWAYS trouble.. ive definately learned my lesson

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                                                                • Sheri Santiago
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                                                                  • Jun 2003
                                                                  • 1584

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by SmutGiant
                                                                  It's also the randomness, and places where her enounters took place that bug me.
                                                                  block it out or you'll drive yourself nuts, everyone has a past, she's still a virgin, which means a lot. Enjoy what you have, remember you could be dating A LOT worse!!!
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                                                                  • SmutGiant
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by Sheri Santiago
                                                                    block it out or you'll drive yourself nuts, everyone has a past, she's still a virgin, which means a lot. Enjoy what you have, remember you could be dating A LOT worse!!!
                                                                    I'll do my best, but I have a problem of thinking to much, lol... I'm gonna take a long walk and chainsmoke, that should help, lol... have a good night and thanks for your posts

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                                                                    • SmutGiant
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      will this feeling go away? lol... it's driving me nuts!

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                                                                      • Royaltee_Gee
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                                                                        • Jul 2001
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by SmutGiant
                                                                        will this feeling go away? lol... it's driving me nuts!
                                                                        Ya it will after a good 2-3 weeks... Ya what everyone else said, dont ask dont tell.... Then whenever your mad at her, youll think of it, so get used to it.. its like a monkey on your fucking back that will never go away

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                                                                        • wdsguy
                                                                          Ryde or Die
                                                                          • Dec 2002
                                                                          • 19568

                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by SmutGiant
                                                                          will this feeling go away? lol... it's driving me nuts!
                                                                          dude it took me 4 months and I am still dealing with it but its getting better. It will depend for you. All i gotto say is you have to focus on the good things between u guys and keep yourself busy. This won't be an easy issue to deal with but you can't get over it- it will just take time. Lesson learned= never open the pandoras box.

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                                                                          • Ironhorse
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                                                                            • Nov 2002
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by SmutGiant
                                                                            My girl actually IS a virgin... but she's still had other flings doing almost everything but. Actually, before tonight I thought I was the only guy that EVER touched her.
                                                                            Words of advice: Don't marry her!! You will remember this post 15 years later when you're struggling with jealous feelings which you are obviously already having.
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                                                                            • Ironhorse
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                                                                              • Nov 2002
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by SmutGiant
                                                                              will this feeling go away? lol... it's driving me nuts!
                                                                              See my post above. NO, this feeling will never go away, it will get worse when you realize it's not natural for anyone to only sleep with just one person. Sorry bro
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                                                                              • wdsguy
                                                                                Ryde or Die
                                                                                • Dec 2002
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by Ironhorse
                                                                                See my post above. NO, this feeling will never go away, it will get worse when you realize it's not natural for anyone to only sleep with just one person. Sorry bro

                                                                                It does get better, to the point where if u think about it- it won't get u pissed anymore. Gotto accept reality sooner or later

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                                                                                • SmutGiant
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                                                                                  • Oct 2003
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by wdsguy
                                                                                  It does get better, to the point where if u think about it- it won't get u pissed anymore. Gotto accept reality sooner or later
                                                                                  It might be the alchohol talking, but I think you're right bro!

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                                                                                  • SmutGiant
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                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    It's kind of one of those "you're damned if you do, damned if you don't" type deals. If you don't know, you're curious, and when you do know it bothers you. I guess you could also call that a catch22?

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                                                                                    • Elli
                                                                                      Reach for those stars!
                                                                                      • Apr 2003
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                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      All of my bf's asked that question sooner or later. Too late, I realized they didn't really want the truth. I was all about being honest and communicative, and all they wanted to hear was how every other guy was awful and creepy and a blundering idiot and I was still as pure as the driven snow.

                                                                                      I don't ask "Does this dress make me look fat?" if I don't want the TRUTH. Don't ASK if you don't want to KNOW.

                                                                                      If you already know, deal with it. Be thankful she told you the truth and has nothing to hide from you.
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                                                                                      • SmutGiant
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by Elli
                                                                                        All of my bf's asked that question sooner or later. Too late, I realized they didn't really want the truth. I was all about being honest and communicative, and all they wanted to hear was how every other guy was awful and creepy and a blundering idiot and I was still as pure as the driven snow.

                                                                                        I don't ask "Does this dress make me look fat?" if I don't want the TRUTH. Don't ASK if you don't want to KNOW.

                                                                                        If you already know, deal with it. Be thankful she told you the truth and has nothing to hide from you.

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                                                                                        • Holly
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by SmutGiant
                                                                                          I know I shouldn't have this feeling, but why do I?
                                                                                          Because you have a y chromosome.
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                                                                                          • wdsguy
                                                                                            Ryde or Die
                                                                                            • Dec 2002
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Originally posted by SmutGiant
                                                                                            It's kind of one of those "you're damned if you do, damned if you don't" type deals. If you don't know, you're curious, and when you do know it bothers you. I guess you could also call that a catch22?
                                                                                            its all good bro, alcohol helps.

                                                                                            I been dealin with it for 4 months and it was so shitty at first that I started fuckin up in school. All I can say is that if u think this chick is worth it then stay with her. Atleast u are getting this outta the way early. All chicks have baggage and shit and its just something u gotto deal with. If you start feelin funny, drink, hang out with yer friends or just do something to keep your mind occupied and trust me u will get over this with time.

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                                                                                            • Holly
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by SmutGiant
                                                                                              She clearly not bothered by my past experiences, does that mean she's not in love with me? lol
                                                                                              No. It means she only has Xs.
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                                                                                              • Elli
                                                                                                Reach for those stars!
                                                                                                • Apr 2003
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                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Originally posted by wdsguy
                                                                                                its all good bro, alcohol helps.

                                                                                                I been dealin with it for 4 months and it was so shitty at first that I started fuckin up in school. All I can say is that if u think this chick is worth it then stay with her. Atleast u are getting this outta the way early. All chicks have baggage and shit and its just something u gotto deal with. If you start feelin funny, drink, hang out with yer friends or just do something to keep your mind occupied and trust me u will get over this with time.
                                                                                                And hey, if you can't forget her, then at least you're halfway to a good case of alcoholism. It's all good!
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                                                                                                • VeriSexy
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                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Originally posted by StRoGE
                                                                                                  If I hadnt asked my ex-fiance a bunch of questions about shit like that we'd probably still be together.
                                                                                                  I have to agree. Dont ask, and definately dont tell.
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                                                                                                  • wdsguy
                                                                                                    Ryde or Die
                                                                                                    • Dec 2002
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                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by Holly
                                                                                                    No. It means she only has Xs.
                                                                                                    My gf doesn't care about my x's

                                                                                                    I guess its due to the fact that chicks care more about emotional attachments while we get all worked up over the physical things they did

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