Sorry to hear about this. I grew up in CA and the first and last time I rebelled against my parents, they reported me missing. I had a high gpa and wore the same type of cloths and had a good relationship with my parents. I was scare to call them since I felt like I felt like a looser, a policeman spotted me and gave me pure hell for putting my parents through my disappearing act and told me I was damn lucky not to be dead.
Wishing the best
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