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Wow- I'm suprised by how many people are advising you to leave him. Thats a bit shocking and disgusting. You guys do realize this is her husband, not her boyfriend??
I feel for you, trust is very important to me and when its not there I have a hard time loving people. But remember, trust can mean different things to different people. That's really importantto understand. I broke up with a girl I was with for 18 months because I thought she didnt trust me, but it was just really due to her insecurities and her personality that she saw trust as something different from me.
I know the feeling of not wanting to look at a person, sleep in the same bed, etc. But what you need to do is sit down and have a real long talk. Spill your gets about this issue, the issues that you said also added to the fact, etc etc etc. If hes the person you fell in love with, he'll understand how much this means to you and that a solution needs to come about. Just remember, he's different then you and thats why you love him in the first place. So keep an open mind while hearing his opinion.
Hope everything works out! :-)
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