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  • buddyjuf
    • Aug 2026
    #1

    flirting with a hot bartender...

    interesting night tonight, I went to this pool place with a FUCKING hot bartender.

    I mustve bought her 10 shots or so, and I was paying for all my friends, mustve blown 100$ on shots tonight, ahah


    anyways, so this bartender seems older than I am, maybe shes 21 or so.

    the thing is there was an amount of flirting throughout the night, she grabbed my ass once, and put her arm around me telling me I'm getting her drunk, and so on...



    anywho, my question is just in GENERAL

    hot bartenders,
    to bang? (they are interested in you)
    or
    not to bang? (they are just doing their job)


    I mean I would say they are just doing their job, but she REALLY gave me more attention than all the other guys

    ...then again, I am so damb good looking
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    • Ironhorse
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      • Nov 2002
      • 7094
      #2
      Doing her job you were obviously the one paying, that's the way to get a big tip especially if you're young, won't hurt to ask her to lunch or something though
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        • BradM
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          • Dec 2003
          • 3397
          #3
          Originally posted by Ironhorse
          Doing her job, that's the way to get a big tip especially if you're young
          Sorry man thats the truth

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            • HS-Trixxxia
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              • Mar 2002
              • 2946
              #4
              You were paying - you were tipping - you got more attention. If she wants to bang....go ahead, just don't go falling head over heels in love with her. It may be genuine if you see her alot, she remembers very detailed stuff about you and so forth....if you go back next week and she doesn't so much as glance at you.....you know it was just business.

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                • beemk
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                  • Jan 2002
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                  #5
                  never ask a question like this. just go for it. guys who ask questions like this dont get pussy. you have to at least try..... worst case scenerio is she turns you down? who cares her loss...
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                    • buddyjuf
                      #6
                      Originally posted by Ironhorse
                      Doing her job, that's the way to get a big tip especially if you're young, won't hurt to ask her to lunch or something though
                      gotcha bro, thanx for the opinion

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                        • modifried
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                          • Feb 2004
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                          #7
                          Of course she's going to give you more attention, you're the one buying all the drinks, you're the one showing you've got the money to give her a bigger tip. ;)
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                            • buddyjuf
                              #8
                              Originally posted by beemk
                              never ask a question like this. just go for it. guys who ask questions like this dont get pussy. you have to at least try..... worst case scenerio is she turns you down? who cares her loss...
                              ah for sure bro
                              I do get pussy, and lots of it, trust me

                              but this is a case that interested me particularly, because it can be seen in different ways, ya know?

                              if you compare it to a girl that winks at you at a club and wants you to go dirty dance with her, it's a completely different story

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                                • Vox
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                                  • Mar 2002
                                  • 2710
                                  #9
                                  Doing her job, most barmaids won't even admit having a boyfriend just to increase her tips from all the flirting.
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                                    • buddyjuf
                                      #10
                                      Originally posted by modifried
                                      Of course she's going to give you more attention, you're the one buying all the drinks, you're the one showing you've got the money to give her a bigger tip. ;)
                                      god damn she was fucking hot

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                                        • ztik
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                                          • Aug 2001
                                          • 5196
                                          #11
                                          they do it to get bigger tips.
                                          .

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                                            • buddyjuf
                                              #12
                                              Originally posted by Trixxxia
                                              You were paying - you were tipping - you got more attention. If she wants to bang....go ahead, just don't go falling head over heels in love with her. It may be genuine if you see her alot, she remembers very detailed stuff about you and so forth....if you go back next week and she doesn't so much as glance at you.....you know it was just business.
                                              I'll go see her for sure next week
                                              even if it's business, it's fucking good business, getting all that attention from a girl that smoking hot

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                                                • beemk
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                                                  • Jan 2002
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                                                  #13
                                                  Originally posted by bdjuf
                                                  if you compare it to a girl that winks at you at a club and wants you to go dirty dance with her, it's a completely different story
                                                  how is that different? some bartenders flirt for bigger tips, and some club whores flirt to get guys to buy them drinks. you cant let either of them spoil it for girls that are actually interested in you.
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                                                    • Axeman
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                                                      • Feb 2004
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                                                      #14
                                                      I think a lot of the time they are just doing their job. Remember they really thrive on tips so.
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                                                        • buddyjuf
                                                          #15
                                                          alright then lets discuss my tip to her tonight

                                                          I must've bought her 10 shots and gave her 5$ at the end
                                                          do you think that's fair?

                                                          she dropped like 3 glasses and completely tripped and fell once, her and us were cracking up when that happened

                                                          damn it was a good night with the guys

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                                                            • WarChild
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                                                              • Jan 2003
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                                                              #16
                                                              Doing her job.

                                                              I for one try not to hit on bartenders or waitresses. I mean, they're at work .. They just want to get paid, probably not find dates.
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                                                                • buddyjuf
                                                                  #17
                                                                  Originally posted by beemk
                                                                  how is that different? some bartenders flirt for bigger tips, and some club whores flirt to get guys to buy them drinks. you cant let either of them spoil it for girls that are actually interested in you.
                                                                  hehe good reply

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                                                                    • HS-Trixxxia
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                                                                      • Mar 2002
                                                                      • 2946
                                                                      #18
                                                                      Originally posted by bdjuf


                                                                      I'll go see her for sure next week
                                                                      even if it's business, it's fucking good business, getting all that attention from a girl that smoking hot
                                                                      Just make sure, when you ask for her number, she doesn't give you the number to 'The Loser Line' wouldn't want to hear 'Trixxxia, you were right on Mix 96' hehehe

                                                                      (Not saying your a loser, hopefully, you know what I'm referring to)

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                                                                        • ztik
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                                                                          • Aug 2001
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                                                                          #19
                                                                          I don't buy girls drinks and I hardly tip (at shitty bars). Girls like it
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                                                                            • beemk
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                                                                              • Jan 2002
                                                                              • 20829
                                                                              #20
                                                                              Originally posted by bdjuf


                                                                              I'll go see her for sure next week
                                                                              even if it's business, it's fucking good business, getting all that attention from a girl that smoking hot
                                                                              yeah this time make sure you tell her you're going to let her go out to lunch with you the next week. then come on here and give us an update, prove to these guys that its not hard to bag a bartender.
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                                                                                • buddyjuf
                                                                                  #21
                                                                                  Originally posted by Trixxxia


                                                                                  Just make sure, when you ask for her number, she doesn't give you the number to 'The Loser Line' wouldn't want to hear 'Trixxxia, you were right on Mix 96' hehehe

                                                                                  (Not saying your a loser, hopefully, you know what I'm referring to)
                                                                                  hehe for sure hun

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                                                                                    • Kard63
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                                                                                      • Nov 2003
                                                                                      • 8944
                                                                                      #22
                                                                                      Originally posted by beemk
                                                                                      never ask a question like this. just go for it. guys who ask questions like this dont get pussy. you have to at least try..... worst case scenerio is she turns you down? who cares her loss...
                                                                                      Word. If anyone grabs my ass that I'm attracted to I'm gonna try to lay the pipe on them. period. If she doesn't want it, then the misconception is her fault.

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                                                                                        • buddyjuf
                                                                                          #23
                                                                                          Originally posted by beemk
                                                                                          yeah this time make sure you tell her you're going to let her go out to lunch with you the next week. then come on here and give us an update, prove to these guys that its not hard to bag a bartender.

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                                                                                            • Vox
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                                                                                              • Mar 2002
                                                                                              • 2710
                                                                                              #24
                                                                                              Originally posted by bdjuf
                                                                                              alright then lets discuss my tip to her tonight

                                                                                              I must've bought her 10 shots and gave her 5$ at the end
                                                                                              do you think that's fair?

                                                                                              she dropped like 3 glasses and completely tripped and fell once, her and us were cracking up when that happened

                                                                                              damn it was a good night with the guys
                                                                                              Damn you're cheap, did you run a tab? how much was it?
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                                                                                                • beemk
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                                                                                                  #25
                                                                                                  Originally posted by ztik
                                                                                                  I don't buy girls drinks and I hardly tip (at shitty bars). Girls like it
                                                                                                  i never buy any girls drinks, but i always tip good, even if its an ugly bartender or even a dude. you have to tip to get good service. plus they work for tips, its not fair to not tip them.
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                                                                                                    • buddyjuf
                                                                                                      #26
                                                                                                      Originally posted by Vox


                                                                                                      Damn you're cheap, did you run a tab? how much was it?
                                                                                                      mustve been 100$ or so
                                                                                                      but every drink I bought the guys, I bought her one as well (I honestly thought that would be enough)

                                                                                                      and trust me, I'm not usually cheap

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                                                                                                        • Ironhorse
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                                                                                                          • Nov 2002
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                                                                                                          #27
                                                                                                          Originally posted by bdjuf


                                                                                                          mustve been 100$ or so
                                                                                                          but every drink I bought the guys, I bought her one as well (I honestly thought that would be enough)

                                                                                                          and trust me, I'm not usually cheap
                                                                                                          $5 on a $100 tab, man something tells me you're not petting that putty-tat anytime soon
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                                                                                                            • ztik
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                                                                                                              • 5196
                                                                                                              #28
                                                                                                              Originally posted by beemk
                                                                                                              i never buy any girls drinks, but i always tip good, even if its an ugly bartender or even a dude. you have to tip to get good service. plus they work for tips, its not fair to not tip them.
                                                                                                              Well you arn't really getting any service if they are just sitting behind a bar serving drinks. How could they fuck that up? McDonalds is a harder job than that.
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                                                                                                                • beemk
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                                                                                                                  #29
                                                                                                                  what kind of freeloader friends do you hang out with?
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                                                                                                                    • buddyjuf
                                                                                                                      #30
                                                                                                                      alright people, almost 4 am here so I'm gonna hit the sack

                                                                                                                      thanx alot for the nice discussion, and feel free to continue while I'm asleep


                                                                                                                      good night! and see ya 2morrow

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                                                                                                                        • Kard63
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                                                                                                                          • Nov 2003
                                                                                                                          • 8944
                                                                                                                          #31
                                                                                                                          Thats a terrible tip, lol. I'd still try to hit it. If she is just trying to 'do her job' I'm sure this has happened to her a lot and she doesn't think much of it.

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                                                                                                                            • beemk
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                                                                                                                              • Jan 2002
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                                                                                                                              #32
                                                                                                                              Originally posted by Ironhorse


                                                                                                                              $5 on a $100 tab, man something tells me you're not petting that putty-tat anytime soon
                                                                                                                              hes not buying the pussy. chances are if she drank 10 shots she probably wont even remember him, let alone remember how much he tipped.
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                                                                                                                                • buddyjuf
                                                                                                                                  #33
                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by Ironhorse


                                                                                                                                  $5 on a $100 tab, man something tells me you're not petting that putty-tat anytime soon
                                                                                                                                  if you count the shots I Bought her, tha'ts 35$, which is like 1/3rd of the money I spent there

                                                                                                                                  I Dont know, I dont usually go out to drink, usually its at a friends house with a few bottles and chicks who want to suck cock

                                                                                                                                  I must've seen it differently than you, I figured the drinks I bought her was "tip enough" ya know?

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                                                                                                                                    • beemk
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                                                                                                                                      #34
                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by ztik


                                                                                                                                      Well you arn't really getting any service if they are just sitting behind a bar serving drinks. How could they fuck that up? McDonalds is a harder job than that.
                                                                                                                                      so you get the drinks yourself or they serve them to you?
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                                                                                                                                        • buddyjuf
                                                                                                                                          #35
                                                                                                                                          so in conclusion for me tonight, even though I buy her X amount of drinks, I should still leave her a big Cash Tip?

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                                                                                                                                            • Ironhorse
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                                                                                                                                              • Nov 2002
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                                                                                                                                              #36
                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by bdjuf

                                                                                                                                              I Dont know, I dont usually go out to drink, usually its at a friends house with a few bottles and chicks who want to suck cock
                                                                                                                                              I gotta hang out with you more often
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                                                                                                                                                • buddyjuf
                                                                                                                                                  #37
                                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by Ironhorse


                                                                                                                                                  I gotta hang out with you more often

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                                                                                                                                                    • Vox
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                                                                                                                                                      • Mar 2002
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                                                                                                                                                      #38
                                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by bdjuf


                                                                                                                                                      mustve been 100$ or so
                                                                                                                                                      but every drink I bought the guys, I bought her one as well (I honestly thought that would be enough)

                                                                                                                                                      and trust me, I'm not usually cheap
                                                                                                                                                      I don't count the shooters that I buy barmaids or waitresses in my tip total, I buy them because they are friendly and entertaining, and they usually buy me a few too.

                                                                                                                                                      I usually leave a 1$ for every drink, and depending on how many shooters, I tip between $1 to $5 per round.
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                                                                                                                                                        • buddyjuf
                                                                                                                                                          #39
                                                                                                                                                          Originally posted by Vox


                                                                                                                                                          I don't count the shooters that I buy barmaids or waitresses in my tip total, I buy them because they are friendly and entertaining, and they usually buy me a few too.

                                                                                                                                                          I usually leave a 1$ for every drink, and depending on how many shooters, I tip between $1 to $5 per round.
                                                                                                                                                          gotcha, thanx for the tip

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                                                                                                                                                            • Vox
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                                                                                                                                                              #40
                                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by bdjuf


                                                                                                                                                              gotcha, thanx for the tip
                                                                                                                                                              No prob, now let me meet those chicks that like to suck cock.
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                                                                                                                                                                • buddyjuf
                                                                                                                                                                  #41
                                                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by Vox


                                                                                                                                                                  No prob, now let me meet those chicks that like to suck cock.
                                                                                                                                                                  dude I'm telling you

                                                                                                                                                                  House Party + Booze = all the cocksucking you can imagine

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                                                                                                                                                                    • buddyjuf
                                                                                                                                                                      #42
                                                                                                                                                                      alright, no more for me

                                                                                                                                                                      goodnight everyone, and thanx again

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                                                                                                                                                                        • ztik
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                                                                                                                                                                          #43
                                                                                                                                                                          Originally posted by bdjuf
                                                                                                                                                                          alright, no more for me

                                                                                                                                                                          goodnight everyone, and thanx again
                                                                                                                                                                          np
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                                                                                                                                                                            • Fukeneh
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                                                                                                                                                                              dont shit where you eat.

                                                                                                                                                                              100 cad isnt shit to drop at a bar, last time i was there i dropped 400+ before tip and there was only 2 of us drinking.

                                                                                                                                                                              dont screw the bartender or take thier flirting serious, its like hooters, they are doing it for tips.

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                                                                                                                                                                                • beemk
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                                                                                                                                                                                  #45
                                                                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by bdjuf
                                                                                                                                                                                  so in conclusion for me tonight, even though I buy her X amount of drinks, I should still leave her a big Cash Tip?
                                                                                                                                                                                  no, just normal. leave her like 15%
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                                                                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by Fukeneh
                                                                                                                                                                                      dont shit where you eat.

                                                                                                                                                                                      100 cad isnt shit to drop at a bar, last time i was there i dropped 400+ before tip and there was only 2 of us drinking.

                                                                                                                                                                                      dont screw the bartender or take thier flirting serious, its like hooters, they are doing it for tips.
                                                                                                                                                                                      you're crazy. hes going out to have a good time. if he can get in the bartenders pants by all means do it. hot bartenders are a dime a dozen.
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                                                                                                                                                                                        • XxShiznaughtxX
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                                                                                                                                                                                          aren't bartenders not supposed to tip on the job
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                                                                                                                                                                                              seriously though, if you have never worked in the resturant business your need to know that you have to leave at LEAST 15%. And even if you spend $15 at a bar no one wants to serve you or bring you food and drinks for $1 dollar.
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                                                                                                                                                                                                • Dugmor
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                                                                                                                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by bdjuf
                                                                                                                                                                                                  interesting night tonight, I went to this pool place with a FUCKING hot bartender.

                                                                                                                                                                                                  I mustve bought her 10 shots or so, and I was paying for all my friends, mustve blown 100$ on shots tonight, ahah


                                                                                                                                                                                                  anyways, so this bartender seems older than I am, maybe shes 21 or so.

                                                                                                                                                                                                  the thing is there was an amount of flirting throughout the night, she grabbed my ass once, and put her arm around me telling me I'm getting her drunk, and so on...



                                                                                                                                                                                                  anywho, my question is just in GENERAL

                                                                                                                                                                                                  hot bartenders,
                                                                                                                                                                                                  to bang? (they are interested in you)
                                                                                                                                                                                                  or
                                                                                                                                                                                                  not to bang? (they are just doing their job)


                                                                                                                                                                                                  I mean I would say they are just doing their job, but she REALLY gave me more attention than all the other guys

                                                                                                                                                                                                  ...then again, I am so damb good looking

                                                                                                                                                                                                  What is the name of the bar ?

                                                                                                                                                                                                  I may have already gotten blown from her ............ so if you kiss her you will be tasting my c*ck !
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                                                                                                                                                                                                      Save your breath bdjuf. You seem like a decent kid and don't need to get caught up in the 'yoyo effect'. I'll give you a hint, you are NOT the string nor do you have control of the hahahahahahahaha Bartenders, dancers, and bar maids are professional grafters for the most part.
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