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Originally posted by xenigo
I was spouting off about how I think it's foolish to delete photos of ex's and such, after you're no longer together, and happened to throw in that I have a bunch of naked pics of my ex girlfriend on my computer. I think it was the 3rd date that I mentioned this. I told her I have them, and they're memories of my life, and why would I want to get rid of memories? Good or bad, they're a way to reflect. That was my point, anyway.
So we've been together for a month now, and last night I mentioned something about this neck pain I've been having ever since I was lying on top of my ex a few months ago, and all of a sudden she bursts into tears and says "you keep talking about her! I want you to delete all the photos of her off your computer!" It took over an hour to calm her down. So I went and backed them up... for better security, and better safe keeping. 
I don't want anything to do with my ex girlfriend now, because what's done is done, and she's a nut now. But why do women think that having a photo in one's posession is somehow a prerequsite to getting back together with an ex? It doesn't make much sense. It's just a record of my life. That's all.
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I feel for ya. Most women are psycho jealous. Insecurities, most likely due to things that happened long before you ever came into her life, and making her even more irrational than most women are anyway.
BTW, I'm a chick. And it's not just chicks.
I'm drafting a letter right now to my husband, who I've caught snooping through my emails and im logs like I don't deserve his respect and trust, when, in the 13 years I've known him, I've never given him cause. So I feel ya. I'd hate to break up a family over snooping, but it's not just snooping, it's a lack of trust and respect and both of those are vital in a relationship. So I am seriously considering taking some kind of action. I can't blame you for wanting out.
Smothering is the worst.