What do you consider cheating?

Collapse
X
Collapse
 
  • Page of 1
  • Time
  • Show
Clear All
new posts
Previous template Next
  • SmutGiant
    Confirmed User
    • Oct 2003
    • 4896
    #1

    What do you consider cheating?

    ie, open mouth kissing, oral sex, or are you one of those people who think cheating has to be intercourse?

    Well tonight I went over to a close friend's house for dinner and later in the evening when everyone had a few drinks and a group of us were just relaxing and watching tv. Well, I was sitting next to a female friend of mine who was quite drunk. Out of the blue, she puts her hand on my "special area" and kind of grabbed. I immedietly told her to stop, becuase I do have a girlfriend, but she couldn't make it to the dinner tonight. I know I did nothing wrong, but should I tell my girlfriend about this? Thing is they both know each other and I don't want to start any "drama", lol. The girl actually tried going for it again a couple of times and I moved after repeatedly telling her to knock it off.

    Sorry, for the rambling. This is all just drunk talk. Go back to sleep! lol
    Tags: None
    • Spunky
      I need a beer
      • Jun 2002
      • 133978
      #2
      Dump the whore

        Comment

        • BV
          wtf
          • Sep 2001
          • 10914
          #3
          hit that shit!

            Comment

            • SmutGiant
              Confirmed User
              • Oct 2003
              • 4896
              #4
              Originally posted by spunky1
              Dump the whore
              no. and my girl is far from a whore. I don't think you read the original post, lol.

                Comment

                • riosluts
                  Confirmed User
                  • Sep 2003
                  • 5250
                  #5
                  just tell your GF. so she can warn that friend and she'll stop

                    Comment

                    • Joetanto
                      So Fucking Banned
                      • Oct 2003
                      • 653
                      #6
                      turn off computer and go back to the party

                        Comment

                        • PenetratinP
                          Confirmed User
                          • Aug 2002
                          • 2689
                          #7
                          flirting.......some drunk junk grabbing, grinding on the dance floor....a quick kiss with no tongue here and there....

                          is NOT cheating.....


                          the second your naked or condomed cock touches something moist that belongs to another person....yer cheating.

                            Comment

                            • SmutGiant
                              Confirmed User
                              • Oct 2003
                              • 4896
                              #8
                              Originally posted by riosluts
                              just tell your GF. so she can warn that friend and she'll stop
                              Trust me. This will cause my girl to cause drama. lol. She is the type to take things waayyy to seriously. We get in the stupidest fights, lol... I get so bored of fighting that I usually just take the blame for whatever the fuck we're fighting about and move on, lol.

                              Once again I apologize for the drunk talk.

                                Comment

                                • SmutGiant
                                  Confirmed User
                                  • Oct 2003
                                  • 4896
                                  #9
                                  Originally posted by Joetanto
                                  turn off computer and go back to the party
                                  lol... got back from the party 2 hours ago.

                                    Comment

                                    • Spunky
                                      I need a beer
                                      • Jun 2002
                                      • 133978
                                      #10
                                      Originally posted by SmutGiant


                                      no. and my girl is far from a whore. I don't think you read the original post, lol.
                                      Sorry...Fuck the whore

                                        Comment

                                        • modelgigtalent
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • May 2003
                                          • 2208
                                          #11
                                          No fucking way, you didnt cheat.


                                          Web marketing - video editing - color correcting and more. ICQ -165829688

                                            Comment

                                            • twistyneck
                                              So Fucking Banned
                                              • Jan 2002
                                              • 4660
                                              #12
                                              Never tell your woman anything even remotely having to do with another girl. Trust me, even mentioning that she gave you a friendly look could get you a pitchfork through the face.

                                              You remind me of those people that really do cheat and then decide to confess. wtf???

                                              Just keep your mouth shut.

                                                Comment

                                                • VeriSexy
                                                  Join The Royal Family
                                                  • Apr 2002
                                                  • 25463
                                                  #13
                                                  LOL that's nothing Just tell your girl friend so she doesn't get confused
                                                  Looking for a KICK ASS TEEN SPONSOR? Check out ROYAL CASH - THE KING OF TEEN!
                                                  Incredible webmaster tools FHGs, Morphing Blog and RSS Feeds, Embedded FLV & WMV Videos                                                  .
                                                  With TOP RATIO Sites like


                                                  ATMovs.com | iTeenVideo.com |                                                   TeenSexMovs.com | TeenSexMania.com


                                                    Comment

                                                    • BV
                                                      wtf
                                                      • Sep 2001
                                                      • 10914
                                                      #14
                                                      Originally posted by PenetratinP
                                                      flirting.......some drunk junk grabbing, grinding on the dance floor....a quick kiss with no tongue here and there....

                                                      is NOT cheating.....
                                                      ...unless it's your girlfriend right?

                                                        Comment

                                                        • SmutGiant
                                                          Confirmed User
                                                          • Oct 2003
                                                          • 4896
                                                          #15
                                                          Originally posted by VeriSexy
                                                          LOL that's nothing Just tell your girl friend so she doesn't get confused
                                                          I know it's nothing. I want to tell my girl but this will cause a shitload of drama which i don't feel like starting. I guess I might just have to shut my mouth this time.

                                                            Comment

                                                            • SleazyDream
                                                              I'm here for SPORT
                                                              • Jul 2001
                                                              • 41470
                                                              #16
                                                              ohhh to be single
                                                              This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                              Now read without the word dog.

                                                                Comment

                                                                • brickbat
                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                  • Apr 2004
                                                                  • 740
                                                                  #17
                                                                  If you think telling your gf is gonna set her off, how do you think she'll react when she finds out from the other girl? Or someone else that was there?

                                                                  Chinese/Japanese/Korean Traffic * Best Dialer * Get Hosting
                                                                  Buy Content * Email Program * Mainstream & Cam Traffic
                                                                  General Adult Traffic * Non-porn Popups

                                                                    Comment

                                                                    • PenetratinP
                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                      • Aug 2002
                                                                      • 2689
                                                                      #18
                                                                      Originally posted by BV


                                                                      ...unless it's your girlfriend right?
                                                                      well....I'm young, dumb, and full of cum.....so maybe I have different rules...but as long as I'm not sticking my 3rd leg into any of a strange girl's holes I don't consider it cheating.

                                                                        Comment

                                                                        • Plan9
                                                                          Confirmed User
                                                                          • Jul 2003
                                                                          • 1801
                                                                          #19
                                                                          Originally posted by PenetratinP
                                                                          flirting.......some drunk junk grabbing, grinding on the dance floor....a quick kiss with no tongue here and there....

                                                                          is NOT cheating.....


                                                                          the second your naked or condomed cock touches something moist that belongs to another person....yer cheating.
                                                                          It might not fall under the technical definition of cheating, but it's definitely NOT something I'd want my signifigcant other doing with another guy.

                                                                            Comment

                                                                            • Mishi
                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                              • Feb 2002
                                                                              • 1054
                                                                              #20
                                                                              Originally posted by SmutGiant


                                                                              I know it's nothing. I want to tell my girl but this will cause a shitload of drama which i don't feel like starting. I guess I might just have to shut my mouth this time.
                                                                              Unless you're really in the mood to test the relationship, don't tell her. The other chick was drunk, acting stupidly, and likely doesn't remember a thing. Why should YOU pay (probably for the rest of your relationship) for what some drunk girl did? If your gal is the "jealous type" (as I understand it) she will find a way to blame you. Just let it go.
                                                                              Looking for PHP/MySQL solutions? Check out Cyboriginal - custom scripts, installation services and more.

                                                                                Comment

                                                                                • BV
                                                                                  wtf
                                                                                  • Sep 2001
                                                                                  • 10914
                                                                                  #21
                                                                                  Originally posted by PenetratinP


                                                                                  well....I'm young, dumb, and full of cum.....so maybe I have different rules...but as long as I'm not sticking my 3rd leg into any of a strange girl's holes I don't consider it cheating.


                                                                                  no, i mean, that rule is just for us guys, if our woman does that she's cheating.

                                                                                    Comment

                                                                                    • Shortbread
                                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                                      • Dec 2003
                                                                                      • 2181
                                                                                      #22
                                                                                      Originally posted by PenetratinP
                                                                                      flirting.......some drunk junk grabbing, grinding on the dance floor....a quick kiss with no tongue here and there....

                                                                                      is NOT cheating.....


                                                                                      the second your naked or condomed cock touches something moist that belongs to another person....yer cheating.
                                                                                      Every single person has a different opinion of cheating. I don't think flirting is cheating, but it is very disrespectful, drunk grabbing, or grabbing of any kind is cheating, a quick kiss is cheating....hell, I even think it's close to cheating to frequently visit a restaurant where you enjoy the company of the waitress there a little more than you should.

                                                                                      http://www.makingcoin.com
                                                                                      http://www.coinscuties.com
                                                                                       203813007

                                                                                        Comment

                                                                                        • Ironhorse
                                                                                          Pixel Pusher
                                                                                          • Nov 2002
                                                                                          • 7094
                                                                                          #23
                                                                                          Don't mention it, if it bothers you just stay away from her, I know it's going to be tough, I've been doing it for 14 years
                                                                                          [email protected]

                                                                                            Comment

                                                                                            • Chef93
                                                                                              Registered User
                                                                                              • Apr 2004
                                                                                              • 41
                                                                                              #24
                                                                                              Originally posted by Mishi


                                                                                              Unless you're really in the mood to test the relationship, don't tell her. The other chick was drunk, acting stupidly, and likely doesn't remember a thing. Why should YOU pay (probably for the rest of your relationship) for what some drunk girl did? If your gal is the "jealous type" (as I understand it) she will find a way to blame you. Just let it go.

                                                                                                Comment

                                                                                                • BigVlad
                                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                                  • Mar 2004
                                                                                                  • 703
                                                                                                  #25
                                                                                                  Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                                                                  ohhh to be single
                                                                                                  that seems to be golden

                                                                                                  Old school , new school need to learn up , www.FastSize.com !

                                                                                                    Comment

                                                                                                    • $5 submissions
                                                                                                      I help you SUCCEED
                                                                                                      • Nov 2003
                                                                                                      • 32189
                                                                                                      #26
                                                                                                      One way to approach the situation is to think what YOU would like to know if the roles were reversed. (ie., your girl went to the party and some drunk friend put his hand on her, etc)

                                                                                                        Comment

                                                                                                        • Tuna
                                                                                                          Confirmed User
                                                                                                          • May 2002
                                                                                                          • 1307
                                                                                                          #27
                                                                                                          Tell her before her friend does.


                                                                                                          $30 PER SIGNUP PLUS 25% RECURRING
                                                                                                          FREE HOSTED PIC AND MOVIE GALLERIES
                                                                                                          Submit Your Free Sites, Pic and Movie Galleries Here
                                                                                                          ICQ : 20034024

                                                                                                            Comment

                                                                                                            • SmutGiant
                                                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                                                              • Oct 2003
                                                                                                              • 4896
                                                                                                              #28
                                                                                                              Originally posted by $5 submissions
                                                                                                              One way to approach the situation is to think what YOU would like to know if the roles were reversed. (ie., your girl went to the party and some drunk friend put his hand on her, etc)
                                                                                                              exactly what I was thinking. If I do tell her it's not going to be tonight though. We're going to another dinner party, this time at a restaurant.

                                                                                                                Comment

                                                                                                                • SmutGiant
                                                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                                                  • Oct 2003
                                                                                                                  • 4896
                                                                                                                  #29
                                                                                                                  Originally posted by Mishi


                                                                                                                  Unless you're really in the mood to test the relationship, don't tell her. The other chick was drunk, acting stupidly, and likely doesn't remember a thing. Why should YOU pay (probably for the rest of your relationship) for what some drunk girl did? If your gal is the "jealous type" (as I understand it) she will find a way to blame you. Just let it go.
                                                                                                                  good post

                                                                                                                    Comment

                                                                                                                    • wild-cat
                                                                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                                                                      • Jan 2004
                                                                                                                      • 908
                                                                                                                      #30
                                                                                                                      Well its not cheating, but you should tell your g/f about that. Cause the girl is not a very good friend for your women if she trying to have you in the bed. And if your g/f find out about it and you didin't told her before, your going to be the one in trouble.

                                                                                                                      But thats not cheating what you did.

                                                                                                                      Cheating for me would be like if you would of let the girl continue what she doing, or kissing her or something.

                                                                                                                      I know one thing is that if I know a girl is trying to get my man and he doesent do nothing about it and let her do what she wants, he's a dead man.

                                                                                                                        Comment

                                                                                                                        • MetaMan
                                                                                                                          I AM WEB 2.0
                                                                                                                          • Jan 2003
                                                                                                                          • 28682
                                                                                                                          #31
                                                                                                                          DO NOT TELL HERE! ANYONE WHO IS TELLING U TO IS AN IDIOT AND THE LAST SEX THEY GOT IS FROM A PRIEST!

                                                                                                                          dude! think about it u did nothing wrong! this is women we are talking about. u tell her some chick grabbed your balls she is gonna tell u u shouldnt hang around that group of friends without her etc. she will also automatically think that u had something to do with it because u felt guilty enough to tell her. just keep your mouth shut and all should be good.

                                                                                                                            Comment

                                                                                                                            • tootie
                                                                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                                                                              • Jun 2003
                                                                                                                              • 6041
                                                                                                                              #32
                                                                                                                              If what I'm doing might hurt the person I'm with, I consider it cheating. I would never even spend time alone with another guy (talking or whatever), much less hug, kiss or in any way molest another guy. If I'm in a committed relationship, I'm committed all the way. I know other people feel differently, but I just feel that if you know it would hurt the person you claim to love, you shouldn't do it.

                                                                                                                              I don't know what to tell you about your girlfriend. She might get mad at you and think you had something to do with it, but she might also think you're being honest and it might make her trust you more. Depends on what type of person she is.

                                                                                                                              I guess, just think of whether it would bother YOU if SHE did it with someone else. Would it bother you if she had sex with another guy? If was kissing another guy? If she held another guy's hand? If it would bother you, don't do it. And if it wouldn't bother you, then maybe you shouldn't be in a serious relationship at that time.


                                                                                                                                Comment

                                                                                                                                • SmutGiant
                                                                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                                                                  • Oct 2003
                                                                                                                                  • 4896
                                                                                                                                  #33
                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by tootie
                                                                                                                                  If what I'm doing might hurt the person I'm with, I consider it cheating. I would never even spend time alone with another guy (talking or whatever), much less hug, kiss or in any way molest another guy. If I'm in a committed relationship, I'm committed all the way. I know other people feel differently, but I just feel that if you know it would hurt the person you claim to love, you shouldn't do it.

                                                                                                                                  I don't know what to tell you about your girlfriend. She might get mad at you and think you had something to do with it, but she might also think you're being honest and it might make her trust you more. Depends on what type of person she is.

                                                                                                                                  I guess, just think of whether it would bother YOU if SHE did it with someone else. Would it bother you if she had sex with another guy? If was kissing another guy? If she held another guy's hand? If it would bother you, don't do it. And if it wouldn't bother you, then maybe you shouldn't be in a serious relationship at that time.
                                                                                                                                  Of course it would bother me. But then again, if roles were reversed I would want her to tell me. Of course I wouldn't make a big deal out of it as I'm a very laid back person, but I know she will.

                                                                                                                                  Fuck I'm hung over! lol

                                                                                                                                    Comment

                                                                                                                                    • garett
                                                                                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                                                                                      • Mar 2004
                                                                                                                                      • 683
                                                                                                                                      #34
                                                                                                                                      Personally I would tell her.

                                                                                                                                      There are two factors that I believe contribute to a successful relationship:

                                                                                                                                      a) Honesty .. yah yah same old boring answer

                                                                                                                                      b) A desire to not inflict harm on your partner.

                                                                                                                                      IMO .. keeping that from her would be breaking both rules. You'd be showing her that you're not honest and that you don't care enough for her know what happens when she's not around.

                                                                                                                                      To answer your question, and to destroy my credibility.. lol .. my opinion about cheating is that it has to be emotional. If my wife fucked someone else I wouldn't be hurt as long as she was up-front about it and reassured me that it was just for fun and there's no lingering strings.

                                                                                                                                      If she had dinner with another guy, received flowers, went on a vacation, hugged and kissed him, held hands and displayed affection on an ongoing basis.. that would be cheating to me and I'd be worried.

                                                                                                                                      .. but I know that's not common. My wife and I are very secure in our relationship and open when it comes to sex. To us love and sex are two very different things.

                                                                                                                                        Comment

                                                                                                                                        • tgpmakers
                                                                                                                                          Confirmed User
                                                                                                                                          • Feb 2004
                                                                                                                                          • 575
                                                                                                                                          #35
                                                                                                                                          That certainly aint cheating tell the gf and don't worry about it. Tell the other girl to go and fondle someone else.
                                                                                                                                          http://www.tgpmakers.com/

                                                                                                                                            Comment

                                                                                                                                            • SmutGiant
                                                                                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                                                                                              • Oct 2003
                                                                                                                                              • 4896
                                                                                                                                              #36
                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by garett
                                                                                                                                              Personally I would tell her.

                                                                                                                                              There are two factors that I believe contribute to a successful relationship:

                                                                                                                                              a) Honesty .. yah yah same old boring answer

                                                                                                                                              b) A desire to not inflict harm on your partner.

                                                                                                                                              IMO .. keeping that from her would be breaking both rules. You'd be showing her that you're not honest and that you don't care enough for her know what happens when she's not around.

                                                                                                                                              To answer your question, and to destroy my credibility.. lol .. my opinion about cheating is that it has to be emotional. If my wife fucked someone else I wouldn't be hurt as long as she was up-front about it and reassured me that it was just for fun and there's no lingering strings.

                                                                                                                                              If she had dinner with another guy, received flowers, went on a vacation, hugged and kissed him, held hands and displayed affection on an ongoing basis.. that would be cheating to me and I'd be worried.

                                                                                                                                              .. but I know that's not common. My wife and I are very secure in our relationship and open when it comes to sex. To us love and sex are two very different things.
                                                                                                                                              I'm actually quite good friends with the girl that pulled the move on me and I remember having a simalar conversation about cheating a loooong time ago. She believes it's not cheating unless you're emotionally attatched. But personally I could not even bare the thought of having my girlfriend or wife fucking some guy.

                                                                                                                                                Comment

                                                                                                                                                • garett
                                                                                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                                                                                  • Mar 2004
                                                                                                                                                  • 683
                                                                                                                                                  #37
                                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by SmutGiant


                                                                                                                                                  I'm actually quite good friends with the girl that pulled the move on me and I remember having a simalar conversation about cheating a loooong time ago. She believes it's not cheating unless you're emotionally attatched. But personally I could not even bare the thought of having my girlfriend or wife fucking some guy.
                                                                                                                                                  Most other people can't either. You've got to be very secure in youre relationship, have a VERY open line of communication and bear the *mutual* opinion that sex != love.

                                                                                                                                                  We're raised with the idea that sex is to be shared only with someone that we love. That it's sacred. That it's special. So it's normal to think that if two people fuck they must be in love. Even if on the outside you don't believe it.. most people believe that deep down inside because of child-hood upbringings.

                                                                                                                                                  So getting over that idea isn't easy, and it's certainly not common to find people that are able to. Personally I find the idea of my wife fucking another guy erotic .. and many would consider me a freak for that.. lol.

                                                                                                                                                  Some people will kid themselves and say "it's only cheating if there's emotion involved" so they can feel better about fooling around. But they have to put themselves in the position where they witness their partner fucking someone else. If it honestly doesn't bother them.. and if they even find it a turn on .. then they truly believe that sex and love are distinct. Otherwise they're full of shit.

                                                                                                                                                    Comment

                                                                                                                                                    • Phoenix
                                                                                                                                                      BACON BACON BACON
                                                                                                                                                      • Nov 2002
                                                                                                                                                      • 35475
                                                                                                                                                      #38
                                                                                                                                                      don't say anything

                                                                                                                                                      if you don't want the free bj's or whatever she was offering..you will be able to dodge her advances
                                                                                                                                                      Telegram PhoenixBrad
                                                                                                                                                      https://quantads.io

                                                                                                                                                        Comment

                                                                                                                                                        • baddog
                                                                                                                                                          So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                                                                          • Apr 2001
                                                                                                                                                          • 107089
                                                                                                                                                          #39
                                                                                                                                                          Originally posted by riosluts
                                                                                                                                                          just tell your GF. so she can warn that friend and she'll stop
                                                                                                                                                          wrong . . . nothing to be gained by telling her. . . . you will lose, just keep quiet about it

                                                                                                                                                            Comment

                                                                                                                                                            • baddog
                                                                                                                                                              So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                                                                              • Apr 2001
                                                                                                                                                              • 107089
                                                                                                                                                              #40
                                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by SmutGiant


                                                                                                                                                              Trust me. This will cause my girl to cause drama. lol. She is the type to take things waayyy to seriously. We get in the stupidest fights, lol... I get so bored of fighting that I usually just take the blame for whatever the fuck we're fighting about and move on, lol.

                                                                                                                                                              Once again I apologize for the drunk talk.
                                                                                                                                                              sounds like you are too young to have one girlfriend anyway. Don't waste your youth by being tied down to one chick

                                                                                                                                                                Comment

                                                                                                                                                                • baddog
                                                                                                                                                                  So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                                                                                  • Apr 2001
                                                                                                                                                                  • 107089
                                                                                                                                                                  #41
                                                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by VeriSexy
                                                                                                                                                                  LOL that's nothing Just tell your girl friend so she doesn't get confused
                                                                                                                                                                  you must be a chick . . . . . don't say shit, spells nothing but trouble

                                                                                                                                                                    Comment

                                                                                                                                                                    • maxdaname
                                                                                                                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                                                                                                                      • Oct 2003
                                                                                                                                                                      • 5193
                                                                                                                                                                      #42
                                                                                                                                                                      Tell your girlfriend and don't forget to add "It's not my fault if I'm irrisitable"

                                                                                                                                                                      Then watch them fight...

                                                                                                                                                                        Comment

                                                                                                                                                                        • Raf1
                                                                                                                                                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                                                                                                                          • Oct 2003
                                                                                                                                                                          • 12117
                                                                                                                                                                          #43
                                                                                                                                                                          Tell your gf that her friend is a bitch and was hitting on you. It's pretty simple...
                                                                                                                                                                          80% Revshare or 30$ PPS on $1 trials: 200 Niches = Vidz.com Galleries / FLVs / Embeds
                                                                                                                                                                          3 & 5mins FLVs | RSS & Tube Feeds | Matching Thumbs | FLV Browser & Exporter | No Prechecked Xsales
                                                                                                                                                                          >> Mobile Redirection Script: mobile.vidz.com also paying 80% net Lifetime << ICQ: 198-394-557

                                                                                                                                                                            Comment

                                                                                                                                                                            • wdsguy
                                                                                                                                                                              Ryde or Die
                                                                                                                                                                              • Dec 2002
                                                                                                                                                                              • 19568
                                                                                                                                                                              #44
                                                                                                                                                                              don;t tell her, u stoped her advances that was good enuff

                                                                                                                                                                                Comment

                                                                                                                                                                                • Chrome
                                                                                                                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                                                                                                                  • Jun 2001
                                                                                                                                                                                  • 639
                                                                                                                                                                                  #45
                                                                                                                                                                                  Tell your girlfriend about it while you're fucking her... Then hold on for the ride.

                                                                                                                                                                                    Comment

                                                                                                                                                                                    Previous template Next
                                                                                                                                                                                    Working...