Originally posted by emmanuelle I am well north of 30, and like myself more & more each year. I couldn't care less if I never marry. I prefer my own company, have no sense of compromise; and dont need anyone else in order to feel fulfilled. Maybe some guys find that intimidating, I dunno.
Dude, you are so wrong. You can't even spot a chick as being quality unless she can make it to 25 without being married (with very few exceptions).
This is true. No one is ready to be married before that age, especially now a days. If a woman is smart enough to realize that and take that time to figure out what she wants from life and also gets her life together she's a keeper.
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Originally posted by baddog
Dude, you are so wrong. You can't even spot a chick as being quality unless she can make it to 25 without being married (with very few exceptions).
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This is true. No one is ready to be married before that age, especially now a days. If a woman is smart enough to realize that and take that time to figure out what she wants from life and also gets her life together she's a keeper.
You overweight cat-herders are going to end up bitter and alone because you took Sex and the City straight from an IV and believe all the bullshit they spout.
Meow Mix should start adding prizes in the boxes of cat food they sell. They could be little Ken doll's with the word "My Soulmate" on the shirt.
..Most Thursday nights, Hillary Herskowitz slips on her Seven jeans, chooses from among her dozens of shoes, and steps out for an evening sipping Ketel One and tonics with the modish throngs of Manhattan. The 35-year-old communications director and her designer-clad wing girls -- a pediatrician, a health-care manager, and an executive recruiter -- cruise the city's swankiest bashes: the posh private parties, the paparazzi-stalked soirees. They don't just watch Sex and the City. They live it.
But after 13 years of this behind-the-velvet-ropes scene, they have yet to find the one thing they want most: husbands. The search has taken on a more desperate flavor of late; the women now plan to haunt sports bars in their stilettos. "It feels terrifying because the biological clock is ticking, and I want to have kids," says Herskowitz. "And I never, ever thought I'd wind up here."
"...if a woman remains single until her age creeps up past thirty, she may find herself tapping at her watch and staring down the now mysteriously empty tunnel, wondering if there hasn't been a derailment or accident somewhere along the line. When a train does finally pull in, it is filled with misfits and crazy men.."
..Melanie Curtright, Pam Stuart and Mary Mayotte are all in their 40s and early
50s - all attractive, successful, currently unmarried, and childless.
?In my 20s, I had opportunities to marry wonderful guys. And I said, 'Marriage? I've just gotten out of law school. I need to do what I have spent so much time and effort to accomplish,'? says Pam Stuart. ?I don't think I really made a choice. But it is the biggest disappointment of my life that I never became a mom. I would have been a great mom.?..
I dated a girl in my mid 20's, was really in love. We dated for 2 years, then she broke up with me, said she still had "more living to do" before she settled down.
I was heartbroken, but moved on. When I was 28, I met a beautiful 23 year old. Got married at 30. A year later that old girlfriend got back in touch with me. She was 31, single, and kind of tired looking. Said she should never have broken up with me, said she missed her chance. She even hinted that she wanted me to get a divorce to be with her. It was pretty sad, she just seemed so desperate.
The saddest part was at the end when she realized that I just wasn't into her anymore. She got this defeated look on her face, then asked if I had any friends I could introduce her to. The cruel part of me enjoyed saying "sorry, all my friends are married now."
Originally posted by DarkJedi You overweight cat-herders are going to end up bitter and alone because you took Sex and the City straight from an IV and believe all the bullshit they spout.
Meow Mix should start adding prizes in the boxes of cat food they sell. They could be little Ken doll's with the word "My Soulmate" on the shirt.
Couldn't stand that show- watched 1 episode of it.
I think it's you that sounds bitter that women just might not need/want you.
Kinda like how men think bi chicks are cool, but lesbians are 'not right'.
Personally I dont find any man interesting until he's at least 30-35. By that time he's either married, or carrying a ton of baggage.
Bleh- cant be bothered.
Here's the key difference between single men over 30 and single women over 30:
The age of the people they can reasonably attract.
A 30 year old man can attract probably most ages, and easily from 21 on up. So his pool is large, and consists of younger women who are much less likely to be married.
A 30 year old woman can attract men 30 years old or older. So her pool is reduced by age, and also reduced because the older men tend to be married. To top it off, she has to compete with younger women to get any men that are left.
Where I'm from the trick is that most decent mid-twenties girls have changed their hangout venues of choice so you need to just shop around at different places.
Stay the fuck out of the meat market dance clubs bro. Go try some other places.
A woman is over the hill at age 25.
Most women simply do not age well at all. This doesn't mean that they aren't fuckable..we're men, we'll fuck anything..it's just you aren't marriage material no longer. Don't fault us.
I dated a 38 year old once. She was hot, but I knew from the beginning her days were numbered.
We broke up when she hit 40.
Last report she was living alone except for her seven cats.
men don't age so well either in most cases though. Alot of my friends have been married/divorced and at 25 they're out of shape, overweight, out of style and just plain lame. The door swings both ways
i'm almost 30 and not at all bitter about love, but i would be happy to be alone instead of settling for an asshole just because society says i am supposed to be a baby factory by this age.
so don't lump us all together, there's a few of us gems still out there.....you'll just have to do some treasure hunting.
Originally posted by CrazyNakedChick hahaha, i was being sarcastic.
i'm almost 30 and not at all bitter about love, but i would be happy to be alone instead of settling for an asshole just because society says i am supposed to be a baby factory by this age.
so don't lump us all together, there's a few of us gems still out there.....you'll just have to do some treasure hunting.
Originally posted by Mazer Rackus Here's the key difference between single men over 30 and single women over 30:
The age of the people they can reasonably attract.
A 30 year old man can attract probably most ages, and easily from 21 on up. So his pool is large, and consists of younger women who are much less likely to be married.
A 30 year old woman can attract men 30 years old or older. So her pool is reduced by age, and also reduced because the older men tend to be married. To top it off, she has to compete with younger women to get any men that are left.
Dude, you are so wrong. You can't even spot a chick as being quality unless she can make it to 25 without being married (with very few exceptions).
true... its not too bright to marry after 6 months.. even a year... You can really know if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone after I would say 3 to 5 years of living togheter...
Its not too bright also to marry the first love you have (except rare exception) .... So do the math... most smart women are not married before 25...
Originally posted by FACE I dated a girl in my mid 20's, was really in love. We dated for 2 years, then she broke up with me, said she still had "more living to do" before she settled down.
I was heartbroken, but moved on. When I was 28, I met a beautiful 23 year old. Got married at 30. A year later that old girlfriend got back in touch with me. She was 31, single, and kind of tired looking. Said she should never have broken up with me, said she missed her chance. She even hinted that she wanted me to get a divorce to be with her. It was pretty sad, she just seemed so desperate.
The saddest part was at the end when she realized that I just wasn't into her anymore. She got this defeated look on her face, then asked if I had any friends I could introduce her to. The cruel part of me enjoyed saying "sorry, all my friends are married now."
Dude, if there were ever a real world chance to tell someone "OWNED," that was it.
Marrying a woman over 30 is like buying a used car lemon that no one wants. On her last legs.. No one wants her.. Looks fading.. Wrinkles coming.. Fertility dropping..
She's been used, abused, fucked, and chucked by previous owners. For practical purposes, she's only useful for a few more runs in the fuck & chuck demolition derby before being sent to the scrapheap (aka spinster apartment full of cats).
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FAQ:
1) Don't older women love to have sex?
If you're attractive and good in bed, all women will like to fuck. Only a loser needs to scrape the bottom of the barrel for desperate old women.
2) Aren't older women better in bed?
If you're any good in bed, you'll be able to get your young wife up to speed in no time. Only fumbling virgin losers need other men to teach their wife the ropes.
3) Aren't lots of women in their 30s still youthful and attractive?
Let's say you're 35.
Marry a 33 yr old woman, maybe get 5 yrs with a youthful wife. Then 40+ yrs with an old woman.
Marry an 18 yr old woman, get 20 yrs with a youthful wife. Maybe another 25+ yrs with an old woman before you die.
4) Aren't 30-something women still baggage free?
Older single women will have been fucked & chucked countless times, and bear much more bitterness and emotional baggage. They also have a greater chance of having non-curable STDs like genital herpes and HIV/AIDs.
5) Won't a much younger wife cheat on me?
If she cheats on you, that just means you don't have the confidence, looks, money and skills to keep a young hottie. Some men are better than others, and the losers will just have to settle for bitter, old, fucked & chucked hags.
I agree, by 24, the majority of good quality women have already been taken. All the other 24 year old women out there that are still available have already been fucked over by guys or have kids, so they're already damaged goods.
Marrying a woman over 30 is like buying a used car lemon that no one wants. On her last legs.. No one wants her.. Looks fading.. Wrinkles coming.. Fertility dropping..
She's been used, abused, fucked, and chucked by previous owners. For practical purposes, she's only useful for a few more runs in the fuck & chuck demolition derby before being sent to the scrapheap (aka spinster apartment full of cats).
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FAQ:
1) Don't older women love to have sex?
If you're attractive and good in bed, all women will like to fuck. Only a loser needs to scrape the bottom of the barrel for desperate old women.
2) Aren't older women better in bed?
If you're any good in bed, you'll be able to get your young wife up to speed in no time. Only fumbling virgin losers need other men to teach their wife the ropes.
3) Aren't lots of women in their 30s still youthful and attractive?
Let's say you're 35.
Marry a 33 yr old woman, maybe get 5 yrs with a youthful wife. Then 40+ yrs with an old woman.
Marry an 18 yr old woman, get 20 yrs with a youthful wife. Maybe another 25+ yrs with an old woman before you die.
4) Aren't 30-something women still baggage free?
Older single women will have been fucked & chucked countless times, and bear much more bitterness and emotional baggage. They also have a greater chance of having non-curable STDs like genital herpes and HIV/AIDs.
5) Won't a much younger wife cheat on me?
If she cheats on you, that just means you don't have the confidence, looks, money and skills to keep a young hottie. Some men are better than others, and the losers will just have to settle for bitter, old, fucked & chucked hags.
Originally posted by baddog amazing how dumb some of you guys are about women. to even consider a long term relationship with a chick that is under 25 is nuts.
I got married at 22. Stupidest thing I ever did. I thought I was in love, and maybe I was, but I wasn't mature enough to have a clue what a real relationship actually requires.
Unfortunately, I think some of the twits posting in this thread will NEVER have a clue what a real relationship requires.
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Unfortunately, I think some of the twits posting in this thread will NEVER have a clue what a real relationship requires.
no doubt, or next year they will be whining about how their wife is a bitch, and is fucking the UPS guy, and now they are losing half their stuff because of a divorce.
no doubt, or next year they will be whining about how their wife is a bitch, and is fucking the UPS guy, and now they are losing half their stuff because of a divorce.
I will laugh at them like I am now
We can join one another at the old persons' bar, have a drink, and laugh together.
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