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  • galleryseek
    Confirmed User
    • Mar 2002
    • 8234

    #1

    so what is your opinion on this

    say you're really in love with someone, and you basically see eye to eye on everything.. and you've been with this person for practically 2 years... but, the person you're with, has only been in 1 relationship, which is your current relationship...

    do you think that girl should "experience" other people before getting a marriage? in which case, would mean she'd have to break off that current relationship (which is perfectly fine) just for the sake of "experience"..


    if you're wondering if that is my situation... someone told that to my gf and we agree, but i'm just trying to wonder why people would think that, and if any of you do as well.

    thanks.
  • Spunky
    I need a beer
    • Jun 2002
    • 133978

    #2
    I don't think it's a good idea.

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    • Oracle Porn
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      • Oct 2002
      • 24433

      #3
      why experiance when you're happy with what you got?


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      • J-Reel
        Confirmed User
        • Feb 2002
        • 3782

        #4
        She needs to get fucked by more then 1 dick in her life. Have one of your buddies (with a smaller dick then yours) fuck her.

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        • Mr. Marks
          Confirmed User
          • Jun 2001
          • 7517

          #5
          I don't think that you should break up with your gf for the sake of "experience". You have something great going on for both of you there. Why destroy it for that reason alone? Just be happy with what you have.

          I wish you both the best.

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          • Ironhorse
            Pixel Pusher
            • Nov 2002
            • 7094

            #6
            I think people should fuck more than one person in their life or they will always think 'what if'
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            • galleryseek
              Confirmed User
              • Mar 2002
              • 8234

              #7
              Originally posted by Ironhorse
              I think people should fuck more than one person in their life or they will always think 'what if'
              well when this person said "you should experience other people" she didn't mean necessarily sexually, this person was actually CHRISTIAN, lol.

              and as far as what you said goes, that is true for most people but there are exceptions to everyone... some people's lifes don't revolve around sex and honestly don't feel the desire to have sex with anyone else but their spouse.. i know, in this day n' age its rare... but honestly, i'm so in love with this girl the thought of relating to another girl in any way other than friendship is sickening.

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              • reynold
                Too lazy to set a custom title
                • Oct 2002
                • 51271

                #8
                Depends on the person.

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                • venturi
                  Confirmed User
                  • Aug 2001
                  • 386

                  #9
                  Okay, I've been thru this before - on more than one occasion...

                  Breakups are breakups, there is no return except in EXTREME situations.

                  I dated a gal for a year after her divorce and she basically had only "known" one man. She felt the need, and I agreed, to explore things and know for herself that I was the right guy. Six months later it became painfully obvious I wasn't. I'd fallen in love with her and her daughter and I thought she'd fallen in love with me, but it just wasn't true. It was a very painful time for me to even think that we could get back together. The sad fact is that once you break up it is over! If she wants to sow her oats then she needs to and you need to be receptive to that and realize that this is merely a transition in your lives. Will you get back together? Probably not, but it's remotely possible.

                  The best thing I could recommend is that you let her go and move on. Enjoy the memories of what you had together and build upon that in your next foray in a relationship.

                  I'm guessing that you are young, that isn't a bad thing just mean that when one is young you have so many oportunities available and you shouldn't focus on the "right now". Shit happens and everytime shit does happen you get another oportunity to learn.
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                  • pimplink
                    Confirmed User
                    • Jun 2001
                    • 9535

                    #10
                    JUst take care of each other and see
                    how far you two can go....
                    then you'll know.

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                    • hova
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                      • Jan 2002
                      • 22430

                      #11
                      Originally posted by pimplink
                      JUst take care of each other and see
                      how far you two can go....
                      then you'll know.
                      I think thats true, its hard work to keep a relationship going
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                      • Shoehorn!
                        Die With Your Boots On
                        • Oct 2003
                        • 22872

                        #12
                        Originally posted by galleryseek
                        say you're really in love with someone, and you basically see eye to eye on everything.. and you've been with this person for practically 2 years... but, the person you're with, has only been in 1 relationship, which is your current relationship...

                        do you think that girl should "experience" other people before getting a marriage? in which case, would mean she'd have to break off that current relationship (which is perfectly fine) just for the sake of "experience"..


                        if you're wondering if that is my situation... someone told that to my gf and we agree, but i'm just trying to wonder why people would think that, and if any of you do as well.

                        thanks.
                        Definately not. If you're happy with each other, and found "true love," be grateful. It's a great thing to find love like that the first time around.

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                        • shermo

                          #13
                          Don't fix what's not broken. If things are going fine between you 2, don't question it. Just keep it going and you'll know whether it's right or not.

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                          • galleryseek
                            Confirmed User
                            • Mar 2002
                            • 8234

                            #14
                            Originally posted by venturi

                            The best thing I could recommend is that you let her go and move on. Enjoy the memories of what you had together and build upon that in your next foray in a relationship.
                            LOL, I think that is probably the worse piece of advice I've ever heard. Let go of a girl I completely love who loves me as well, just because of the fact that we're young. !?

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                            • DeadFidel
                              Confirmed User
                              • Jul 2003
                              • 6764

                              #15
                              Originally posted by shermsshack
                              Don't fix what's not broken. If things are going fine between you 2, don't question it. Just keep it going and you'll know whether it's right or not.
                              Same thought. If you truly have LOVE, then why would you want to lose it. I have not been in love for many years, and I wish I had that funny gut feeling again. I fuck a lot, but it's not the same thing.

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