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Originally posted by bdjuf
if your girlfriend lied to you about the number of guys shes slept with... and you found out... and it turned out to be alot more than she said
and also lied to you about the fact that she's never cheated on her boyfriend...
what would you do?
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Sweetie, I have a boyfriend instead of a girlfriend, but still a precious partner to me.
And I've finally learned in life, with this beautiful relationship, how true love can overcome past issues that might cause feelings of jealousy or distrust, etc.
I have wasted lots of time in past relationships worrying constantly that my partner might be lying or cheating, or that he would cheat. None of them ever cheated on me. I wasted precious time. And just this year out of nowhere, when I didn't care to get seriously involved with someone, he stole my heart. Finally, I have someone that I can trust, I know he never lies to me about anything, and if he cheated on me he'd be an idiot, his words exactly. My advice is if you can't get over the jealousy and you're going to be miserable worrying about where she is and if she's cheating on you, assess the relationship, the communication, and if you don't think you can beat the fears, go ahead and walk away now. Maybe you can be good friends. Living in the fear of being betrayed and disrespected is no way to live. This isn't a rehearsal, it's our only chance on this God forsaken earth. Good Luck, I wish you the best!!!!!