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  • hydro
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    • Dec 2003
    • 4216

    #51
    you just got to be funny but not trying too hard. You also can't seem too needy like answering the phone after just 1 ring or rushing to the door within 5 seconds after they ring it. You need to pull away and mildly push thier buttons

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    • Semi-Retired-Dave
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      • Apr 2004
      • 11190

      #52
      Oh and...

      If your cell phone rings, don't answer it. That is the rudest thing in the world.
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      • baddog
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        • Apr 2001
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        #53
        playing with your rifle and blowing out the rear window of the truck you are laying in the back of goes over pretty well too

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        • Double L
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          • Nov 2004
          • 349

          #54
          If being yourself doesn't impress her, and vice versa it's not much of a match. Assuming you're not just playing some try to get laid game that is

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          • TurboTrucker
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            • Jan 2003
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            #55
            Make her orgasm.

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            • SpikeHeel
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              • Oct 2003
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              #56
              I think just be yourself. Listen to what she says and don?t brag something that will make her think you?re a arrogant.

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              • smack
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                • Mar 2002
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                #57
                I'm nice, I listen to what she was to say, ask questions about her. take her somewhere nice and quite, and talk and get to know one another.
                Cry havoc and let slip the dogs of war.

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                • bizmak
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                  • Apr 2004
                  • 10014

                  #58
                  Originally posted by pimpporn
                  Be yourself!

                  Note: This does not work for everybody!
                  That's my problem

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                  • Sony
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                    • Dec 2002
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                    #59
                    Originally posted by CyberAge-Dave
                    Just be yourself. No flowers, shows you are trying to hard. Be yourself be funny and don't be boring. Don't be too nice or you will be like every other guy out there and most girls hate nice guys.

                    Don't try to hard take it easy, have a few drinks and talk away. Don't talk about yourself whatsover. Make it all about her and act like you are listening and that you care.

                    Works all the time.

                    If that doesn't work, I'll tell you about plan B.
                    Yup, 100% correct, if you are too nice she'll lose any sex interested in you.

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                    • Platinumpimp
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                      #60
                      Originally posted by iforgotmyscreenname
                      first date...open the car door for them...your car not theres....pay for everything..do somthing fun and exciting and dont talk about sex or your ex
                      Dude have you ever been with a chick? Not all chicks like it when you pay for everything, some even hate it and insist to pay as well
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                      • Kicker
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                        #61
                        Originally posted by Abyss_Vee
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                        • Drake
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                          • Mar 2003
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                          #62
                          At the beginning of the date, tell her you're going to have her in the sack by the end of the night. This always goes over really well.

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                          • lawked
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                            • Apr 2003
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                            #63
                            Get her in a private place...

                            Take your left hand and grab her by the throat and start choking her... with the right hand pull out your stiffy...

                            Don't forget the flowers, before or after..

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                            • Tricksy
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                              #64
                              Originally posted by spunky
                              Being on time,a good listener,and focus all your attention on her
                              You're SO right!


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                              • Cassie
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                                #65
                                Originally posted by KRL
                                I think surprising them instead of saying ahead of time where you'll be going is one good way.

                                Being a gentleman really goes far these days. Many guys don't have a clue about good manners.

                                Making her laugh a lot is another good thing.

                                Surprising her with a wrapped little gift always goes over well too.

                                you sir, do not need advice. you have the knowledge needed to accomplish a great first date.
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                                • Peaches
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                                  • Oct 2002
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                                  #66
                                  If someone brings me flowers or a gift on the first date, I run like hell. That's someone trying WAY too hard and making a first date into a production when all it is is people getting to know each other.

                                  It's the third date when you do that stuff because if you can make it to the 3rd date, chances are you really like each other

                                  And DON'T take a girl to the movies on a first date - again, you're supposed to be getting to know each other so sitting in a theater where you can't talk pretty much nullfiies that

                                  Damn, being raised by a man really skewed my opinion on these things, didn't it?

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                                  • Peaches
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                                    • Oct 2002
                                    • 13933

                                    #67
                                    I have to say after reading the entire thread, I'm siding with Dave over KRL on this dating stuff.

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                                    • slapass
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                                      • Nov 2002
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                                      #68
                                      I have to agree on the too nice thing. let them know you have an edge it helps.

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                                      • mindoza
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                                        #69
                                        Originally posted by CyberAge-Dave
                                        No gifts on the first date. If you really like her, FedEx it to her in 3 days after the date to her work. (Although it's still too much too quick.)
                                        Now you have the right idea!!!! It may be too much to quick but it def would pull at our heart strings..a gift at the first date is uncomfortable to say the least
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                                        • reynold
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                                          #70
                                          get someone to play her favorite song. while taking her dinner.

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                                          • Rochard
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                                            #71
                                            I just need to tell them my name.
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                                            • Basic_man
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                                              #72
                                              Go at a big restaurant, and show her how rich you are !
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                                              • maxjohan
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                                                #73
                                                You all forgot the most important thing of all.


                                                What type of woman are your date.

                                                One of the carrier pointed or beautiful women -- Go for Dave

                                                The shy beauty-- KRL/Dave 50/50


                                                I think it depends a lot on what type of girl.

                                                If she have confident and are used to get what she want--- dont give her what she want. Make fun of her instead.

                                                If she is shy-- try to be open and warm so
                                                she feel comfortable.


                                                Remember, there is a different between dating 50+ women and 20 year old girls.

                                                Good advice in this thread. Just need to
                                                figure out what tactics you need to use on what woman.

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                                                • maxjohan
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                                                  #74
                                                  on another note, its pointless to date girls that are
                                                  not like you, if you want a long term relationship.

                                                  If you need to play headgames all the time make her stay intrested, then it might not be worth it.

                                                  I went from 100 to 313,000 satoshis in 2 days! Lots of daily freerolls...

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                                                  • TheLegacy
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                                                    #75
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                                                    • Nysus
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                                                      #76
                                                      Originally posted by maxjohan
                                                      on another note, its pointless to date girls that are
                                                      not like you, if you want a long term relationship.

                                                      If you need to play headgames all the time make her stay intrested, then it might not be worth it.

                                                      Both replies are great additional advice - I was waiting for someone to say it too.

                                                      Also, KRL is married (I don't know about Dave or the others, or their life circumstances so this may actually have no bearing at all) but KRL being married shows that being a big gentlemen right away can lead to a long-term relationship; though for all I know KRL's been married for 8 months, and only knew the girl 2 months prior to that. ;)

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                                                      • Pipecrew
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                                                        • Feb 2002
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                                                        #77
                                                        It's easy being a canadian and picking up all these american chicks, cause most american guys are dumbasses..

                                                        The car door opening is golden and has got me alot of girls, They are always like "you are so sweet" or "such a gentleman" and I reply "well I'am a canadian" or "if I didnt do this, my mom would kick my ass" haha.

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                                                        • Nysus
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                                                          #78
                                                          Originally posted by Pipecrew
                                                          It's easy being a canadian and picking up all these american chicks, cause most american guys are dumbasses..

                                                          The car door opening is golden and has got me alot of girls, They are always like "you are so sweet" or "such a gentleman" and I reply "well I'am a canadian" or "if I didnt do this, my mom would kick my ass" haha.
                                                          Definitely need to use all of our reasons for being so nice is "I'm Canadian" - all of the girls will be moving to Canada soon enough.

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                                                          • Peaches
                                                            Old broad
                                                            • Oct 2002
                                                            • 13933

                                                            #79
                                                            Originally posted by Pipecrew
                                                            It's easy being a canadian and picking up all these american chicks, cause most american guys are dumbasses..

                                                            The car door opening is golden and has got me alot of girls, They are always like "you are so sweet" or "such a gentleman" and I reply "well I'am a canadian" or "if I didnt do this, my mom would kick my ass" haha.
                                                            Same with Southern boys in the US.

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                                                            • scoreman
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                                                              • Nov 2001
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                                                              #80
                                                              Don't talk about yourself. If you absolutely have to talk about some accomplishment do it in a manner that she has to press you for the details and never make out like its a big deal (works esp well when it is a big deal).

                                                              Don't talk about past relationships.

                                                              If you are going to be the nice guy and be respectful and bring flowers etc, be careful not to fall into the trap of being the nice asexual guy. Those are the guys that chicks call to talk to when their MAN is being difficult. You can be the nice guy but at the same time communicate to her that you want to sex her and that you know wtf you are doing in that regards.

                                                              On first dates one of the best ways to communicate that is to establish touch in a non threatening way, early. Like touching their hands, brushing the hair off their faces, sitting close up and speaking close to them when it is loud with music etc.

                                                              Listen to what they tell you. Women will tell you what they want and how they want it, the key i think is to listen and ask the right questions that ask them to reveal themselves.

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                                                              • Varius
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                                                                #81
                                                                I think the number one thing is making them laugh. If you can do this, you'll both have a much better time on the date and the ice will be broken.

                                                                Having tatoos and piercings can also be a big help

                                                                I've found looking like a badass but acting like a gentleman with the woman makes them very, very interested.
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                                                                • polish_aristocrat
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                                                                  • Jul 2002
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                                                                  #82
                                                                  Do you give flowers when you meet for the first time a woman you knew only online and have now idea how she acts in real life and how your "date" is gonna be?
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                                                                  • polish_aristocrat
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                                                                    • Jul 2002
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                                                                    #83
                                                                    Originally posted by Wiggles
                                                                    How would that work? its small.
                                                                    I don't use ICQ anymore.

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                                                                    • mrthumbs
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                                                                      • Apr 2002
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                                                                      #84
                                                                      Originally posted by Kimmykim
                                                                      Your wife has got to be one happy woman, Kevin. You're one of the most pulled together men around.
                                                                      hes fishing for dating tips for crying out loud!!!!

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                                                                      • ULVideo
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                                                                        #85
                                                                        After saying hello........

                                                                        lick your eyebrows.

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                                                                        • Semi-Retired-Dave
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                                                                          #86
                                                                          Originally posted by PlatinumPimp
                                                                          Dude have you ever been with a chick? Not all chicks like it when you pay for everything, some even hate it and insist to pay as well
                                                                          Don't let her pay, even if she wants to. If she pays half or for all that will be the last time you see her.

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                                                                          • Semi-Retired-Dave
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                                                                            #87
                                                                            Originally posted by maxjohan
                                                                            You all forgot the most important thing of all.


                                                                            What type of woman are your date.

                                                                            One of the carrier pointed or beautiful women -- Go for Dave

                                                                            The shy beauty-- KRL/Dave 50/50


                                                                            I think it depends a lot on what type of girl.

                                                                            If she have confident and are used to get what she want--- dont give her what she want. Make fun of her instead.

                                                                            If she is shy-- try to be open and warm so
                                                                            she feel comfortable.


                                                                            Remember, there is a different between dating 50+ women and 20 year old girls.

                                                                            Good advice in this thread. Just need to
                                                                            figure out what tactics you need to use on what woman.

                                                                            ok Im done.
                                                                            Good point.
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                                                                            • Gynecologist
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                                                                              #88
                                                                              Always have a plan about what you are going to do on the date. Women hate it when guys don't take charge.

                                                                              Also, it helps to cancel the first date because then she will think you have more important things than her and that turns women on.

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                                                                              • Kimmykim
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                                                                                • Jun 2001
                                                                                • 16015

                                                                                #89
                                                                                I simply do not understand why all guys seem to think that being a nice guy gets you nowhere.

                                                                                IT'S NOT TRUE.

                                                                                Maybe if you're talking about really young girls, 18-21 or so, it might be. But definitely not with a woman who knows her mind.

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                                                                                • vixm
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                                                                                  #90
                                                                                  Originally posted by juicylinks
                                                                                  Fuck that shit , chick gotta impress me.


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                                                                                  • goBigtime
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                                                                                    #91
                                                                                    Originally posted by iforgotmyscreenname
                                                                                    first date...open the car door for them...your car not theres....

                                                                                    hehe what's funny is there probably really is a need to clarify... "Your car, not theres." lmao.

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                                                                                    • polish_aristocrat
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                                                                                      #92
                                                                                      Originally posted by Gynecologist


                                                                                      Also, it helps to cancel the first date because then she will think you have more important things than her and that turns women on.
                                                                                      hmm
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                                                                                      • Kimmykim
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                                                                                        • Jun 2001
                                                                                        • 16015

                                                                                        #93
                                                                                        Originally posted by Gynecologist
                                                                                        Also, it helps to cancel the first date because then she will think you have more important things than her and that turns women on.
                                                                                        Hahaha, NO.

                                                                                        Ever hear of the ten minute rule? 10 minutes late for our date and I'm outta here... cancelling, especially last minute, is cancelling out any chance of getting in my pants you'd ever have had.

                                                                                        Treat people with courtesy and respect, not a bunch of silly playground games.

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                                                                                        • ArkansasDave
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                                                                                          #94
                                                                                          Tell them if their nearly as cool as their sister its going to be great.
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                                                                                          • ULVideo
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                                                                                            #95
                                                                                            Originally posted by ArkansasDave
                                                                                            Tell them if their nearly as cool as their sister its going to be great.
                                                                                            Have you ever tried the sex position "Bucking Bronco" ????

                                                                                            That's when you're doing it doggy, you lean in and whisper in her ear "Your sister is much tighter than you are" and see if you can stay in the saddle for 8 seconds before being thrown off.

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                                                                                            • Fletch XXX
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                                                                                              #96
                                                                                              ive always just been myself.

                                                                                              i never put up a facade because im pretty hard to get along with.

                                                                                              im a clown and am always the one making the entire table laugh, but like jim carrey at night when im trying to be alone or something i can be a major dick.

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                                                                                              • Gynecologist
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                                                                                                #97
                                                                                                Originally posted by Kimmykim
                                                                                                Hahaha, NO.

                                                                                                Ever hear of the ten minute rule? 10 minutes late for our date and I'm outta here... cancelling, especially last minute, is cancelling out any chance of getting in my pants you'd ever have had.

                                                                                                Treat people with courtesy and respect, not a bunch of silly playground games.
                                                                                                Sorry, but American women love games. They grew up watching soap operas so unless you fuck with their heads constantly they will look for someone else to provide drama in their life.

                                                                                                Fucked up but so true.

                                                                                                I have found that one of the best ways to get a girl interested in you from the moment you meet her is to tell her you are going on a trip overseas in one week. I guess it creates urgency for her to spend time with you.

                                                                                                Also, the absolute best way to get a hot girl is to completely ignore her. Don't give her any attention at all. Pretend she does not exist when you walk into the room. Hot girls eat that up.
                                                                                                Last edited by Gynecologist; 11-10-2004, 09:37 AM.

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                                                                                                • SomeCreep
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                                                                                                  #98
                                                                                                  Originally posted by KRL


                                                                                                  Making her laugh a lot is another good thing.

                                                                                                  I know unattractive broke losers that have chicks lining up to get banged, just because they can make them laugh. Being able to make a girl laugh is so important, they should teach it to boys while they're in school.

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                                                                                                  • qw12er
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                                                                                                    #99
                                                                                                    Originally posted by Abyss_Vee
                                                                                                    dont call her a whore

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                                                                                                    • ATL_Ryan
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                                                                                                      #100
                                                                                                      Don't kick girls in the pussy. They don't like it.

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