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Originally posted by Eric_aka_RedEyes
IF that person is that way. Let them be. All you can ever control is yourself. I always say "Kill them with kindness" do the same with an ex and for the most part they will have nothing bad to say about you. And if they do talk shit people will eventually see through them and realize they are not worth being around.
For the most part anything negative that comes out of a relationship is usually because the relationship was continued on longer than it should have been. So the real question is when you know something is wrong do you stay in too long or do you know how to cut the cord early before things become too drama filled. That is where the drama comes from most of the time from all relationships industry or not.
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I don't know that I have ever experienced someone
seeking to hurt my reputation or "talking shit". I guess
I am just more uncomfortable with hurt feelings and
the (unavoidable) discomfort that people feel when
two "ex's" come together ie: who to invite to dinner, etc.
For being a huge industry, it can sure feel *very* small
*very* quickly.