I have been doing this for more than 5 years.... so I am not new to it, but thanks for the help...
Yes I am using a freehost, but it is my own and there aren't any shady things going on with it, no redirects, pops, headers, footers or anything........ the host hasn't ever been an issue, it is the outgoing links and fact that some HAVE to have those links and some don't allow for them in their scripts.
Nahh.... I got blacklisted by only two, for not following the rules, it was having too many links, and it was my own error...... so I am not complaining about those.
Most all of it is the scripts rejecting, but it is a setting, as I have said a couple of times, that most all scripts can have edited on the numbers of outgoing links.
pornguy... yeah I know it isn't official yet, but I am just getting ready for it now so I don't have to go back and start changing links on god knows how many places.