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From having gone thru a deal exactly like what your friend is about 5 years ago. Here is my advice.
Let her leave and move on with your life. If she isnt gong to stick by you 100% of time being married then, thats her problem to figure out, not yours.
Marriage is very serious. You are placing the other person above your needs and BOTH of your continued survival depends on each other.
There will be suitations that will test you collectively as well as individually as time goes on in a marriage that are MUCH tougher than just "needing space"
Either your with me or not. 100% of the time.
Being married for 5 wonderful years to a great woman has made me realize how importatnt it is to make things work for the common good of the family unit over what I want to have for only me.
There is more than 1 fish in the ocean my man.
Jim
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