The girl needs a job - needs to have some other purpose in life other than sitting at home waiting for her husband. Boredom brings on crazy 'I deserve more' 'I'm better than this' 'He doesn't/isn't giving me enough attention' kinda thoughts.
The possibility of her having an affair can be probable if she has nothing better to do than shop/gym & what not.
I say give her the space letting her know full well that when she decides whether to come back or not - it's never certain that he'll want her back. If she wants to leave, open the door - you can't hold her back.
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