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Originally posted by Frile
Besides, i REALLY believe i found my soulmate, the person who i want to be the last thing to see in the last moments of my life. How do i let her go away just like that? I can't... and i also dont believe what she is telling me...
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Dude, you need to get that shit out of your head right now. This thought that this is the only person to make you happy, or that she is your soulmate will only cause you to go nuts and do crazy things that will guarantee that she doesnt come back. Not to mention it will also cause you to be tied to her for many years and not allow you to move on with anyone else. There is no one person for any of us. You sound young, and I'm sure right now you do think she is the only one for you, but guess what...she isnt. People (especially soulmates) come into our life for a reason, usually to teach us something and then they leave. Figure out what it is you are meant to learn from this situation. This love has now been tainted and there is no going back to the way things were no matter how much you try. Even if she did come back you will eventually be resentful for what she did. And if not then she will eventually run again. Trust me on this. I know its painful but if you continue doing what you're doing you are only prolonging your pain. Let her go, real love is NOT having to have her.