Yeah, i'm not gonna get too serious into it. It was a mistake, no one is *really* in the wrong. I do believe when it's a "head-count* pre-paid dinner it's nice to know who is to show up and who isnt., and the fact that 15 people rsvp'd and didnt show up, that says something. In the previous gatherings ive planned there would be maybe 4 or 5 people that wouldnt show up, but 15 is a large number.
As I said, it was a mistake, and next time I won't think of having anything where I expect people to show up, and thats what I kinda like about the usual gatherings. The fact that you can show up, or not, because it's a relaxed setting like that.
No big deal, i'm not out to burn any bridges or talk shit, I just know in the future people will be extra nice to me
