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  • Jamdin
    Registered User
    • Jan 2001
    • 3560

    #1

    Important Announcement: Cataract Surgery Needed

    I find myself needing cataract surgery for both eyes. While I would not normally post this at gfy, I find that I could use some help in raising funds. I have contacted the Lion's Club and the Knights Templar but I have not yet received any replies from them ("leave a message and we will get back to you" is all I get and time is running short).

    Anyway, I am not asking for handouts so I am selling my book and comic collection. I have a few items now but will be adding more when I can. Details can be found at http://www.moongem.com

    Yes, I am working on a variety of projects but it is getting harder each day to stay too long in front of the computer screen (not good when the words are blurry while wearing glasses). No, I am not doing this because I want to (I either get the surgery done or I face blindness).

    I will be glad to answer any questions or if people are looking for specific books or comics. I have many paperbacks and comics to sell that I have read and collected over the years. I even have two Stephen King books that I have not even read yet. I do have a few adult comics such as Omaha the Cat Dancer if anyone is interested.

    So flame away if you want or you can help someone for good karma. I would appreciate the latter...
  • stocktrader23
    Let's do some business.
    • Jan 2003
    • 18781

    #2
    Flame away for what? You didn't ask for a handout.


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    • Jamdin
      Registered User
      • Jan 2001
      • 3560

      #3
      Thanks, Stock, but others might not see it that way.

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      • Sly_RJ
        Live Hard - Die Hard
        • Feb 2002
        • 17042

        #4
        Good luck with the eyes...
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        • Tam
          Rude Bitch
          • Jan 2001
          • 8534

          #5
          Oh no, I knew you were having trouble with those cataracts, but didn't even consider it being this bad. This is sad news, babe. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. I am not in such great shape this minute myself, but I'll be glad to help ya anyway I can. You have ALWAYS ALWAYS been there for me. Please take care of yourself.
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          • Rankings
            • Jan 2004
            • 10633

            #6
            sorry to hear you situation hope its corrected soon
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            • Vitasoy
              GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!!
              • Oct 2003
              • 58202

              #7
              Sorry to hear, I hope for the best


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              • Tanker
                Confirmed User
                • Nov 2000
                • 9287

                #8
                Jamdin best of luck to you Like I said before Ill either buys some of your stuff or donate after payday


                Best of luck to you you have been around for years helping people yourself anything we can do for you would just be repayment for all the people you have helped

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                • Jamdin
                  Registered User
                  • Jan 2001
                  • 3560

                  #9
                  Thanks everyone. I really appreciate the kind words and any help.

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                  • Danny
                    Confirmed User
                    • Apr 2002
                    • 198

                    #10
                    Bump for Jamdin
                    - Danny
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                    • baddog
                      So Fucking Banned
                      • Apr 2001
                      • 107089

                      #11
                      Jamdin, did you follow up with the Lions Club yet?

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                      • goBigtime
                        Confirmed User
                        • Nov 2002
                        • 7761

                        #12
                        Hey Jamdin.. sorry to hear about your vision problems

                        how old are you? (if you don't mind sharing)

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                        • Jamdin
                          Registered User
                          • Jan 2001
                          • 3560

                          #13
                          I'm contacting a local person that belongs to the Lion's Club tonight, baddog. My mom is helping me on that since she knows the guy and she has the number. She's been helping a lot since I get so frustrated over the phone (hard of hearing on these new cordless phones...whatever happened to the old phones that had volume control).

                          I have filled out paperwork for SRS but that can take up to six months before I hear anything back (the doctor already told me that would be too late). I cannot contact the Knights Templar without a letter of denial from the SRS. I called SRS earlier and they are still going through the paperwork.

                          I turned 39 on Friday, February 13th so I do not want to go blind before I hit 40. Damn, I'm starting to feel old all of a sudden.

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                          • Theo
                            HAL 9000
                            • May 2001
                            • 34515

                            #14
                            best wishes Jamdin

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                            • axelcat
                              Adult Locals
                              • Jun 2002
                              • 25450

                              #15
                              Good luck with it I hope you raise enough funds

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                              • cool1
                                sex is good
                                • Sep 2001
                                • 24939

                                #16
                                Jamdin
                                Sorry to hear about your eye problems.
                                I hope you get better soon Bud!!

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                                • StuartD
                                  Sofa King Band
                                  • Jul 2002
                                  • 29903

                                  #17
                                  I had sent a little something, hope it helps a bit.

                                  You're too good'a person to have to go through crap like this
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                                  • Mr.Fiction
                                    Confirmed User
                                    • Feb 2002
                                    • 9484

                                    #18
                                    Good luck!
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                                    • digifan
                                      The Profiler
                                      • Oct 2002
                                      • 14618

                                      #19
                                      Good luck to you and a bump
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                                      • bugout
                                        Confirmed User
                                        • Jun 2002
                                        • 540

                                        #20
                                        donation, and a bump..

                                        Good luck!

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                                        • dirtyone
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • Jun 2002
                                          • 3706

                                          #21
                                          Hopefully the good nature of this board will prevail as it has in the past for others and you will be able to get the help you need.

                                          Good luck Jamdin.

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                                          • CARRlE
                                            So Fucking Banned
                                            • Feb 2004
                                            • 29

                                            #22
                                            Another bump for one of the good guys... this is certainly more important than some of the threads on here lately that people are handing money over for.

                                            (what's up with the board times? I've got mine set for US Eastern and it's already saying 1:30am on the 18th? It's like 11pm...)
                                            Edit: sure, right after I post all the times change. Weird.

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                                            • FreeHugeMovies
                                              Too lazy to set a custom title
                                              • Dec 2001
                                              • 14142

                                              #23
                                              Bump 4 U

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                                              • FreeHugeMovies
                                                Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                • Dec 2001
                                                • 14142

                                                #24
                                                How about you give us your goal and how far you are from it Jamdin?

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                                                • cool1
                                                  sex is good
                                                  • Sep 2001
                                                  • 24939

                                                  #25
                                                  I sent a few bucks, wish I could do more Bud!
                                                  Way better cause than donating for bimbo boobs.

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                                                  • natkejs
                                                    Confirmed User
                                                    • Jan 2003
                                                    • 1640

                                                    #26
                                                    Sorry to hear that...


                                                    ... and I back this up as well.
                                                    How about you give us your goal and how far you are from it Jamdin?

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                                                    • Jamdin
                                                      Registered User
                                                      • Jan 2001
                                                      • 3560

                                                      #27
                                                      Thanks to everybody who has donated and helped out. I finally got the call from the cataract surgeon, which led to a dozen other calls (I hate playing phone tag with people reluctant to give a general price of how much something is going to cost).

                                                      So far the cost is:
                                                      Surgeon fee: $625 per eye (he is being kind enough to drop it from the original cost of $1900 per eye)
                                                      Operating room: $1800 per visit (I made a typo on another forum)
                                                      Anesthia: $112 to $400 per 30 minutes

                                                      So it is roughly going to cost $2537 to $2825 per surgery (providing the anestia is only need for 30 minutes)

                                                      I need both eyes done so the grand total will be: $5074 to $5650 (this does not include special eye drops, follow-up exams and whatever else they decide to throw in). They want half up front and the rest in 90 days. I asked if I could do a payment plan and they said no.

                                                      I have $2,000 in my savings which will go towards the surgery (wiping me out totally for other bills and rent). So far, I have received roughly $700 (thanks to all who donated. I have enough for one surgery (depending on the anesthia costs).

                                                      I will be adding something to keep track of the donations on the site tomorrow.

                                                      Once again, I would like to thank all who has helped. It does mean a lot to me.

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                                                      • FreeHugeMovies
                                                        Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                        • Dec 2001
                                                        • 14142

                                                        #28
                                                        I wish some of the bigger players on the board would donate to good causes like this.

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                                                        • Mr.Fiction
                                                          Confirmed User
                                                          • Feb 2002
                                                          • 9484

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by FreeHugeMovies
                                                          I wish some of the bigger players on the board would donate to good causes like this.
                                                          Some of them probably will once they notice this thread. Even though the cause is good, I think the timing was bad. He's competing with boobs.
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                                                          • Marina
                                                            Confirmed User
                                                            • May 2003
                                                            • 437

                                                            #30
                                                            Will look at your site too... and here is a bump!

                                                            Also good luck with your surgery!

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                                                            • rip raster
                                                              Confirmed User
                                                              • Apr 2001
                                                              • 2851

                                                              #31
                                                              Sorry to hear buddy...I am just getting over a really bad year (physically)myself I know what it's like. You should try smoking some pot I hear it relives some of the pressure from the cataracts.

                                                              I hope everything pans out for you







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                                                              • natkejs
                                                                Confirmed User
                                                                • Jan 2003
                                                                • 1640

                                                                #32
                                                                9:40am here, finally went to bed 1½ hours ago but couldn't stop thinking about this thread ......

                                                                I don't know you Jamdin... but knowing myself I spend all cash I get on bullshit... but every now and then I try to do something good with it. Not much but every bit counts huh.

                                                                Best of luck, I think you'll be alright!



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                                                                • LiveDose
                                                                  Show Yer Tits!
                                                                  • Feb 2002
                                                                  • 25792

                                                                  #33
                                                                  My Father just had his second one done yesterday. At least recovery time is minimal.

                                                                  Good luck to you.

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                                                                  • -=HOAX=-
                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                    • Dec 2001
                                                                    • 4365

                                                                    #34
                                                                    I made a thread that is mocking of this one...I honestly never read this thread till now...some 20 minutes after my first post. I never meant to offend or make a farse of your situation.
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                                                                    • Jamdin
                                                                      Registered User
                                                                      • Jan 2001
                                                                      • 3560

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Thanks again to all the people who donated.

                                                                      Yes, it's hard to compete with boobs.

                                                                      Hoax, it's not a problem. I would have been surprised if someone didn't mock the situation on this board. Thanks for the apology.

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                                                                      • Jamdin
                                                                        Registered User
                                                                        • Jan 2001
                                                                        • 3560

                                                                        #36
                                                                        I have updated http://www.moongem.com

                                                                        I now have Goal: $5074 to $5650 --- Raised: $2845

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                                                                        • Chris
                                                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                          • May 2003
                                                                          • 27880

                                                                          #37
                                                                          You will have a donation from me once my ceash payment comes into my paypal today

                                                                          best of luck.
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                                                                          • Sarah_Jayne
                                                                            Now with more Jayne
                                                                            • Dec 2002
                                                                            • 40077

                                                                            #38
                                                                            Over the years I have always enjoyed reading your posts. Are you still writing story content for sale or is that too much at the moment? Maybe some people would be interested in buying some of that content.

                                                                            I am not rich myself so I can't send huge amounts but I just donated a bit. I think it will come through as being from webmaster @ digitalbuyingguide . com

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                                                                            • Jamdin
                                                                              Registered User
                                                                              • Jan 2001
                                                                              • 3560

                                                                              #39
                                                                              I would love to be able to write more than I am now. Unfortunately, I am lucky if I can write a story a day. I'm not in any pain but when I read too much at the blurry words on the monitor, I get dizzy. I have to step away from the computer several times in just one hour.

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                                                                              • cool1
                                                                                sex is good
                                                                                • Sep 2001
                                                                                • 24939

                                                                                #40
                                                                                back to the top

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                                                                                • Danny
                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                  • Apr 2002
                                                                                  • 198

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by Jamdin
                                                                                  I would love to be able to write more than I am now. Unfortunately, I am lucky if I can write a story a day. I'm not in any pain but when I read too much at the blurry words on the monitor, I get dizzy. I have to step away from the computer several times in just one hour.
                                                                                  Got any erotica that you have written that might be up for sale? I'm sure myself I would be happy to buy some to help your cause.

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                                                                                  • Jamdin
                                                                                    Registered User
                                                                                    • Jan 2001
                                                                                    • 3560

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    I do not have any exclusive erotica up for sale. What I do have is on my site at http://www.moongemerotica.com

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                                                                                    • natkejs
                                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                                      • Jan 2003
                                                                                      • 1640

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      mjaaaaaaaaaaaaaaao

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                                                                                      • dirtyone
                                                                                        Confirmed User
                                                                                        • Jun 2002
                                                                                        • 3706

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        I know the promise of store bought titties get people going but come on.

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                                                                                        • digifan
                                                                                          The Profiler
                                                                                          • Oct 2002
                                                                                          • 14618

                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          A bump for JamdinBard.
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                                                                                          • myjah
                                                                                            Back in the harbor
                                                                                            • Sep 2003
                                                                                            • 11482

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            how much is the surgery? and how long will it be before you are good as new once you've had the surgery? (if you don't mind me being nosy)
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                                                                                            • natkejs
                                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                                              • Jan 2003
                                                                                              • 1640

                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by myjah
                                                                                              how much is the surgery? and how long will it be before you are good as new once you've had the surgery? (if you don't mind me being nosy)
                                                                                              read the thread ;P

                                                                                              "I need both eyes done so the grand total will be: $5074 to $5650 (this does not include special eye drops, follow-up exams and whatever else they decide to throw in). They want half up front and the rest in 90 days. I asked if I could do a payment plan and they said no."

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                                                                                              • Jamdin
                                                                                                Registered User
                                                                                                • Jan 2001
                                                                                                • 3560

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Thanks again to everybody who donated.

                                                                                                I will have my left eye done first and I will be seeing with one eye for a month. I wear glasses with thick lens (they are pretty scratched up now since the reason I went for the eye exam was to get a new pair of glasses). I will either wear an eye patch or pop the lens out of the glasses. A month later, I will get the right eye done and it will take about a month to heal. The doctor told me that I would probably still need glasses but they will be thinner than the ones I currently wear.

                                                                                                So basically, I am looking for two months of being with one eye providing everything goes right.

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                                                                                                • myjah
                                                                                                  Back in the harbor
                                                                                                  • Sep 2003
                                                                                                  • 11482

                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Originally posted by natkejs


                                                                                                  read the thread ;P

                                                                                                  "I need both eyes done so the grand total will be: $5074 to $5650 (this does not include special eye drops, follow-up exams and whatever else they decide to throw in). They want half up front and the rest in 90 days. I asked if I could do a payment plan and they said no."
                                                                                                  don't know how i missed that. thanks for being so speedy
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                                                                                                  • GoodGuy
                                                                                                    So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                    • Aug 2003
                                                                                                    • 881

                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Hope you get better soon. Good Luck!

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