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  • InsaneMidget
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    • May 2002
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    #1

    My girlfriend of 6 years dumped me...

    What would you do?
  • body
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    #2
    The Goddess Of Steps

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    • XxXotic
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      #3
      breathe a sigh of relief and crack open a beer
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      • B40
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        #4
        Shitty man...what was the reason?

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        • NoCarrier
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          #5
          YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE!! SHE WAS 6 YEARS OLD?!?!?!?

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          • Joshua
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            #6
            That sucks.
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            • InsaneMidget
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              #7
              Originally posted by XxXotic
              breathe a sigh of relief and crack open a beer


              I have a lot of vodka in me right now and I quit drinking a month ago...

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              • radical
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                • jasmine
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                  #9
                  That's really sad. I hope you will be ok.
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                  • C-Bass
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                    #10
                    first of all...you DONT post on GFY about it unless you want to hear ridiculous answers to your problem
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                    • InsaneMidget
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                      #11
                      Originally posted by B40
                      Shitty man...what was the reason?





                      You know as much as I do man....Not doing well...

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                      • B40
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                        #12
                        Originally posted by InsaneMidget



                        You know as much as I do man....Not doing well...
                        Sorry to hear that man....

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                        • dunefield
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                          #13
                          go to a club and get drunk...

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                          • Joshua
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                            #14
                            Originally posted by InsaneMidget




                            I have a lot of vodka in me right now and I quit drinking a month ago...
                            That worked and is working for me.
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                            • InsaneMidget
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                              #15
                              Originally posted by Spotter_03
                              first of all...you DONT post on GFY about it unless you want to hear ridiculous answers to your problem


                              I have been around long enough to block out the retard comments...


                              I have a lot of friends online that have REAL things to say....

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                              • XxXotic
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                                #16
                                Originally posted by InsaneMidget




                                I have a lot of vodka in me right now and I quit drinking a month ago...
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                                • InsaneMidget
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                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by B40


                                  Sorry to hear that man....



                                  Thank you.

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                                  • DirtyRider
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                                    #18
                                    No way around it man. Its gonna suck for a while. You can either think about it and slowly move on or just keep yourself busy.
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                                    • ~MistressRacin~
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                                      #19
                                      That does suck and the only thing you can do is work through it. You need to grieve the loss of your girlfriend and just feel the pain for a while. The only good thing I can say is...it does get better, but it takes time. There is no instant relief for a broken heart....Good Luck and hang in there.
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                                      • InsaneMidget
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                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by XxXotic
                                        need a hug homey? reacharound? I'm here for ya man


                                        Love you.

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                                        • valley hina
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                                          #21
                                          well maybe that girl wasnt for you it wasnt meant to be

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                                          • CDSmith
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                                            #22
                                            Question: do you want her back?


                                            If so, there is only one way to go about it....... that is, get on with your life. Okay, take a few days to feel shitty and all that, but after that... get back in the game. Even if you don't feel like it, go on a few dates anyway. Be seen with other girls. That's the one thing that makes ex-girlfriends rethink their position and want to get you back. Sitting around moping and waiting like a lost puppy sure as hell doesn't work.


                                            I know this from experience.
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                                            • Rebel D
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                                              #23
                                              The radio Station i listen to Had a great contest and a great idea. it was called Fuck over your ex. Basically rent a helicopter get some chick and Fucker her over your ex's house . Just an idea

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                                              • NoCarrier
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                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by CDSmith
                                                Question: do you want her back?


                                                If so, there is only one way to go about it....... that is, get on with your life. Okay, take a few days to feel shitty and all that, but after that... get back in the game. Even if you don't feel like it, go on a few dates anyway. Be seen with other girls. That's the one thing that makes ex-girlfriends rethink their position and want to get you back. Sitting around moping and waiting like a lost puppy sure as hell doesn't work.


                                                I know this from experience.
                                                You're actually giving him hope and that's not good for him.

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                                                • Joshua
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                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by CDSmith
                                                  Question: do you want her back?


                                                  If so, there is only one way to go about it....... that is, get on with your life. Okay, take a few days to feel shitty and all that, but after that... get back in the game. Even if you don't feel like it, go on a few dates anyway. Be seen with other girls. That's the one thing that makes ex-girlfriends rethink their position and want to get you back. Sitting around moping and waiting like a lost puppy sure as hell doesn't work.


                                                  I know this from experience.
                                                  I would have to agree here. This worked well with me the last time me and my ex broke up, but I doubt it'll work this time.
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                                                  • brizzad
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                                                    #26
                                                    1)buy some weed

                                                    2)see sig

                                                    3)smoke a fatty

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                                                    • adamneve
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                                                      #27
                                                      i hope you didn't get her something for Valentine
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                                                      • Rhino22
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                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by InsaneMidget
                                                        What would you do?
                                                        Insane, here are a few questions that you need to ask yourself that will ultimatley make you feel better, or worse..

                                                        How old are you? How old were you when you started dating? How many girls did you date before her? Were you planning on getting married some time soon, or was it just a long fling? Did you think it was going to last forever?

                                                        If you're a young guy, and she was only the third or fourth person you ever dated, be happy! Time heals ALL wounds... You will find yourself in a few weeks, maybe months, dating other people and expierencing things that you never knew were possible.

                                                        Relationships only restrict people...if that is the way you want to live your life(a family man who is dedicated to making one woman in your life happy, even if it means sacrificing things that you love to do), then I'm sorry for your loss. But understand this: After being in a relationship for so long, once you come out, you feel lost and out of place.

                                                        What you need to do is put down the damn Vodka and go out with some friends. Vodka or weed or any shit like that is only going to make you feel worse. It's not going to take the pain away.

                                                        Don't go out on the rebound right away. Don't go get a hooker. Have a 'boys night out'.... Go to the club, but not with intentions of picking up on other girls. And for god sake, stay away from anything that will remind you of her.

                                                        Live your life as it comes to you. Don't wait for things to happen. Go on about your business. You never know what will come along. It may have been for the best.

                                                        Just my

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                                                        • Phoenix
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                                                          #29
                                                          sorry to hear that dude.
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                                                          • InsaneMidget
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                                                            #30
                                                            Thanks CD and the rest, but my position now is to numb the pain as much as possible and actually just be nice to her, just show her how I am without her and that I can live my life without her. Maybe she will see she made a mistake, if not, fine, we shouldn't be together. But whatever, it's a fucked up situation...

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                                                            • CDSmith
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                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by NoCarrier
                                                              You're actually giving him hope and that's not good for him.
                                                              Kind of a dumb comment. There is always hope. And even if she doesn't come back, at least by my suggestion he's on the road to getting back on track faster than he would by just sitting around drinking and lamenting the past.


                                                              Think positive, no matter what happens.
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                                                              • Kanoealoha
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                                                                #32
                                                                When me and my bf of 2 years broke up I was torn apart...
                                                                I didn't know what to do and I thought night after night that I wasn't gonna get over him...

                                                                its wasn't long before I saw the good and the bad of the relationship and realized that I was much better off without him
                                                                and no I'm not just saying that... yeah it was painful for a month or so... but then I realized haha there are so many guys that were better for me... actually lots of them!

                                                                It'll suck for awhile and why wouldn't it you know...

                                                                but it will pass, it always does...

                                                                Good Luck
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                                                                • KRL
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  One of the secrets to happiness and keeping your inner peace of mind strong and vibrant I've found is that you must accept that fact that everything in your life will have a beginning and everything will have an ending.

                                                                  Nothing is forever. Its hard to deal with that, but we must or else we'd all go insane.

                                                                  And remember when one door closes its usually because its time for a new door to open.

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                                                                  • XxXotic
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by InsaneMidget




                                                                    Love you.
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                                                                    • axelcat
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      Just go out and get laid as fast as possible just in case she returns

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                                                                      • Trent Edison
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                                                                        • CDSmith
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by InsaneMidget
                                                                          Thanks CD and the rest, but my position now is to numb the pain as much as possible and actually just be nice to her, just show her how I am without her and that I can live my life without her. Maybe she will see she made a mistake, if not, fine, we shouldn't be together. But whatever, it's a fucked up situation...
                                                                          I hear you. One such girlfriend broke up with me back in the mid-80's, I was totally devastated. I stayed in bed for a week, couldn't eat for 3 weeks, lost over 20 lbs and was just sick inside that I'd lost her. I wish that I could go back in time and tell my old self what I know now. It would have helped greatly.
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                                                                          • NoCarrier
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by CDSmith
                                                                            Kind of a dumb comment. There is always hope. And even if she doesn't come back, at least by my suggestion he's on the road to getting back on track faster than he would by just sitting around drinking and lamenting the past.


                                                                            Think positive, no matter what happens.
                                                                            It's not a dumb comment. You're telling him that it's possible she might want him back. You don't even know the situation. Maybe it's really over in her mind. You're giving him hope based on nothing. Maybe it's healthier for him that the relationship ended.

                                                                            Giving hope with this kind of situation is not responsible. Think before you give advice.

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                                                                            • InsaneMidget
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by CDSmith
                                                                              I hear you. One such girlfriend broke up with me back in the mid-80's, I was totally devastated. I stayed in bed for a week, couldn't eat for 3 weeks, lost over 20 lbs and was just sick inside that I'd lost her. I wish that I could go back in time and tell my old self what I know now. It would have helped greatly.



                                                                              I work out 3-4 hours a day because the pain from working out feels better than the pain of thinking about her. My chest really hurts all the time. peopl tell me to go get drugs from doctors, but I don't really believe in drugs or doctors much.....

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                                                                              • Rictor
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                I would never get sad over a woman LEAVING. It's when they stay that I get annoyed.

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                                                                                • NinjaSteve
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Maybe you should go out with her best friend.
                                                                                  ...

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                                                                                  • CDSmith
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                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by NoCarrier


                                                                                    It's not a dumb comment. You're telling him that it's possible she might want him back. You don't even know the situation. Maybe it's really over in her mind. You're giving him hope based on nothing. Maybe it's healthier for him that the relationship ended.

                                                                                    Giving hope with this kind of situation is not responsible. Think before you give advice.
                                                                                    Newsflash: lots of chicks in this situation come back. Some just need a break. Why not give your own advice then instead of knocking mine, which I know to be true and time-tested.


                                                                                    Go fucking argue with someone else man. You're losing it.
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                                                                                    • corvette
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                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by XxXotic
                                                                                      breathe a sigh of relief and crack open a beer
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                                                                                      • CDSmith
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by InsaneMidget
                                                                                        I work out 3-4 hours a day because the pain from working out feels better than the pain of thinking about her. My chest really hurts all the time. peopl tell me to go get drugs from doctors, but I don't really believe in drugs or doctors much.....
                                                                                        Well, working out is good therapy too.... do you go to a gym?


                                                                                        If your chest hurts you don't "go get drugs from doctors" man..... you go see your doctor and tell him your chest hurts. They do a few quick tests like an EKG, chest X-ray, and take your BP to see if anything is up, hopefully it's nothing.

                                                                                        Go get that checked.
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by KRL


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                                                                                          • TaylorM
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Sorry to hear that. The best thing to do is take time to yourself (meaning don't get into another relationship) and keep yourself busy and active.

                                                                                            You will get through it, everyone always does! =)

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                                                                                              • InsaneMidget
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                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                thanks everyone...

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                                                                                                • NoCarrier
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                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Originally posted by CDSmith
                                                                                                  Newsflash: lots of chicks in this situation come back. Some just need a break. Why not give your own advice then instead of knocking mine, which I know to be true and time-tested.


                                                                                                  Go fucking argue with someone else man. You're losing it.
                                                                                                  Hahahaha... Mr. Love advice. You should start your own articles in the local newspaper.

                                                                                                  Seriously, he doesn't need advice at all. The last thing he needs is "do this and she will come back".

                                                                                                  What next? It's gonna take time to heal?

                                                                                                  It's going to be painful, it's gonna hurt. Some people need 6 months, other 6 days.

                                                                                                  But the "She might come back" bullshit will not help him at all. Even if you had the most sincere intention by telling him that.

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