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Originally posted by BitterPen
Honestly, in the big scheme of things, our marriage problems are near none. We don't fight. He's never been unfaithful. He's always been a huge help with the kids. He tries to be romantic at times. It is just me...? This is why I can't figure out why I am restless. I am sure it's just the whole routine factor, and the fact that we don't get out as much as we should.
And, Tam, I really appreciate your post. It would be awesome to get a sitter sometime. My parents take the kids as often as possible, but they are old and cranky and get tired of chasing two little beasts around the house. lol
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Yup, I know what you mean. My husband's mom used to watch mine when I only had two of them and they would wear her out to no end. But she still did it, SHE is the one that taught me how to be a wife and mom and who taught me about the times that needed to happen. She was not only my Mom/Mother-in-law, but my best friend and mentor..... she passed away several years ago, and I miss her, but she was the one that taught me to always be mindful of ME!
If you can't get away.... do the dinner after hours thing at home.... you will be amazed how very cool that is. Simply because you are in your element, you have no worries about the kids, and you can do it in those sexy nighties..... *giggling*. It really is great to just RELAX.
And trust me woman, the ROUTINE has gotten to me many many times. My husband is a godsend to me, like you, mine has never strayed or even hinted at it.... so I knew it was just me. Women get restless and bored too....... let no one tell you any different. And I would almost venture to say more so than men, they just aren't AS vocal about it, we feel like we have failed if we voice it out loud..... but, honey, we haven't failed, it's the ones that do NOT act on it and try and fix it that fail.....
