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  • Heather Hamptons
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    • Oct 2003
    • 2306
    #51
    Originally posted by juicylinks


    I take Effexor for my anxiety attacks and have Xanax for emergencies Doc wouldnt give me more than 30 of them

    I was on paxil initially . Problem is that i am hooked on this shit. If i stop taking effexor i get dizzzzy and shit FUCK YOU DOC
    really? they prescribed me xanax and want me to take them 4 times a day. I dont though. Its been about 7 months and I have only taken 6 pills. i only take them when I am on the virge of another breakdown.
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      • juicylinks
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        • Apr 2001
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        #52
        Originally posted by Heather Hamptons


        really? they prescribed me xanax and want me to take them 4 times a day. I dont though. Its been about 7 months and I have only taken 6 pills. i only take them when I am on the virge of another breakdown.
        4x per day? WTF???????


        If i take one of those i am ready to be fall a sleep. That shit is a controlled substance and HIGHLY addicting

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          • juicylinks
            So Fucking Banned
            • Apr 2001
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            #53
            A regular doc or a shrink?> My doc told me to see a shrink to cover his own ass but I told him to fuck off. I aint talking to no fucking shrink

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              • washiez
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                • Feb 2001
                • 1118
                #54
                Try taking them more often when you feel THIS way.

                Also try and look for the GOOD. If all you see is the bad you will never be happy.. for example.. next time you see him and he does his usual shit.. instead of saying all these negative things.. think of something good about him... maybe even tell him..

                Give it a whirl.

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                  • Head
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                    • Nov 2003
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                    #55
                    Fuck girl this is real shit!! I think that you need to focus on the other important aspects of your life for now. And maybe when he's ready he may want to talk. But for now there's fuck all you can do. Don't give him any attention. Take care of your kids and school first and put him on the back burner for now.

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                      • Heather Hamptons
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                        • Oct 2003
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                        #56
                        Originally posted by washiez
                        Try taking them more often when you feel THIS way.

                        Also try and look for the GOOD. If all you see is the bad you will never be happy.. for example.. next time you see him and he does his usual shit.. instead of saying all these negative things.. think of something good about him... maybe even tell him..

                        Give it a whirl.

                        -doc washi out ;)
                        thats what im gonna do. Your right. Fuck him. Its best for me and my children if I get my shit together.
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                          • Yngwie
                            I am an Alien from space
                            • May 2003
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                            #57
                            I know the feeling. I've given my ex girlfriends as much attention as they wanted but in the end I got fucked over. Some men are just not into all that attention and affection stuff. I am and I'm guessing that's why I'm single all the damn time lol.

                            BUT, if he's pretty much ignoring you why would you even wanna marry him? If you're unhappy marrying him will not fix that. it will make it even worse. I don't care if you're together 24/7, that still is not a good reason for him to never talk to you or make you feel like you even matter to him. By staying with him you're pretty much telling him that him ignoring you all the time is ok. Of course some will say that you 2 have been together so long that there's no real reason to always talk but that's bullshit.. If there's no communication in a relationship it will crumble in time. It's obvious that you are the only one that is unhappy in the relationship because he sure isn't. Do you really think that it will get any better? You can find a man that will give you what you need to be happy. Someone that will want to sit down with you and talk and actually listen. Someone that will make you feel like you are the only thing that matters to him.. But what do I know, I'm just a guy that ends up single all the damn time lol.

                            Yngwie
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                              • juicylinks
                                So Fucking Banned
                                • Apr 2001
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                                #58
                                Originally posted by Heather Hamptons


                                thats what im gonna do. Your right. Fuck him. Its best for me and my children if I get my shit together.
                                Lay off that 4x per day XANAX trust meeee

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                                  • Heather Hamptons
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                                    • Oct 2003
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                                    #59
                                    well its not like that. yeah im in a despressed mood but not one where I am feeling anxiety. I just feel cheated. Like if I can do all of this for him why cant he just spend time. He's asleep right now and has been for an hour. Its only 10:15 pm. we normally dont go to bed to like 4am
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                                      • washiez
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                                        • Feb 2001
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                                        #60
                                        Wake him up and fuck his brains out
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                                          • Heather Hamptons
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                                            #61
                                            Originally posted by juicylinks


                                            Lay off that 4x per day XANAX trust meeee
                                            like is aid. i dont take them. thats just what they told me to do. i have only taken 6 since they prescribed them to me. I dont like pills
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                                              • MuleScrote
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                                                #62
                                                Did you say something? I wasn't paying attention.
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                                                  • Heather Hamptons
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                                                    #63
                                                    Originally posted by Yngwie
                                                    I know the feeling. I've given my ex girlfriends as much attention as they wanted but in the end I got fucked over. Some men are just not into all that attention and affection stuff. I am and I'm guessing that's why I'm single all the damn time lol.

                                                    BUT, if he's pretty much ignoring you why would you even wanna marry him? If you're unhappy marrying him will not fix that. it will make it even worse. I don't care if you're together 24/7, that still is not a good reason for him to never talk to you or make you feel like you even matter to him. By staying with him you're pretty much telling him that him ignoring you all the time is ok. Of course some will say that you 2 have been together so long that there's no real reason to always talk but that's bullshit.. If there's no communication in a relationship it will crumble in time. It's obvious that you are the only one that is unhappy in the relationship because he sure isn't. Do you really think that it will get any better? You can find a man that will give you what you need to be happy. Someone that will want to sit down with you and talk and actually listen. Someone that will make you feel like you are the only thing that matters to him.. But what do I know, I'm just a guy that ends up single all the damn time lol.

                                                    Yngwie
                                                    he's always been open and honest with me un until now. We used to talk all the time, and even do sweet things for each other. Now its just me doing these things.

                                                    I dont know what i would do without him. I have a fear of being alone
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                                                      • washiez
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                                                        • Feb 2001
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                                                        #64
                                                        When was the last time you woke him up and fucked him? A month without sex? Maybe he went to bed secretly hoping that you'd wake him up just for that..

                                                        Go do it. Get off of here and try that.. if he says no.. then you got a more serious problem.
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                                                          • Head
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                                                            • Nov 2003
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                                                            #65
                                                            Originally posted by Heather Hamptons



                                                            I have a fear of being alone
                                                            People do manage alone. I have spend a good part of my life single. I loved it. You discover things about yourself.
                                                            Hope you get this sorted love gotta go.
                                                            Take care

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                                                              • Yngwie
                                                                I am an Alien from space
                                                                • May 2003
                                                                • 11118
                                                                #66
                                                                Originally posted by Heather Hamptons


                                                                he's always been open and honest with me un until now. We used to talk all the time, and even do sweet things for each other. Now its just me doing these things.

                                                                I dont know what i would do without him. I have a fear of being alone
                                                                I can understand taht but the last thing you want is for you to be unhappy but you just go with it because you don't wanna be alone. I mean if you were single all of a sudden IM very sure that there are many guys out there that would be very happy to be by your side and actually make you happy. I know all about the fear of being alone but it's not worth being unhappy because of it. You would do just fine without him.. you don't need a man or a woman in order to feel complete.. and you sure as hell don't deserve to be unhappy this way. You say that things used to be much different.. Is there anything that may have happened taht might have change that or did this just happen out of the blue? In reality it sounds to me like he is losing interest in you but he's just scared to tell you that.. That's just the way it looks. I'm not saying that this is what it is. It just seems odd that he would suddenly ignore you like this.

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                                                                  • pornkitten
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                                                                    • Dec 2003
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                                                                    #67
                                                                    you are beautiful and you deserve better, let me know when you want to hit the clubs and have fun! Maybe you should drop a hint that valentines day is around the corner and see if he does something special.
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                                                                      • Heather Hamptons
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                                                                        #68
                                                                        Originally posted by Yngwie


                                                                        I can understand taht but the last thing you want is for you to be unhappy but you just go with it because you don't wanna be alone. I mean if you were single all of a sudden IM very sure that there are many guys out there that would be very happy to be by your side and actually make you happy. I know all about the fear of being alone but it's not worth being unhappy because of it. You would do just fine without him.. you don't need a man or a woman in order to feel complete.. and you sure as hell don't deserve to be unhappy this way. You say that things used to be much different.. Is there anything that may have happened taht might have change that or did this just happen out of the blue? In reality it sounds to me like he is losing interest in you but he's just scared to tell you that.. That's just the way it looks. I'm not saying that this is what it is. It just seems odd that he would suddenly ignore you like this.

                                                                        Yngwie
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                                                                        your very wise and easy to listen to. I appreciate your point of view and I will take everything into consideration.

                                                                        Yes there was something that happened. It was over a year ago, but its not something that causes him pain or bothres him. Its something that bothers me...its the reason I am supposed to be taking meds. Id tell you but I really dont wanna bring up the past.
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                                                                          • MuleScrote
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                                                                            #69
                                                                            Originally posted by Head

                                                                            People do manage alone. I have spend a good part of my life single. I loved it. You discover things about yourself.

                                                                            Like what your butthole looks like in a mirror?
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                                                                              • m00d
                                                                                So Fucking Banned
                                                                                • May 2002
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                                                                                #70
                                                                                Originally posted by Heather Hamptons


                                                                                alreay on it...as well as lexapro..not helping. i dont like drugs. I dotn think drugs help a person, all they do is surpress the problem
                                                                                then why are you taking them?

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                                                                                  • Heather Hamptons
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                                                                                    #71
                                                                                    Originally posted by pornkitten
                                                                                    you are beautiful and you deserve better, let me know when you want to hit the clubs and have fun! Maybe you should drop a hint that valentines day is around the corner and see if he does something special.
                                                                                    inever been a clubber but I am willing to try

                                                                                    I need a break. Maybe that will help
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                                                                                      • m00d
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                                                                                        • May 2002
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                                                                                        #72
                                                                                        Originally posted by juicylinks


                                                                                        I take Effexor for my anxiety attacks and have Xanax for emergencies Doc wouldnt give me more than 30 of them

                                                                                        I was on paxil initially . Problem is that i am hooked on this shit. If i stop taking effexor i get dizzzzy and shit FUCK YOU DOC
                                                                                        that explains a lot

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                                                                                          • Heather Hamptons
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                                                                                            #73
                                                                                            Originally posted by m00d


                                                                                            then why are you taking them?
                                                                                            lol listen. im gonna say this only one more time. I have only taken 6 since they were prescribed to me SEVERAL months ago lol
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                                                                                              • Arousal Design
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                                                                                                #74
                                                                                                you know, when girls complain about relationships they dont really want advice on what to do. they just want to "voice" their thoughts... and have someone listen. thats the point.

                                                                                                you guys know that, right?

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                                                                                                  • Heather Hamptons
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                                                                                                    #75
                                                                                                    Originally posted by Arousal Design
                                                                                                    you know, when girls complain about relationships they dont really want advice on what to do. they just want to "voice" their thoughts... and have someone listen. thats the point.

                                                                                                    you guys know that, right?
                                                                                                    Yes I want to vent but I also want to hear what everyone else has to say.
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                                                                                                      • m00d
                                                                                                        So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                        • May 2002
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                                                                                                        #76
                                                                                                        Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                                                                        actually you're sounding more and more incredible heather.

                                                                                                        you're smoking hot, you pay the bills,you run your own business which means you have a brain, you pay for the vacations, and all you want is a little attention.

                                                                                                        lets swap spouses!!!!! permanently
                                                                                                        ..and the husband of the year award gooes to SLEAZYDREAM

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                                                                                                          • Heather Hamptons
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                                                                                                            #77
                                                                                                            Originally posted by m00d

                                                                                                            ..and the husband of the year award gooes to SLEAZYDREAM
                                                                                                            lol I didnt even see that he wrote that.
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                                                                                                              • AmeliaG
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                                                                                                                #78
                                                                                                                Originally posted by Heather Hamptons
                                                                                                                I swear...i think its time for me to turn lezbo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

                                                                                                                Hey there, sorry to hear you are not getting the attention you deserve
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                                                                                                                  • Heather Hamptons
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                                                                                                                    #79
                                                                                                                    Originally posted by AmeliaG



                                                                                                                    Hey there, sorry to hear you are not getting the attention you deserve
                                                                                                                    its really a pain in the ass. I cant talk to him because he doesnt seem to want that.
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                                                                                                                      • Shoehorn!
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                                                                                                                        • Oct 2003
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                                                                                                                        #80
                                                                                                                        This is typical woman behavior. I am not saying anything against you, but it has been my experience that when you shower a girl with love and attention she gets tired of it, and when you don't she gets pissed. It's a no win situation.

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                                                                                                                          • MuleScrote
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                                                                                                                            #81
                                                                                                                            Originally posted by TheSmutPeddlerDOTcom
                                                                                                                            This is typical woman behavior. I am not saying anything against you, but it has been my experience that when you shower a girl with love and attention she gets tired of it, and when you don't she gets pissed. It's a no win situation.
                                                                                                                            What do we have for the winner???

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                                                                                                                              • Heather Hamptons
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                                                                                                                                #82
                                                                                                                                Originally posted by TheSmutPeddlerDOTcom
                                                                                                                                This is typical woman behavior. I am not saying anything against you, but it has been my experience that when you shower a girl with love and attention she gets tired of it, and when you don't she gets pissed. It's a no win situation.
                                                                                                                                I agree with you 100%, but that isnt the case here. I dotn ask for all of his attention. Just a kiss once ina while, or an I love you....shit...even for him to say "hey, so you feel ok?"

                                                                                                                                Nothing..nadda. I think its time to give up on him. Im not a quitter but a relationship is 50/50 and when only one person is doing it, then it just doesnt seem to work out.
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                                                                                                                                  • Mogulman
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                                                                                                                                    #83
                                                                                                                                    Originally posted by Heather Hamptons

                                                                                                                                    See that I can understand. But I dont talk a lot with him. Only causse he's busy, and when I do try, he ignores me. Is there something wrong with me??
                                                                                                                                    hell yeah there is. first of all you sound like a fuckin' woman...

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                                                                                                                                      • fuckerWAD
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                                                                                                                                        • Jan 2004
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                                                                                                                                        #84
                                                                                                                                        Heather,

                                                                                                                                        I don't pay attention to everything my wife says either. I am usually engrossed in something when she trys to talk with me. And when I am trying to watch TV or are on the computer, I am paying attention to what I am doing.

                                                                                                                                        It is like having a conversation with someone then someone else asks you a question right in the middle of conversation. What the hell did you say??? I am talking with someone else. That is what it is like.

                                                                                                                                        As far as the whining and bitching about aches and pains... tell him to fucking pucker up. I hate whiners too, seems coincidental that I married a whiner. I never whiner and am constantly giving back massages to my wife because she whines so much. But I love her so I pucker up and do it.

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                                                                                                                                          • Heather Hamptons
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                                                                                                                                            #85
                                                                                                                                            Originally posted by fuckerWAD
                                                                                                                                            Heather,

                                                                                                                                            I don't pay attention to everything my wife says either. I am usually engrossed in something when she trys to talk with me. And when I am trying to watch TV or are on the computer, I am paying attention to what I am doing.

                                                                                                                                            It is like having a conversation with someone then someone else asks you a question right in the middle of conversation. What the hell did you say??? I am talking with someone else. That is what it is like.

                                                                                                                                            As far as the whining and bitching about aches and pains... tell him to fucking pucker up. I hate whiners too, seems coincidental that I married a whiner. I never whiner and am constantly giving back massages to my wife because she whines so much. But I love her so I pucker up and do it.
                                                                                                                                            i gave up on that a long time ago. I think my best bet is to move the hell on. I love him with all of my heart but a relationship takes more then one person right?
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                                                                                                                                              • Ic3m4nZ
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                                                                                                                                                #86
                                                                                                                                                All womans are hypocrites

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                                                                                                                                                  • Heather Hamptons
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                                                                                                                                                    ok fine i give up...
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                                                                                                                                                      • fuckerWAD
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                                                                                                                                                        Originally posted by Heather Hamptons


                                                                                                                                                        i gave up on that a long time ago. I think my best bet is to move the hell on. I love him with all of my heart but a relationship takes more then one person right?
                                                                                                                                                        Damn straight. You are a team. My wife takes care of the house, I bring in da bucks.

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                                                                                                                                                          • Mogulman
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                                                                                                                                                            Originally posted by Heather Hamptons
                                                                                                                                                            ok fine i give up...
                                                                                                                                                            haha, Heather don't let a few people on some web board bust your chops too much. Sounds like you've got a pretty simple question to ask yourself "Is my investment worth the return?". Relationships are definitely work, but it shouldn't get to the point where its not fun anymore. If you extend yourself repeatedly and there's no one there to catch you, then your extending to the wrong person.

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                                                                                                                                                              • Shoehorn!
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                                                                                                                                                                Originally posted by juicylinks


                                                                                                                                                                How is Lexapro?
                                                                                                                                                                I am on Lexapro, for the most part it works well for me. I was on Zyprexa too, but it made me too drowsy all the time so I stopped taking it. Lexapro is good though.

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                                                                                                                                                                  • Shoehorn!
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                                                                                                                                                                    #91
                                                                                                                                                                    Originally posted by Heather Hamptons


                                                                                                                                                                    i gave up on that a long time ago. I think my best bet is to move the hell on. I love him with all of my heart but a relationship takes more then one person right?
                                                                                                                                                                    Definately, I was in a relationship where I gave all the time and got very little in return. It's frustrating as hell, and I know how you feel. You might miss it when it's gone though, so really think about it before you make any rash decisions. Good luck.

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                                                                                                                                                                      • GonePhishing
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                                                                                                                                                                        Hang in there. I am sure that he will come around!
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                                                                                                                                                                          • Heather Hamptons
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                                                                                                                                                                            thanks everyone. I appreciate your support. Im just gonna focus more on myself instead of on him. If he comes around then great but if not...well ill deal with that when the time comes
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                                                                                                                                                                                • Oct 2003
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                                                                                                                                                                                #94
                                                                                                                                                                                Originally posted by Heather Hamptons
                                                                                                                                                                                thanks everyone. I appreciate your support. Im just gonna focus more on myself instead of on him. If he comes around then great but if not...well ill deal with that when the time comes
                                                                                                                                                                                What do you look like? Maybe a week in Hawaii with yours truly is what you need.

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                                                                                                                                                                                  • Heather Hamptons
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                                                                                                                                                                                    • Oct 2003
                                                                                                                                                                                    • 2306
                                                                                                                                                                                    #95
                                                                                                                                                                                    Originally posted by TheSmutPeddlerDOTcom


                                                                                                                                                                                    What do you look like? Maybe a week in Hawaii with yours truly is what you need.
                                                                                                                                                                                    lol www.heatherhamptons.com <---my pics and stuff

                                                                                                                                                                                    A week in hawaii huh? sounds great to me
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                                                                                                                                                                                      • Id.Ego
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                                                                                                                                                                                        • Feb 2004
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                                                                                                                                                                                        #96
                                                                                                                                                                                        1) Women are needy, needy, needy.
                                                                                                                                                                                        2) Men are needy, needy, needy.

                                                                                                                                                                                        The difference is that women need attention and men need time away.

                                                                                                                                                                                        The people that say you should be doing <b>MORE</b> for this guy are ridiculous. It sounds like you do a lot already. Hell, I've never had a woman pay my bills but if I did, I sure would start taking it for granted.

                                                                                                                                                                                        Here's my advice:

                                                                                                                                                                                        If you want to keep him and work this out.
                                                                                                                                                                                        1) Go to group counseling. Sometimes things can't be said unless another person is there as a buffer.
                                                                                                                                                                                        2) Back off some. 2 years of 24/7 with anyone is enough to make anyone relationship weary. Go out with friends and encourage him to do the same. Don't live in a bubble...that shit never works.
                                                                                                                                                                                        3) Do LITTLE things for him after awhile and see if he returns the affection. Things like kissing him before bed, buying him a token of affection (small), or simply looking deep into his eyes at the right moment and letting him know how you feel. Big things aren't the memorable events in relationships, little things are. All relationships live and die with the little things.

                                                                                                                                                                                        If he doesn't return the affection, move the fuck on and find someone who will appreciate you.

                                                                                                                                                                                        If you don't want to keep him.
                                                                                                                                                                                        1) Kick his ass out. (you must give him 30 days notice as per law)
                                                                                                                                                                                        2) BE ALONE FOR AWHILE. I hear so many men and women (mostly women) say that they are fearful of being alone. If that's the case, you absolutely MUST learn to be alone or you're going to jump from bad relationship to bad relationship. Fixing what is broken inside yourself is 100x harder when you're tied to someone else than when you're alone.

                                                                                                                                                                                        ABOVE ALL ELSE: Take care of your kids (I'm sure it goes without saying). They will be there long after any man and will love you unconditionally and deserve the same in return.

                                                                                                                                                                                        Good luck, Heather, I wish you all the best.

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                                                                                                                                                                                          • Heather Hamptons
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                                                                                                                                                                                            • Oct 2003
                                                                                                                                                                                            • 2306
                                                                                                                                                                                            #97
                                                                                                                                                                                            Originally posted by Id.Ego
                                                                                                                                                                                            1) Women are needy, needy, needy.
                                                                                                                                                                                            2) Men are needy, needy, needy.

                                                                                                                                                                                            The difference is that women need attention and men need time away.

                                                                                                                                                                                            The people that say you should be doing <b>MORE</b> for this guy are ridiculous. It sounds like you do a lot already. Hell, I've never had a woman pay my bills but if I did, I sure would start taking it for granted.

                                                                                                                                                                                            Here's my advice:

                                                                                                                                                                                            If you want to keep him and work this out.
                                                                                                                                                                                            1) Go to group counseling. Sometimes things can't be said unless another person is there as a buffer.
                                                                                                                                                                                            2) Back off some. 2 years of 24/7 with anyone is enough to make anyone relationship weary. Go out with friends and encourage him to do the same. Don't live in a bubble...that shit never works.
                                                                                                                                                                                            3) Do LITTLE things for him after awhile and see if he returns the affection. Things like kissing him before bed, buying him a token of affection (small), or simply looking deep into his eyes at the right moment and letting him know how you feel. Big things aren't the memorable events in relationships, little things are. All relationships live and die with the little things.

                                                                                                                                                                                            If he doesn't return the affection, move the fuck on and find someone who will appreciate you.

                                                                                                                                                                                            If you don't want to keep him.
                                                                                                                                                                                            1) Kick his ass out. (you must give him 30 days notice as per law)
                                                                                                                                                                                            2) BE ALONE FOR AWHILE. I hear so many men and women (mostly women) say that they are fearful of being alone. If that's the case, you absolutely MUST learn to be alone or you're going to jump from bad relationship to bad relationship. Fixing what is broken inside yourself is 100x harder when you're tied to someone else than when you're alone.

                                                                                                                                                                                            ABOVE ALL ELSE: Take care of your kids (I'm sure it goes without saying). They will be there long after any man and will love you unconditionally and deserve the same in return.

                                                                                                                                                                                            Good luck, Heather, I wish you all the best.
                                                                                                                                                                                            VERY good advice. I think the counseling thing may be just what we need. Im willing to do it. Ill mention it to him and see how he feels. I dont think he'll fight me on it
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                                                                                                                                                                                              • Shoehorn!
                                                                                                                                                                                                Die With Your Boots On
                                                                                                                                                                                                • Oct 2003
                                                                                                                                                                                                • 22872
                                                                                                                                                                                                #98
                                                                                                                                                                                                Originally posted by Heather Hamptons


                                                                                                                                                                                                lol www.heatherhamptons.com <---my pics and stuff

                                                                                                                                                                                                A week in hawaii huh? sounds great to me
                                                                                                                                                                                                I'll pick you up at the airport in an hour. Be there.

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                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Mogulman
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                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Aug 2003
                                                                                                                                                                                                    • 568
                                                                                                                                                                                                    #99
                                                                                                                                                                                                    Originally posted by Heather Hamptons


                                                                                                                                                                                                    VERY good advice. I think the counseling thing may be just what we need. Im willing to do it. Ill mention it to him and see how he feels. I dont think he'll fight me on it
                                                                                                                                                                                                    I'm personally against relationship counseling. It has been a rare experience for me to come across a couple that went to counseling and grew stronger as a result. Do what you need to make you happy, but I'd say if you're coming to this point, you'd might as well call it the point of no return.

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                                                                                                                                                                                                      • SleazyDream
                                                                                                                                                                                                        I'm here for SPORT
                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Jul 2001
                                                                                                                                                                                                        • 41470
                                                                                                                                                                                                        #100
                                                                                                                                                                                                        <img src=http://www.heatherhamptons.com/pix/tourgallery2/hhpromo7.jpg>

                                                                                                                                                                                                        when I see that pic i just want to take you to a nice hotel and fuck your brains out all night long
                                                                                                                                                                                                        This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                                                                                                                                                        Now read without the word dog.

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