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Originally posted by sexeducation
I will deal with each of concerns separately ...
if the thread goes wild ..
just remind me that I missed one of your concerns ...
This is essay is one of the best ABSTINENCE essays I have ever written.
And as usual for pushing buttons - IT PUSHING BUTTONS - mega time.
Basically, for the first 3/4 of the article you actually think I'm promoting teen sex however, it all gets flipped around and there is no logical arguement that teens should wait until their bodies are done changing before having partner sex.
And is one of the most favourite and best read articles on the old SexEducation.com website - WITH NO COMPLAINTS....
In that essay, from real chats I have had with teens (remember I didn't know then that this might be a legal situation - I learned risk management right here on GFY - wouldn't do that again) anyways, I quoted the top five reasons why BOTH adults and TEENAGERS say it was okay to have partner sex in a tone that agreed with them, then I BLASTED ALL THE REASONS and ended with this ...
"It is well known to the medical community how hormones affect decision making and behaviour. The PMS woman must ask if she is truly angry or be affected by her condition, the pregnant woman also has "emotional" issues, the andriopausal male the same.
Most religions have a way of explaining it ...
and it goes like this ...
If you are in a dream standing beside a cliff- and a bear charges you, should you jump off the cliff or face the bear? The answer is - you can not answer the question from the context of the question. You can NOT make a risk decision while you are dreaming.
Therefore, all teenagers should wait until their bodies are done changing before making the decision to have partner sex.
Being an adult has nothing to do with body hair, or sexual experience, it's about knowing something may be affecting your decisions - and waiting to do the right thing."
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"So when you are done surfing those other sites, and reading their politically and religiously correct answers you enter this website to become a sexually advanced adult."
Is this not saying that once the teen is done reading your articles and surfing your site, they are a sexually advanced adult? Where is your degree btw? Did you go to school in order to counsel teens about sex? I am just curious. By your own standards, if you are not giving them the correct information, you could be damaging them for life right? I just want to know what qualifies you to counsel teens in the ways of sex at all? Don't tell me about some research either. I want to hear about schooling you have received in teen psychology or something to that effect. Not personal internet research or book reading. Hell, I can read a book on how to catch fish but that doesn't mean I can automatically go out and start teaching fishing classes. If your intentions were good as you say, why would you go about it in such a twisted way? Why would you throw up red flags? If you were trying to get parents to read up on sex with their kids, I think you were way off base bro. Again, just my view on this. Follow?